I carefully packed this letter, and my intuition told me that it was left by the last wind chime, but I have a question, if it was left by the previous wind chime, how long was this letter left, before the accident with the short hair Zuo Mi or after the short hair Zuo Mi accident, I lit a cigarette, looked at the world outside the window, it was still so prosperous, and the short hair Zuo Mi seemed to have left nothing valuable, and I couldn't help but feel a little lost in my heart.

Zuomi called me.

"Husband, when will you come back, have you eaten?" Zuo Mi said with concern.

"I'll be right back. ”

"Well, ride slowly, hang up, see you later. ”

I closed the door and took one last look, I won't come again, it's really embarrassing that a good person is gone.

I'm in a bad mood all the way, it's hard to say about accidents, maybe it's my turn one day, try to live every day, back to Country Garden, Sister Rourou and Zuo Mi were watching TV in the living room, seeing that something was wrong with me, Zuo Mi took the initiative to give me a hot meal, and I was weakly paralyzed on the sofa.

"Sister Rourou, haven't you experienced two mes? Who is the person who killed the manager?"

Wang Yirou said unhurriedly: "To be honest, it's a little different, time is messed up, the world of the two wind chimes in front of Zuo Mi is not dead, but there is no such thing as your wife at all, and what happens in the back is different, such as Sister Wen Hui, but it's not so friendly." ”

I sighed and said, "Then it's up to us to do that." ”

"There's nothing wrong with that, at least you're halfway through the world. ”

I frowned, could it be that Wang Yirou knew this letter.

Wang Yirou continued: "You don't have to look at me like that, I guess too." ”

Zuo Mi said to me: "Husband, eat first, let's talk about it later." ”

"Good. ”

These two girls are estimated to go to the supermarket after work, beef noodles, this beef is very thinly cut, each slice has a uniform texture, not a ghost bought in the supermarket.

I said to Zuo Mi: "Ye Xuan and I went to find Deng Qiuju's husband, his husband had a dirty disease, for the sake of safety, he didn't understand the situation, this matter can only be stranded, let's let Zhang Qian try." ”

"Zhang Qian, haven't you been here, and let people come again. ”

"That's no way, I can't always let Nuoyan come over, the bell must be tied to the bell, Deng Qiuju has a heart disease, I'm not very good at this, only Nuoyan has a way to solve it." ”

"You're embarrassed to please, I'm sorry, I'll call Noyan. ”

I glanced at Zuo Mi: "What about Zhang Qian?"

"You contact, that's fair. ”

I laughed and said, "You're a good man." ”

"Are you embarrassed to let me suffer?" Zuo Mi muttered.

The next day, at nine o'clock in the morning, I met a young man in the hall, looking from afar, he looked quite delicate, the man came here to see a doctor, either for his friend or wife, or he was confused, the young man took the list and got on the elevator, I had not smoked a cigarette downstairs, Zuo Mi left me to call, so frightened that I quickly threw away the cigarette in my hand.

"Where are you sneaking away to smoke again?" Zuo Mi really knows me too well, but I don't cover it either.

"No, don't guess, I'm patrolling downstairs, Sister Wen Hui is not here, I have to do what I have to do. ”

"Hmph, you just fool you, come up, there are patients. ”

I'll go, Deng Qiuju's affairs haven't been dealt with well, and another one will come, I really won't let me rest, I quickly went upstairs, Zuo Mi's office, "Huh" Isn't this the young man just now?

"Hello, young man, what do you call it?"

"Zhao Ping, just call me Xiaoping. ”

I stretched out my hand and politely said, "Welcome, Xiaoping, please take a seat, Sister Rourou, pour two cups of tea." ”

I continued, "Do you have a psychological problem, or do you?"

"Doctor, I'll tell you the truth, I don't know if it's a disease or not, but I can't get over the hurdle in my heart!"

"Tell me your story?"

"That's right, my friend introduced me to a girl, it's been two weeks now, in the meantime, we talked a few times, we met once, and then she was lukewarm to me, isn't it almost the New Year? In this way, she can come to our house during the Chinese New Year. Is there anything you can do?"

I went, it turned out that I was consulting emotionally, and I am not an emotional counselor, Zuo Mi and Sister Rourou looked at me and snickered, the meaning is very clear, see how you end.

