Chapter 34: Havoc at School
In a blink of an eye, I was happy to go to school, and every time I picked up my child, parents were hotly discussing this topic and all kinds of plans. Every time, I listened intently, but I didn't join in on their topic, and I thought it was logical to go wherever I needed to go according to the school district.
Kindergarten is about to graduate, happy to take a graduation photo, that graduation photo, chubby little face, with a shallow smile, bright and confident eyes, the whole photo is full of happiness, this wonderful time has become my best memory, but also happy and happiest past.
That day, my husband came back and told me, "A friend of his, who has a way to send his child to Guangming Primary School, has asked this friend to do it." ”
I was shocked: "Guangming Primary School is the best elementary school in the city, how many people want to send their children to it! ”
But on second thought, this is too much of a move, Guangming Primary School is in the south of the city, and we are in the west of the city, which is almost across a city. Also, where do we stay? What will I do when I go to work? I expressed concern about my husband.
My husband said: "How many people can't ask for a child to go to the best school, what are you hesitating about." We can create as many conditions as we can for children. "I have a feeling of unease, but I don't know how to refute my husband, after all, he also thinks about the children.
In this way, I applied for a job transfer, and we took out a loan to buy a one-bedroom and one-bedroom small affordable house near the school, registered my child, and the child put on the school uniform of Guangming Primary School, and became a student of a prestigious school that everyone envies.
This seems to be a good beginning, but it does not continue to be beautiful, and the pain is approaching us, until it is a chicken feather.
Parents in the south of the city pay close attention to their children's education, and the kindergartens in the south of the city teach a lot of things, and I have paid more attention to the health and happiness of happiness over the years, and have never asked him to learn more in his studies, nor have I deliberately let him learn things beyond the curriculum. As soon as they enter the first grade, the huge gap is revealed, and the confidence that children have accumulated in kindergarten is eroded.
The teacher taught almost all the children in the kindergarten or in the training class outside, but Xingxing didn't learn it, the teacher spoke very quickly, and Xingxing couldn't accept it at all. Although I tutored Xingxing until late every night, the school progress was too fast and the learning was too deep for Xingxing to keep up at all. Seeing that I was tired of coping and still couldn't keep up, I became more and more anxious.
From the big house to the snail house, I feel that my body and mind are bound in this hut, the most annoying thing is that the children's grades are always at the bottom, I feel that my life has become very bad and bad, every day in this environment, my temper towards my husband is getting bigger and bigger, and I feel that our relationship between husband and wife is about to freeze.
That's it, after three years, Happy is already in the third grade, I'm not happy, and I feel that the child is not happy.
It all erupted in one event after one thing.
That day, when I picked up my children from school and walked to the door, one of my happy classmates turned his face to me and said, "Auntie, today Mr. Huo said that Happy is a nerd." ”
After hearing this, my lungs were about to be cheated, so I walked to the school with joy, and that Teacher Huo had already left the school.
I silently pulled my joy, tears welling up in my eyes, how much my child was discriminated against at school. I asked in distress, "Is that what the teacher said about you?"
Happy and calmly said: "That's the case, everyone will do it, but I won't yet." ”
I pulled my happy hand tighter and asked, "Are you angry that she said that about you?"
Happy to say, "Don't be angry." ”
I was amazed, "Why don't you get angry?"
Happy: "She is a teacher, it is wrong for her to say that the student is this, why should I be angry." ”
I was speechless, I couldn't believe that my child could think like this, my heart was so distressed that I couldn't breathe, and I even wanted to kill this teacher.
When I went home, I accompanied my child to finish his homework, washed up and went to bed, and I fell asleep quickly as usual.
I slept next to my happy face, tears streaming down my face.
My husband came back and saw me like this and asked me what was wrong, I turned my face away, I didn't want to talk, and I slept next to Happy that night, and I didn't sleep all night.
