The doctor told me that it was best not to get out of bed and go to the bathroom for three days, because the squatting action would cause me to bleed profusely.

I've spent two days in bed, watching my mother busy, and I feel sorry for my mother.

On the morning of the third day, when I wanted to go to the toilet, the mother took the child to the nurse to bathe the child, and the husband went to get the medicine. I tried to get out of bed myself, walked twice, felt very good, and went to the toilet along the handle of the corridor, I went to the toilet, instinctively wanted to close the door, but hesitated for a moment, and did not close the door. I squatted down slowly, and the moment I squatted down, I felt like the world was spinning, and I called for help weakly: "Help--- help---" Fortunately, there was someone in the toilet next door, and they quickly came over to help me up, and I fainted.

By the time I woke up again, I was already in bed, my mother sitting on the side of the child's bed, and my husband sitting on the edge of my bed. When my husband saw that I was awake, he quickly asked if I wanted to drink water?

The mother came over and said angrily: "Your child has been disobedient since he was a child, can you not make your own decisions in the future, you are now a person with children, and you are responsible for the child." ”

Seeing that my mother's eyes were already red due to exertion, I quickly replied, "I will definitely do what the doctor asks in the future." Mom was about to say something, but she looked at me, sighed, and sat down next to the stroller.

The doctor also severely criticized me, saying that if no one found me at that time, I would have suffered heavy bleeding and the consequences would be unimaginable. I was also very scared, thinking that I was always self-righteous and very annoyed. Mom is right, when you have a child, you have to be careful and have a responsibility.

When the day of discharge from the hospital came, my father, brother, and sister-in-law came, and they were all full of joy when they looked at Xiao Xing. I was taken back to my mother's house.

Confinement at my mother's house is happy, and being happy in confinement is four things: drinking milk, peeing, smelling and sleeping. He sleeps 22 hours a day, 24 hours a day. Feed once every 3 hours, if you cry, either urinate, or pull, or cry, especially easy to bring.

Because I didn't have milk, all my dad got up early every morning to go to the cow's house to get fresh milk, my mom got up early to cook for me, and the two of them hurried to work on their bikes when they were done. At noon, my mother rushed back to cook for me, and when my father came back, he picked up Xiao Xing and went all over the village. After getting off work in the afternoon, my mother came back, beckoned me to finish eating, and went to the village with Xiao Xing Xing. There are many people in the countryside, you hug for a while, he hugs for a while, and the time passes quickly.

Dad heard that bovine colostrum was rich in nutrients, so he asked everyone about the calves of the cows in the nearby village. As long as there is, no matter how far away the village is, Dad will ride a bicycle to get it, Xiao Xingxing has drunk at least 4 cows' colostrum, every time he drinks colostrum, Xiao Xing Laba is particularly difficult, and once he actually broke his buttocks. Later, we learned that bovine colostrum is very viscous and needs to be added a lot of water to it. When I was about 15 days old, my mother suddenly called me one day: "Hurry, come and see, Xiao Xingxing's ears have grown." I quickly ran to the child, carefully looked at the little happy left ear chakra, really grown, bent down, I gently stroked his left ear chakra, just slightly thinner than the right ear chakra, but outsiders absolutely can't see it.

It's just amazing, the doctor was right, the ears really grow.

What a joy and happiness it is to take care of the children with my parents, in the blink of an eye, it has been two months since Xiao Xing, I should also go to work, and I have to go back to my own home. I discussed with my husband, I can only ask my mother-in-law to help, my mother-in-law is a very responsible rural old lady, there are not many things, I don't think there is any problem, but I still want to be simple.

On the first day my mother-in-law came, I showed my mother-in-law the process of making milk, at that time, there was a spoon in the milk powder that Xiao Xing drank, a spoonful of milk powder 30 ml of water, and Xiao Xing drank milk six times a day for two months, 150 ml each time. The mother-in-law said, "Why do you put so much milk powder in this milk, it's too much." I said to my mother-in-law, "This is according to the amount, a spoonful of 30 ml of water, 150 ml of water you can pour in 5 spoonfuls of it." I looked at my mother-in-law's frightened expression and smiled. He said, "Mom, it's really not much. ”

On the first day my mother-in-law took the child, the child cried non-stop, and I didn't find out why. In the evening, I made milk powder for Xiao Xing, the pacifier was not to Xiao Xingxing's mouth, he was anxious to find, and he was very eager when he sucked, and after drinking, he stopped crying, fell asleep, and there were tears in the corners of his eyes.

I don't think it's right, I looked at the bag of milk powder, a bag of milk powder is happy to eat for three days, today this bag of milk powder should be eaten, but there is still milk powder in the milk powder bag, I immediately understood, and asked my mother-in-law angrily: "Mom, how many spoonfuls of milk powder did you put in the child's milk powder today?"

The mother-in-law hesitated and said, "Three or four spoonfuls." ”

I was a little anxious, my tone was a little stiff, and I said, "Mom, didn't I tell you, 150 ml of water, put 5 spoons of milk powder, why don't you listen?"

The mother-in-law was stunned for a moment and replied: "I didn't have enough milk to flush the milk powder for the child, but I didn't put so much, you have too much, and the child will eat bad." ”

My voice was an octave higher, and I cried: "Mom, I told you, this is science, according to the measurement, and besides, I don't have any milk at all, and children like you will starve, and if they can't eat, they will make trouble! ”

My mother-in-law was frightened by me and said to go out to dry clothes.

Later, I heard from a neighbor that my mother-in-law wiped her tears while drying clothes.

That night, my mother-in-law caught a cold and had a fever. The husband sent his mother-in-law home. This is the only time in my life that my mother-in-law and I have blushed, I know that I am also a little excessive, before my mother-in-law left, I apologized to my mother-in-law, and my mother-in-law said, "I am really useless, I can't help you." ”

The mother-in-law left like this, and there was no one to take the child with her.

I called my mom and cried about it all, and the next day she came. She said she brought. I am naturally relieved that my mother will take care of the child, but my mother has not retired yet, and it is not a long-term time.

My mother brought me a child for half a year, and Xiao Xing grew up very quickly under the care of my mother, faster than the average child.

Sometimes when I look at my mother's loving hugging of Xiao Xingxing, I think that when I was a child, when I don't remember, my mother also hugged me like this. Leaving aside the term intergenerational parenting, what mother doesn't love her children? For so many years, my mother and I have been in a state of confrontation, at that time I was really too ignorant, watching my mother pay me so much, I knew that the estrangement between mother and daughter in this world, most of them are daughters are still young, or they have not yet had children, and when they have children, the so-called estrangement will disappear, mother is the greatest title in the world, how great is the process of her giving birth to life, how ignorant I am now thinking about my hatred of my mother.

My mother brought me a child for half a year, and for this she received a salary reduction.