Chapter 291: About Men and Women
Su Lin broke in without knocking.
"Yan Dong, there is a patient who is very tricky, our equipment can't detect anything wrong, I suspect it's a mental illness, Nuoyan doesn't answer the phone, and the family refuses to transfer to the hospital, saying that this is their fifth hospital, and they won't leave anything, I don't know what to do." Su Lin said anxiously.
"I see, I'll get down right away. Yan Musk said.
Surin hurried back to the emergency room.
"Sister Yan, I'll take a look. ”
"I'll go, Wenwen, the medical equipment can't be checked, you go to the various auxiliary departments to inspect, and report to me if you find a problem." ”
"Okay, Sister Yan. ”
Yan Musk also went to the emergency department.
Su Lin didn't know where to go, Li Wanqiu came over and said to Yan Musk: "Doctor Su has gone to the operating room, Yan Dong." ”
"Where's that tricky patient?"
"Oh, I was called away by Sister Noyan. ”
"Good. Yan Musk rushed to the psychiatric department again.
As soon as I walked to the door, I heard Noyan communicating with the patient.
"I told you that I'm not sick, why don't you understand, are you a doctor, I have long heard that you doctors like to pit patients, to make a profit, eat people and don't spit out bones, angels in white are all bullshit, look at you are so white, such a good figure, usually exploit us ordinary working people, you are the devil, you should go to hell. A middle-aged man scolded viciously, Nuoyan could stand it, if it was someone else, he would have turned his face a long time ago, or was scolded and cried.
"Are you done scolding, continue to scold if you don't finish scolding. Noyan also said unceremoniously.
"I said is there something wrong with you, a little girl who looks very white and tender, why do you like others to scold you, oh, I know, you like stimulation, what are young people now, pursuing spiritual needs, usually nourished by men, no wonder they are so calm. The middle-aged man's words became more and more ugly, but Nuoyan was still very calm, dealing with this kind of person, if he was provoked, how could he cure the disease.
After a while, the middle-aged man couldn't scold anymore, so he looked at Nuoyan blankly.
Noyan said slowly, "Now tell me your name, shall we?"
"Li Guangsheng. ”
"Age?"
“48。 ”
"It's very cooperative!"
Li Guangsheng waved his head without shaving, and Nuoyan was amused by his action.
"What are you laughing at? Is it that funny? ”
Nuoyan put away his smile and continued: "I heard from the family that you were stimulated when you were young, can you share it, you treat me as your friend, and pour out your deep feelings. ”
"I have no friends, I didn't have any, I don't have now, and I won't have any. ”
"Why?"
"There's no why, it's all a bunch of liars, liars. Li Guangsheng scolded angrily.
"There's no one else here, just you and me, I know you're feeling very uncomfortable, even though you look strong on the outside, it's because you're trying to disguise yourself and make yourself look like you're okay, but your actions are very real, otherwise your family wouldn't have sent you here, if you guessed correctly, you became like this, maybe it has something to do with your wife. Nuoyan hit the nail on the head, and every word stimulated Li Guangsheng's heart.
Li Guangsheng looked up at Nuoyan and said: "You are very powerful, little girl, the previous hospitals have not found out the cause of my illness, as soon as I entered the hospital, it was what CT, MRI, and I was given blood, hum, the current hospital, fucking is also worthy of being called a doctor, it is simply an insult to the great profession of doctors, a group of guys who are hungry for money." ”
Nuoyan said: "This is human nature, this is innate human beings, there is nothing wrong with liking money, do you dare to guarantee that you don't like money? In this era of rapid development, everyone has to survive, they have to find a way to live, those doctors only do things according to the rules and regulations, they are only executors, not decision-makers, is your abuse useful? Can you change them if you scold? No, am I right?" It's just to vent the anger in your heart, now tell me your story, I'm willing to listen, the more detailed it is, the better it will be for you, maybe I can help you. ”
"Okay, you little girl at least made my heart a little more comfortable, yes, I grew up in a poor family, and I didn't read much, about twelve or thirteen years old, I followed the people in the countryside to work in the big city, entered the factory, did it on the construction site, I vaguely remember that the factory is called Mozhi Flower Factory, it is to make clothes, although occasionally there will be night shifts, piecework, the salary is OK, so I worked for two years in a row, I had a little money on hand, when the third year started, a group of women, old and young, I also met my confidant here, I called her Juan'er, the age of thirty years old, I was not forty years old at that time, the family is poor, marriage has become a difficult thing, Juan'er is also beautiful, the factory pursues Juan'er is not the only one, you insist, Juan'er was moved by my sincerity, in a summer night, I took flowers, with the money I earned to buy the ring, Juan'er agreed to my pursuit, we officially started dating, have been together for two years, we did not do it in the factory, and then go back to my hometown to do the marriage, the villagers all praise my old cow for eating tender grass, I do a little business in the county, the third year of marriage, Juan'er