In the morning, I drove Gao Gao to school, and after Gao Gao entered, I waited at the school gate for a while, and when the parents left one after another, I walked into the gatehouse, and the doorman said that I couldn't go in, and I said that I was going to complain to the principal, and the teacher abused the child. If you don't let me in, I'm going to go to the Education Bureau today to file a complaint, and you still call the principal and say that a parent has come to him to complain.
The doorman called and said the principal was waiting for me in the office.
I went in, and instead of going directly to the principal's office, I went to the office of the third-grade group, I went into the office, there were several teachers in the office, and Teacher Huo was also in the office, and I held back my anger and walked to Teacher Huo's desk. Teacher Huo was a little surprised and looked up at me. I said loudly, "Teacher Huo, I heard that you said in the class yesterday that you were happy to be a nerd, right?"
The other teachers immediately stopped their pens and looked up at me.
Teacher Huo replied in a low voice: "Yesterday there was a question, the whole class knew it, and I told your child again, but he still can't." ”
I reluctantly said, "He won't, so you call him a fool." If you talk to him like this in front of the whole class, can his self-esteem stand it? Can you bear to hurt a child like this?"
Teacher Huo didn't say anything.
I continued: "It's a child, there will always be advantages, you have never praised my child, so please don't insult my child either, if he can't do that question, you can tell me, I'll tell him, I won't speak, I'll ask someone to talk to the child until he understands, okay?
Teacher Huo muttered a sentence in a low voice: "Your child has no merits, and I can't delay the spring of this class for the sake of this unblooming flower." ”
Her voice was small, but I could hear every word clearly, and all my restraint exploded at that moment. I slammed the table and said loudly: "As a teacher, you actually say that a child has no merit, that is, you don't have a pair of eyes to discover, and you actually say that my child is a flower that does not bloom, delaying the whole spring, I tell you, this flower is the whole spring of our family." ”
My high octave voice became weird because of excitement, and the teachers in other offices soon gathered around, only to see the happy head teacher hurriedly running over, grabbed me and whispered: "Happy Mom, don't be too excited, we have something to say." ”
I angrily took out my mobile phone from my pocket and said to Teacher Huo: "I won't tell you, I have recorded every word of yours, and I will ask your principal and the director of education to evaluate me whether you are a qualified teacher." ”
Teacher Huo looked at me in shock and didn't say a word.
The head teacher pulled me, I walked out of the office, and said to the head teacher, "I'll go to the principal's office, you can do your business." ”
I went to the principal's office, and the principal was very gentle, and I told me what I was here for, and he listened quietly all the time. After saying that, probably due to the calm influence of the principal, I was not so excited.
The principal listened attentively, poured me a glass of water, and said, "Drink saliva." ”
I picked up the cup and took a sip of water, I was relieved, but then my worries also rose, how would my children stay in this school after I was like this.
The principal said kindly: "Teacher Huo's teaching ability is still very strong, but the problem exposed today is also very serious, it is not right for her to hurt a student in language like this, yes, let's find Teacher Huo to understand the situation and give you an answer tomorrow, okay?"
I thought about it, and there was nothing more to say. Get up and say goodbye: "Headmaster, I believe in you, I wait for your reply." ”
I didn't find anything unusual about Xing Xing when I came home that day, and I didn't sleep all night, and the next day I went to the principal's office at the appointed time.
The principal told me his handling opinions, first of all, let Mr. Huo make a deep review, take the initiative to find the child to eliminate the impact on the child, and secondly, for the continuation of the teaching of this class, Huo Lao took it to the end of this semester, and then participated in two months of education and training before taking up the post. I hope that this matter will not be expanded again, if you are willing, delete the recording, and give Teacher Huo a chance, through this matter, she can grow into an excellent teacher.
I told me about my concerns, and the principal smiled and said, "Don't worry, I'm glad that my classmates won't be affected by this matter." ”
I expressed my satisfaction and left the school saying goodbye to the principal.
Sigh to the sky, why has my life become like this!