Yuan Jie said, "What's wrong with my eyes?"

Han Gang said: "Let's just say that yesterday, you looked at my mother's pair of socks hanging on the hanger on the balcony, your eyes were full of contempt, and you twisted your head far away, like hiding from some plague, who do you say you are doing this? If my mother sees it, what will she think?"

Yuan Jie was also unhappy: "I haven't mentioned this yet, but you brought it up, are the socks hanging on the top of the head? People are walking down there, dripping water on the top of the neck, do you think this is good? If this drops on me, forget it, when I take the child to the balcony to bask in the sun, what should I do if the water drips in the child's mouth?"

Han Gang said: "People are alive, so you won't walk around the dots?"

Yuan Jie said: "Aren't you contradicting yourself? I hid away, and when you saw it, you said that I disliked your mother, and said that I was hiding from the plague!"

Han Gang was stunned by Yuan Jie here, and helplessly bypassed the topic and said: "I see that you just don't like anything now, as soon as I pick up this child, you quickly take it, either worried that I will flash to his neck or worry that I will twist his waist, where is the waist of such a big child? On the construction site, I can even move dozens of kilograms of steel pipes, and I can't hold such a small child!"

Yuan Jie said: "Can steel pipes be compared with children?"

Han Gang continued to complain: "You said that I wouldn't hold the child, just don't let me hold it, and my mother won't worry about holding you." My mother just put the child on her bed that day, and you immediately picked the child up, and what do you think will happen to my mother if she puts the child on her bed? Don't you think her bed is unhygienic? That's my mother, I was born to her, are you mistaken!"

Yuan Jie said: "I don't talk to you about this, anyway, I just want my mother to help me take care of the child." ”

Han Gang hesitated for a long time and said, "Do you want to take a look at your current problem that doesn't please your eyes?"

Yuan Jie asked strangely, "What are you looking at?"

Han Gang pondered the words for a long time and said: "I saw newspapers and magazines saying that many mothers are in a bad mood after giving birth and don't like anything, will this be the case for you?"

Only then did Yuan Jie understand what Han Gang meant, and she said disdainfully: "Cut! You can really figure it out, do you mean that I have postpartum depression? What do you want!"

Han Gang said: "Then why do you feel like a completely different person after giving birth to a child and before you conceive a child?"

Anyway, there are two choices, either let my mother come to live here, or I take the child back to my mother's house to live, you can do it yourself, anyway, I am doing it for the good of the child. ”

At this moment, Han Gang's mother came back from buying vegetables, and as soon as she entered the door, she took out a fish from the vegetable basket and said to Yuan Jie: "I finished eating the stewed pork ribs yesterday, and today I bought a big fish, and I will eat fish today." Do you prefer braised or sweet and sour?"

Yuan Jie, who was tired of big fish and meat, turned a blind eye to her mother-in-law's overtures, she frowned and said, "You can do anything, I can't eat much anyway, you can do whatever you like." ”

Han Gang listened and said: "Then how can it be done, it depends on your taste, you can eat more now, you are eating two people's meals alone, if you don't eat a little more, how can you feed the children?"

Han Gang noticed Yuan Jie's expression, and hurriedly said to his mother: "Mom, we are eating breakfast, this fish is fishy, take it to the kitchen." ”

Han Gang quickly put the fish back in the basket and said, "You eat, eat more, I'll go and scrape the scales." ”

After Han Gang saw his mother enter the kitchen, he quietly asked Yuan Jie: "When I was away, did you quarrel with my mother?"

Yuan Jie said: "Why don't you go and ask your mother, if I quarrel with her, will she not tell you?"

Han Gang asked, "Is that because of money?"

Yuan Jie asked inexplicably, "What money?"

Han Gang said: "My mother came here to spend another person, is this the reason?"

Yuan Jie said: "I'll just say, you can really figure it out! What is my current salary and bonus in a month? How much can your mother eat in a month? Will I care about this money? If I care about this money, will I hire a nanny again?"

Han Gang said, "Then why are you?"

Yuan Jie said impatiently: "I won't tell you, lest your mother hear it, that's the reason I said just now, I want my mother to take care of the child." With that, she turned and went into the bedroom and closed the door.

Looking at Yuan Jie who was walking away, Han Gang felt helpless, in housework, he never could resist Yuan Jie.

It is said that daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are natural enemies, and now Han Gang knows the true meaning of this sentence in his heart. According to Han Gang's own thoughts, his mother worked so hard to help Yuan Jie take care of the child, and there should be hard work without credit. Yuan Jie should be grateful for this, but how could she think of a reason to drive her mother home?

Although Han Gang was quite dissatisfied with Yuan Jie's approach, he had no final say on this matter except for arguing with reason.