I took a sip of tea and said slowly: "You can think about it slowly, let's talk about the girl's attitude first." lukewarm to you actually says it all: other girls are either dissatisfied with you, or they are still hesitating. In either case, she didn't have the idea of quickly determining a relationship. Therefore, it is unrealistic for you to quickly determine the relationship, the girl's idea is estimated to be the opposite of you, it is almost the New Year, the time is tight, there are many things, and you want to think about it after the New Year. ”

Zhao Ping was a little lost, but still mustered up the courage to say: "This is not good, my family is urging tightly." You say, why don't I go to her tomorrow and have a showdown with her? ”

"Your family is urging you tightly, what's the matter with other girls! Your parents urged you to get married, and it was caused by the girl? This girl owes you a wife, so it's almost the New Year, and you're going to "collect debts?" Then, you just throw your pressure directly at the girl and let her bear it for you? Your parents urge you, and you urge the girl, just because she happened to know you at this time? This kind of idea is too unreasonable. You go to a showdown, and the girl will definitely reject you. ”

"Then I won't go to her, she won't come to me. When I looked for her, she said that she was busy, but her circle of friends was updated with information about going out to play. Have time to hang out and don't have time to see me?"

"What kind of logic do you have, she just met you once, she didn't sign a contract with you, she didn't sign a deed of sale, she is a free person, she can do whatever she wants, why do she have to come to you? You give me a reason why she came to you. Don't tell me she has to find you because you like her. You're not the emperor, what do you like about girls? You don't care what girls like, you and she are just strangers who have met once. ”

"Then what should I do? If this continues, won't we break up?"

"Don't worry, take a sip of tea. ”

Zhao Ping did so.

I continued, "None of you are in love, where did you break up? The girl didn't agree to be your girlfriend, she didn't even meet you on a date. You're not in love, how can you use the word "break up"? Go back to reality, don't fantasize. Let's face the reality calmly before I can help you. ”

Actually, I also felt that she was unwilling. However, we are really suitable. I know all about the situation of her family, and my family and hers are both families with average economic conditions. I don't like her current life in the circle of friends, she is skiing and traveling, and her family's living conditions are not so good, I really want to persuade her to be a real person. ”

I finally understood why the girl was lukewarm to Zhao Ping, Zhao Ping clearly had a problem with his thinking.

"What you think, sincerely, I say sincerely, has nothing to do with girls. You think you're a good fit, that's what you think. The girl is also an adult, she also thinks, and her reaction now is that she feels that you are not suitable. Why? Because she wants a better life now, as can be seen from her skiing and traveling. Girls don't have good family economic conditions, but if there is no law that says that if the economic conditions are not good, you can't enjoy a better life, right? Ski resorts are open to everyone, and you can go if you want. If your cousin goes skiing, will you think that your cousin is not real? You say that a girl is not real, who gives you the right to judge a person's personality? If a girl says that you are too old-fashioned, are you willing? It is really because the economic conditions of the girl's family are not good, and she wants to change her life, so she goes on a trip to increase her knowledge, and to make friends and broaden her interpersonal circle, these are the manifestations of her hard work. It's just that because it doesn't conform to your characteristics of being a "home" person, you want to be criticized? Are you a "moral judge??" Girls actively try to change their living conditions because of their family's poor economic conditions, but because your family's economic conditions are not good, you think that everyone will continue to live a very bad life, and whoever changes and improves will have problems and be vain and materialistic. Your way of thinking is not on the same level, so it's really not appropriate. ”

"But I feel like she's a good fit for me, and I like her a lot. ”

"Have you ever thought about this from the other person's point of view? She is a living person, with her own joys and sorrows, her own requirements, and a good partner, do you meet her standards? Are you the excellent man in her eyes? If you do get along, what can she get from you? As long as she continues to make herself excellent, there will be more and more excellent boys who say "I like you" to her, why should she choose you from so many boys?"

"But I like her, I love her sincerely. ”

"A girl likes you very much, she loves you sincerely, but she is not pretty, even a little ugly, can you accept it?"

"I ...... I don't want to. ”

"She likes you very much, she really loves you!

"I can't ask for it!"

Haven't you been emphasizing the importance of "truly loving her"? Now there is one who "truly loves you" and you don't want it. Now you understand, right? In love, first of all, whether a girl can take a fancy to you, if she falls in love with you, she will need your "sincerity"; if she doesn't like you, she will at most send you a "good person card". In the same way, you can't look at a girl who is not beautiful, even if this girl has the most real "sincerity" in the world, you will not agree. That's human nature. ”

"But do I really like her?"

"According to your logic, if you like others, they should care about your ideas and satisfy you. If you have a cousin, do I just have to tell you that I like your cousin very much, I love her very much, and your cousin must be my girlfriend?"

"How is this possible, no one will agree. ”