3. The first divination
Xiao E's greed for money or greed for small cheapness deeply hurt him. He wanted to make a fortune, and he inadvertently said it in the office and was heard by the director of the department, so he lied to him about how rich Yin Lan's family was, and there would be a lot of dowries to marry her, and there would be tens of thousands of cash and so on, so Xiao E pushed away the other matchmakers and decided to meet. The first impression was okay, Yan Hu said that you went to the movies the next night. The third time they met, Yin Lan insisted on getting engaged, saying that it was her parents' meaning. Back in the rental room, Director Li, an old teacher who lived in the same hospital, asked him about his progress, and Xiao E replied truthfully, Director Li said that how could he get engaged so soon, you still don't know it? There must be a problem here, you have to be careful. Xiao E intuitively felt that something was wrong with Yin Yu and Yan Hu, but there was no evidence, so he hesitated about the engagement. He ran to the post office and called Wang Zheng, a high school classmate who worked in the provincial capital, about this matter, and he resolutely objected, "If you don't have a job, you will be in trouble in the future, and you don't know her character, personality and family situation, how can you get engaged in such a hurry?" He came home depressed, Yin Lan was waiting for him, he said that good buddies are unwilling, Yin Lan said Of course you listen to your buddies, what are others. When Xiao E heard this, he felt that he had a good idea, and then looked at Yin Lan's thin skin and tender flesh, he was not young, and his right arm was disabled, and he was a little reluctant, so he hesitated for three days, but he was still engaged, and they got married in a hurry a month later. Before getting married, he had three hexagrams, all of which were "Tianfeng Ji" hexagrams.
Women are strong, don't use to marry women. As the elephant said: If you meet a concubine, don't marry a woman, don't grow up.
Ninety-three: The buttocks have no skin, and their lines are in order. Great, no big blame. Xiang said: Its line is not involved.
Verdict:
Spring goes to autumn and things are not easy, and it is advisable to move forward with the future.
The three geese flew one after another, and Wu Yue went, and the same group did not know his heart when he was old.
A few times I lost my footing and relied on someone to help me, and it was possible to abandon the old and start a new thing.
After the remnants of flowers and leaves return to spring, gulls and herons fly separately.
This is the only hexagram in the 64 hexagrams that divides marriage. The hexagram shows that a woman with five husbands is a big murderer, and the problem of being cowardly and soft in the face of things directly brought him into the abyss of life.
Xiao E felt that Yin Lan was an underworld member, always making people's hearts beat, and he was not happy at first. But the matchmaker said that her family has money, as long as you get married, you have a color TV, refrigerator, washing machine, and 50,000 cash. At that time, Xiao E was also dizzy, and pie fell from the sky, which was a trap. And in his mind, most of the women he read were angels or weakling, the women in his village were kind, hardworking, and simple, even if Yin Lan had a bad character, as long as she used the right methods, she could train well and become a good wife and mother.
However, the reality is: Yin Lan spent all his savings for several years after they got married, bought Mulan (women's motorcycle), and bought nearly 3,000 yuan of clothes in the clothing store opened by his sister, and his monthly salary was only 150 yuan. When the new women's clothes come, she always stays, and if she has no money, she will take credit first, and Xiao E will pay her salary back.
Xiao E criticized her for spending money lavishly and asking her to save some money, she sneered and said: You are a poor bird, you don't have money to marry a daughter-in-law?
In September 1997, Yan Hu became the principal with the efforts of his father, the secretary of the Fujia Village branch in Dongsheng Town, and the first thing he did was to criticize Xiao E's poor ability to manage the class and his lack of discipline. "Now the Central Committee is holding the 15th National Congress of the Communist Party of China, vigorously developing privatization, and privatization of schools is also a general trend. If you don't work hard, just wait to be laid off, and you won't raise idlers anywhere!" all the teachers kept their heads down, for fear of being laid off. Since then, the wind of layoffs has permeated the entire school and even the entire county, causing panic among people.
Mei Xiaoe was bullied by Yan Hu at work, and she raised a loser at home, full of pain, and wanted to die. On the way off work, Liu Qiang saw that he was depressed, so he persuaded him to want to drive some. "Mourning is greater than the death of the heart, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and it is necessary to cheer up. Xiao E and him have nothing to say, they are really confidants and friends, they both got married in the same month, and he seems to be more than young, Xiao E seems to have fallen into the abyss. Xiao Liu joked: "You still study "Zhou Yi" all day long, why didn't your marriage be calculated?" Xiao E couldn't cry and laughed, and said: "I have hexagrams several times, the book says that there is a daughter and five husbands, such a woman can't be wanted, but she runs to my residence to cry and cry and just won't leave, my heart is too soft." Xiao Liu shook his head with a smile and said, "If kindness is too much, it is cowardice, and it will be taken advantage of." "Female colleague Pony always sings when she sees him: You are always too soft-hearted, too soft-hearted, and take all the problems by yourself.