Chapter 45 Responsibility

Duan's mother's body is not as good as a year, but fortunately, Ying's father is strong, Duan Xiaoyu has to go back at least once a week to cook a delicious meal for his parents and do some hygiene.

At the age of 70, when Ying's father returned to his hometown, he saw the persimmons on the persimmon tree flourishing, and actually climbed the tree to pick persimmons, so scared that the calls of others to complain were called to Duan Xiaoyu. Duan Xiaoyu criticized Ying's father for being really old and ignorant, it was someone else's persimmon tree, what if it fell down and made the family. Father Ying smiled and said, "I'm very sure that I can control myself." Duan Xiaoyu didn't have anything to do with his father, but fortunately, nothing happened.

Ying's father's diet is very light, Duan Xiaoyu always makes fun of his father, and it is better to have no books than to believe in books. The book says that eating salt is not good, and Ying's father almost doesn't eat salt anymore. Daddy Ying is not naturally greasy, especially acid-eating, and you can smell a sour smell of the noodles mixed by Daddy Ying, you can smell a sour smell across the table. The book says that adults drink 8 glasses of water a day, and Daddy Ying will hold a cup and drink enough of that, although sometimes he feels that he drinks a little too much. Duan Xiaoyu reminded his father several times that everything must be done in moderation, otherwise it will be too much, Ying's father didn't think so, and Duan Xiaoyu had nothing to do, because Ying's father used to be a master of reasoning, but now that he is old, he is unreasonable, and he can't listen to others' reasoning.

Duan Xiaoyu arranged for Ying's father to have a physical examination, and found that Ying's father had a lack of sodium ions in his body, and the doctor felt very puzzled. Duan Xiaoyu told the doctor that his father hardly eats salt and drinks a lot of water every day. The doctor said that this was not nonsense? When he criticized Ying's father, Ying's father nodded and said to change it immediately under the doctor's criticism.

Ying's father doesn't smoke or drink tea, but he always feels bad in his throat, coughs often, has stomach ulcers when he was young, and now occasionally has stomach upset. Duan Xiaoyu saw a magic recipe in a Chinese medicine book, that is, it is boiled with Pu'er and tangerine peel, and drunk twice a day, which has a special effect on coughing and phlegm. Duan Xiaoyu bought a tea set for Ying's father, 15 years of Pu'er, 10 years of tangerine peel, took it home and let his father start to recuperate, his father said that he must not drink tea, when he was young, he had a stomachache when he drank tea, Duan Xiaoyu said to his father with a smile: " When you are young, your stomach is not good, in fact, it is not your stomach problem, stomach disease is emotional disease from traditional Chinese medicine, caused by poor mood and sulking, and you must have drunk green tea when you were young, your stomach is cold, so you drink green tea and your stomach will be uncomfortable, I prepare you Pu'er tea, it is hot, stomach-nourishing, tangerine peel can make the mucus in the lungs discharge from the body, you try it, it is better than drinking medicine. Besides, when you're in your eighties, it's so painful that you can't get a mouthful of phlegm, and you may have to cut your trachea. "Father Ying was moved by Duan Xiaoyu's words. Under Duan Xiaoyu's demonstration, Father Ying and Duan Xiaoyu made a pot of tea together, and then you drank one cup and one by one.

In the evening, Ying's father called Duan Xiaoyu and said happily: "I can actually drink tea, and my stomach has not been upset until now." Duan Xiaoyu listened to his father's joy like a child, and smiled, he was really young. Dad drank tea for more than a month, and Duan's mother called Xiaoyu and said, "Your dad doesn't cough very much, he used to cough more than ten times a day, and now he coughs three or four times a day." Duan Xiaoyu was happy in his heart after hearing this.

Duan Xiaoyu loves to read, but now he reads more philosophical or health books, reading health books in the hope of doing something for his family's health, and reading philosophy books in the hope that his impetuous mind can gradually calm down. His parents are now in their seventies, his mother has been in poor health, and Duan Xiaoyu's mobile phone never dares to turn off, especially at night.

Duan Xiaoyu felt more and more that his parents' prayers for him were as eager as when he was a child, and his parents came home from work.

Duan Xiaoyu usually returns to his parents' house at about ten o'clock on weekends, and when he enters the door, he starts to clean up the house, sorts out a lot of unused things, avoids his father and quickly throws them out of the door, picks up a rag to scrub the table, chair and coffee table, picks up the mop and mops the floor a few times, until Duan Xiaoyu, who is clean at home, takes a break on the sofa. During the break, it was time for his parents to file complaints, Duan Xiaoyu broke off the lawsuit and tidied up the sofa by the way. While reconciling the small dispute between his parents and asking what he wanted to eat the most recently, Duan Xiaoyu rushed into the kitchen and began to prepare lunch. When the meal was served, the topic of Mom and Dad's conversation was what had happened to everyone around them recently. Duan Xiaoyu always feels very down-to-earth in the nagging of his parents, and when he sits around to eat together, Duan Xiaoyu always feels a kind of happiness in his heart.

Duan Xiaoyu kept picking up vegetables for her mother, reminding her mother not to just eat the dish in front of her. Dad always said that Mom's mouth was leaky, and it was sprinkled everywhere when she ate. In fact, Duan Xiaoyu knows that her mother's hands can no longer hold the bowl firmly, and her mother's swallowing function is worse than that of ordinary people, so it is inevitable that she will spill when eating, and it will only get more and more serious.

Dad ate fried konjac and said to Xiaoyu: "Xiaoyu, although Dad is in good health, Mom is not in good health, but Dad will die in front of Mom, when I am not there, you have to take your mother with you, your mother's temper is not good, and only you can take care of your mother." ”

My mother suddenly raised her head and said, "When I'm old, you can't send me to a nursing home, watch TV, abuse the elderly in the nursing home." ”

Duan Xiaoyu looked at his father with a smile: "Dad, what are you doing here, people are supporting orphans, and you are trusting your wife." Besides, there's my brother. Both of you are in good health, and there is no problem at all in living to the age of eighty-five, and it is not yet time to think about it. And mothers, how can nursing homes abuse the elderly, even if there is, it is a very rare phenomenon. ”

Duan's mother heard Duan Xiaoyu say good things about the nursing home, she got angry, and said with a little crying: "Anyway, I won't go to the nursing home when I'm old, and I will not go." Duan Xiaoyu originally thought that the two old men were joking, but at this time Xiaoyu clearly knew that the old man was really thinking about this issue, and what his father said to him should be what his parents thought like this.

Duan Xiaoyu hadn't had time to think about these issues yet, or Duan Xiaoyu had been stubbornly thinking in his heart that the days had stopped in these years. Mom and Dad won't get old. But today Duan Xiaoyu was stung by his parents' words, these can happen, the age of the parents will get older and older, and anything can happen, so it is right for parents to plan in advance. Thinking of this, Duan Xiaoyu suddenly felt a great responsibility, his parents were old, had he made all the preparations?

In the face of the problem of parents' pension, Duan Xiaoyu thought of his brother Ying Xiaoyang, yes, his parents have two children, and his parents' pension problems should be combined with his brother.