I like a passage from "Breaking Away":

Hongchen has seen through it, but it is just ups and downs,

The beauty is seen through, but it is just a skin.

I used to feel uncomfortable, and I would cry because I couldn't solve it.

Now it's uncomfortable, and I'll laugh because it doesn't matter.

Whose life is not a piece of chicken feathers,

It's just that someone chooses hysteria,

Some choose to remain silent.

What are the rules of the charlatans?

The rules of the rivers and lakes are that people go to tea and cool, and the tacit understanding ends,

Don't ask the reason, if you ask, you just don't understand the rules.

Lin Huiyin also used to have similar words, I forget if I mentioned it before. However, whether mentioned or not, I still want to use her classic words to describe the scene at this time, which is a little sad and realistic, but society is like this:

Any relationship goes to the end,

It's just an acquaintance.

Those who have a heart are tired.

Those who have no heart, it doesn't matter.

Many times, it's not who keeps you awake at night.

It's all the good things you once dreamed of,

Inadvertently going farther and farther,

Even, collapse in an instant!

It turns out, and some people have the best ending,

It's that there is no news of each other.

Speaking of which, I would like to add on this basis: this is not limited to love......

Just like his father and his old classmates, others chose to run at the age of struggle, but he chose comfort at the age when he should have struggled.

If there is no cause, it will not be fruitful, and if the opportunity is not invested, the cause will not be fruitful.

With the passage of time, a group of "old classmates" in the year of confusion gave my father a profound lesson with extremely realistic words and actions:

Social status determines the breadth and depth of the circle, different levels, different realms, forced entry will only bring humiliation.

I came home in a huff and told my mother everything that had happened, and complained about his behavior.

"Mom, you said that everyone drove him away, why didn't he leave, and asked why? And no matter how angry I was, how I dragged him, how I pulled him, he didn't move!"

"Mom, why is he different in front of outsiders and in front of his family?"

"Mom, why is it that you can always greet each other with a smile and talk eloquently in front of outsiders, but at home, you are cold and hideous?"

"Mom, what do you think will happen to him if he stays in the end?"

......

My mother and I complained a lot about my father, but my mother's expression never changed, she looked at me quietly, and listened to me talk about the bitterness in my heart, just nodded and didn't say anything.

It wasn't until I poured out all the bitter water in my heart that my mother said to me: "Dunzi, you must know that my father is an adult, and he must have his reasons for doing this, maybe you don't understand, no matter what, he is always your father." No matter what happens at home, in front of outsiders, you must support him unconditionally. ”

"Oh......"

I thought that my mother would take this opportunity to vent her inner dissatisfaction with my father, I thought that my mother would watch my father's jokes after listening to them, and at the same time ridicule my father, and I thought that my mother would stand on my side and sing and harmonize with me to denounce my father's many wrongs......

However, the result was very different from what I had imagined, and what I thought was not what I thought! And my mother's last statement surprised me greatly, and even subverted what I had always thought I knew about my mother.

How can this be?

Although my heart was full of infinite dissatisfaction and I disagreed with my mother's words very much, I still stubbornly responded.

I didn't understand, and I couldn't refute my mother's words, but then I didn't have much interest in chatting, and I didn't say anything after all.

It was night, and my father came back very late, and he didn't get home until about eleven or twelve o'clock.

......

Following.

I was not convinced, and deliberately mentioned yesterday's incident to my father.

"Dad, what time did you come back last night? My mom and I both went to bed and didn't know you were in the door. ”

"Yesterday it was less than twelve o'clock. "My father seemed to realize what I wanted to ask.

"Hehe, those guys didn't call me to eat, and let me go! Hmph, I didn't make them happy in the end!" said the father with some triumph.

"Oh?" my father said, and I immediately became interested, and my resentment towards my father eased at the same time: "Dad, how did you teach them a lesson after I left?"

"Hehe!" said the father with a smile, pretending to be mysterious, "Didn't they drive me away?"

"Then how did you deal with them, tell me quickly, and let me vent my bad anger too!" I was a little eager to respond to my father.

"At that time, I was thinking, don't they want me to eat, don't they hate me for not having a high position as theirs, do they want to drive me away? Hmph! I want to blind their hearts!"

"I stood up and leaned against the wall closest to their table, and looked at them, making them uncomfortable eating!"

"Huh?" "My brain circuits are a little inadequate at the moment, and I thought I was arguing, fighting, arguing, and stalking...... My father thought about all the "world-beating skills" we used at home, but I didn't expect that it would be such a result!

Actually...... Unexpectedly...... But...... But......

I scratched my head and asked my father again to verify the truth: "You watched them all night?"

"Of course!"

"You, standing against the wall, watched for a night?" asked again.

"yes, just make them uncomfortable!"

"You stood against the wall and watched them drink wine and eat meat for a night?" asked San.

"Well, look at how they can get by in their hearts!"

"You're just standing and watching?" asked the fourth.

In fact, there is still a sentence in my heart that I haven't asked, that is, "Isn't it a shame?" but because of my father's "world-beating might" when he broke out with all his might, I never had that guts.

My father obviously didn't understand what I meant, and then said: "Hey, then Zhang Xu really couldn't stand it, so he personally made me a stool and asked me to sit down and eat with them!"

"And then you sat down?" I was surprised.

"That's not true! You are also a very backbone person!" The father suddenly showed an unprecedented arrogance, and said: "If they let me sit, I will sit? If they let me eat, I will eat? No way!"

"I tell them, Lao Tzu will stand and watch you eat! See if you can eat! See if you can eat with peace of mind! Let you gather without calling Lao Tzu! Let you not give Lao Tzu face! Lao Tzu will not die if you are disgusted!"

"What happened later?" asked the sixth.

"Then they ate until almost twelve o'clock, and they added several dishes......

After listening, my mind was full of black lines, and I was speechless again, it was really Tagnion's backbone!