On one side is the daughter-in-law and the son, and on the other side is the mother, if you insist on keeping the mother according to your own ideas, the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law will be stiffened, and it will be more difficult to mediate by yourself, and more importantly, such a rigid relationship will not benefit the child at all.

But if you do it according to Yuan Jie's words, how can her mother explain it to her? Han Gang, who had no decision-making power at home before, now feels that he is caught in the middle and is in a dilemma.

But this matter can't be delayed, the day after tomorrow my vacation will be over, and I want to return to the work unit, if this problem is not solved in time, I will not be at home for the next 1~2 weeks, if Yuan Jie and his mother have a conflict, the child will be difficult to do.

After lunch at noon, while Yuan Jie took the child to take a nap, Han Gang came to his mother's bedroom and said to his mother: "Mom, Yuan Jie sees that you have been working hard here to take care of the child for the past two months, and wants you to go home to rest for a while, and the child asked her mother to help take care of it for a while." ”

When Han Gang's mother heard this, she pondered for a while and asked, "Is it because your daughter-in-law dislikes me and thinks that I can't take care of the child well?"

Han Gang hurriedly explained: "No, it depends on where you want to go." You've been here for almost three months, and Yuan Jie is worried that you're tired, so she wants you to rest for a while and change her mother to help take it. ”

Han Gang's mother sighed: "Don't excuse her, I am such a big person, can I still understand her thoughts? She just thinks I don't bring it well, and I don't compare it with her, anyway, I know that my daughter-in-law is different from my daughter-in-law, not a family, and my heart is separated by a layer." How can I compare with her mother, just like how can her relationship with me be worthy of your sister's relationship with me, don't you say? If she wants her mother to take care of the child, let her come, as long as it is for the good of the child, whatever you want. ”

Han Gang saw that his mother was so forbearant and so deeply aware of righteousness, and he felt very uncomfortable. But the thorny problem in front of him was finally solved, so he said apologetically: "Mom, you go back to recuperate for two months first, and after Yuan Jie and her mother go back in the last two months, I will pick you up." When the child is older, there will not be so many things, so let you come up and take care of it and relax. ”

Han Gang's mother said: "You stupid boy, how can there be less things for a child of four or five months? Before the child is three years old and sent to kindergarten, someone has to watch him every day, and after you are sent to kindergarten, you may have a little leisure, and you will be busy in the future." ”

Han Gang said: "Okay, I know, I can't be busy when the time comes, please help us bring it." ”

Han Gang's mother said, "As long as your daughter-in-law is willing!"

Han Gang said: "Then I'll buy you a ticket tomorrow, and you will go back the day after tomorrow?"

Han Gang's mother said, "Did your mother-in-law say yes? I will leave the day after tomorrow, can she come over and help take care of the child?"

Han Gang pretended to be relaxed and said, "You see why are you still worried about this?" She said that if she asked her mother to come over, she must have said that it was okay, besides, her mother is more than 20 miles away from here, and she will come over after more than an hour after making a phone call. ”

Han Gang's mother said worriedly: "It's not a problem that you haven't been at home for many years! Look at that child, you won't let you hug him, and if you hug him, he will cry, which means that you are a stranger in the eyes of this child! You have to talk to your leader quickly and find a way to transfer him back." Otherwise, this child will not recognize you as a father when he grows up. ”

Han Gang said helplessly: "I've been thinking of a way, but it's not a matter of a day or two, you have to find a chance, don't you?"

Han Gang's mother said: "You have to be careful about this, I heard Yuan Jie say that her current salary is several times that of yours, isn't that true? If this is the case, you have to be transferred back as soon as possible, otherwise you have not had a family income for a long time and do not have a high daughter-in-law, how can the relationship between husband and wife be good in the future." ”

Han Gang said, "Mom, I know. ”

After dinner, when his mother went downstairs for a walk, Han Gang said to Yuan Jie: "I have already told my mother, I will buy her a ticket tomorrow, and she will go back the day after tomorrow, and your mother will take care of the child from then on." ”

Yuan Jie said happily: "Your mother agreed, then I will call my mother later and ask her to come over the day after tomorrow." ”

Han Gang said, "You wait first, I haven't finished my sentence yet." ”

Yuan Jie asked, "What else do you have to say?"

Han Gang said, "I said, can you be nicer to my mother?"

Yuan Jie said unhappily: "Where did I treat her badly?"

Han Gang endured the fire in his heart, and said in a slow tone as much as possible: "It's not that you treat her badly, I mean, can you see how I treat your mother, I always greet your mother with a smile, and never look at her with disdain, can you learn from me, treat my mother like I do to your mother? How would you feel if I treated your mother the same way you did to my mother?"