is a little wrong, always love to dress up, used to wear light makeup and the like, and even sometimes do not return at night, I began to worry, sometimes I was in a hurry, I would also beat and scold or something, gradually Juan'er began to alienate me, forcing me to divorce every day, you also know that I was in my forties at that time, I couldn't stand this kind of toss, I didn't pay attention to this matter at all, I planned to cool her down, it didn't take long, once I went out to the city to do something, when I got home, the house was in a mess, my money and passbook were taken away by the stinky woman, I was fortunate to have more than ten years of savings, just gone, I couldn't figure it out, I was old, people couldn't find it, I blamed myself for being stupid, I listened to the woman's words, so that the marriage certificate didn't matter, there was nothingSince then, I have been in a slump, I didn't care about anything, and I was chewed by the people in the township after eating, all of this was caused by that woman, I want to retaliate, I must retaliate against her, the family can't stand my temper, so they will treat me in this hospital and that hospital, there is no way, I know that I have a heart disease, it is not easy to treat, and now I am older, the woman has not been found, I have the idea of giving up, but my heart is still a little unwilling, I am too stupid, alas!!"
"Did you call the police?" asked Noyan.
"If the police are useful, why should I look for you, my cousin has lost a battery car for almost three years, and the police let him record a confession and go back, do you think the police are useful?" Li Guangsheng asked Nuo Yan rhetorically.
Nuoyan poured Li Guangsheng a glass of water and said, "Do you understand women?"
"What do you mean!"
"The outward differences between men and women are obvious, and in general, men have darker skin, thicker hair, stronger bones and muscles. Comparatively speaking, women have lighter skin tones, finer hair, and softer bones and muscles, and this difference determines the social division of labor between men and women, and also affects people's perception of the relationship between the sexes, that is, men are the masters, and women are only subordinates to men. For a long time, this traditional concept of gender was widely accepted and is still firmly embraced today. In ancient times and in modern times, men were born warriors, fighting against nature and against enemies, they were symbols of strength, and they aimed at honor and worship. A woman's main task is to run the family and create a sense of peace. Although today, there are some new changes in this clear social division of labor...... Women became more independent and began to work outside the home, rather than relying on men for support...... But the psychological needs and psychological characteristics of men and women have not changed substantially. Men are like ferocious lions, aggression and aggression are their instincts. They are belligerent, possessive, and take conquest as their highest glory, and once they find their prey, they tend to take the initiative, direct and tough, while women are like docile sheep, seeking stability and warmth...... "Even those strong women who look capable on the outside are still delicate on the inside, and they are eager to be protected." In terms of affection, women like to be conquered, men enjoy the adoration of women, women desire men to adore themselves, for men it is the highest goal of career, but for women, family is the most important thing. In other words, men strive for wealth, power, and women, and women seek beauty, peace, and happiness. So there is a very interesting phenomenon: it seems that it is natural for men to be strong and can win the green of women, and conversely, if women are too strong, it often makes men intimidating. I have done two questionnaires, one for strong women who have successful careers, and the results show that more than 75% of them are not happy in their love lives. The other is for the average unmarried man, and as a result, 90% of the men said that they like to be dependent and do not want their future wife to be too powerful. Under normal circumstances, the difference between men and women in terms of gender is absolute, but the difference in psychology is relative. In this world, there is no such thing as a pure man, nor is there a woman who is not pure. In many men, we will find the characteristics of women, such as sensitive, slender, weak, and compassionate, and in many women, we will also find the characteristics of men, such as aggressive, tough, careless, and ambitious. If a person's femininity is predominant, then the person is weaker and submissive, and vice versa, the person is more courageous and aggressive. The evolution of civilization has made men and women more and more harmonious, and compared with the barbaric primitive period, men now obviously have more feminine qualities, they also pay attention to emotion, art, family, and know how to be gentle, distressed, and retreat. In the same way, women have gradually acquired some of the qualities of men. They are no longer just burrowing animals responsible for giving birth, but have become confident, brave and proactive, and a few women have even achieved remarkable achievements in politics, economics and other fields like men. For women, the ideal partner must have both distinct masculine and feminine qualities, they are positive, have the ambition to conquer everything, and at the same time be considerate of themselves. ”