After closing the letter, Tian Tian seemed to have a scene in his mind of a vigorous young man holding a textbook and confidently walking on the flowery campus.

She is sincerely proud of Jiang Fan.

Actually, Tian Tian wanted to reply to him, but he was helpless, but he didn't have paper and pen.

After a while, Tian Tian wanted to go to the toilet, so she got out of bed with the help of Aunt Lian. Because it is much better now, her legs don't hurt so much, and Aunt Lian doesn't have to work as hard as before. If there is a crutch, maybe Tian Tian will be able to take care of himself in a basic life.

Back on the bed, Tian Tian leaned on the back of the bed, she wanted to see the thick letter, but she didn't have the courage. The hand stretched out several times, and retracted it again. At this moment, Tian Tian's mood is very complicated, it can be described as chaotic, he wants to see it but is afraid to see it.

Aunt Lian sat down to chat with Tian Tian, but she was absent-minded, always answering the wrong questions, sometimes her eyes were dull, sometimes she was in a trance, and she didn't know what to do.

It's really hard to escape Aunt Lian's eyes, and she can see that Tian Tian is wrong at once, "Sister, what's wrong with you?"

"I didn't ...... No. Seeing that Aunt Lian saw through it, Tian Tian became cramped and uneasy. "Aunt Lian, shall we continue to chat?"

"But your heart has been stolen!"

"No, I pricked up my ears to listen. Just tell us about your experience and experience, etc.?"

"So, what do you want to hear?

"Huh? ”

"First of all, I would like to state that what I have said below only represents my personal views, and some of them may be paranoid or one-sided, so they are for reference only.

"Some people put their appearance, family background, position, etc. in the first place when they talk about the object, but in my opinion, this is not the most important thing.

"Because, no matter how chic the man is and how beautiful the woman is, one day, it will wither like a spring flower. It is destined to be unable to escape the fate of the flowers. When the traces of time gradually remain on your face, when the graceful devil figure is gone, you will no longer be so pleasing to the eye, and in this way, the other party will get bored. Besides, people who pay special attention to their appearance are generally people who are particularly vain and like the new and hate the old.

"No matter how rich the family is, no matter how high your husband's position is, but if he doesn't have you in his heart at all, doesn't love you at all, often doesn't go home at night, always ignores you or blows his beard and glares at you, will you be happy? Surely not.

"Didn't we talk about 'those who love me and those I love' that day? In my opinion, we must find someone who loves us to be our husband, why do we say that?

"Because if you love someone deeply, but he doesn't love you, then the result is that you keep giving and pleasing your eyebrows, and you keep pleasing to please. Of course, perhaps, you will say, because I love him, therefore, I am willing to sacrifice everything and give everything. However, as a result, the result is that it is very likely that others will not appreciate your affection at all, ignore your hospitality, and even worse, they will pick their noses and eyes at you every day, no matter how hard you try, people will not be satisfied. In short, thankless. You don't get the benefits of 'sow melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans', and your hot face is always attached to other people's cold butts, so, over time, you will be very miserable and will complain.

On the contrary, if you are not very satisfied with the other party, and the other party loves you very much, then you will not be so passive and embarrassed. You can deeply feel the warmth of being hurt, cared for, cared for, and appreciated every day, and over time, you may be influenced and integrated. Because of 'love', even if you make a mistake, even if you are occasionally rude to him, he will not be angry, he will tolerate you and forgive you in every way. There is nothing happier for a woman than to be loved. Therefore, in my opinion, when looking for a boyfriend, you must find someone who really loves you and really pays for yourself without regrets.

"What if you don't have beauty? What if you don't have a high education, even if you don't have a rich party? What you need is the kind of good man who will lie 'I have eaten' and leave it for you to eat with only one steamed bun. If a man really loves you, he will cherish you, and he will do everything possible not to let you be wronged, and want you to live a happy life without worrying about food and clothing.

"If you marry a rich man, but he is always out and about, and he spends a lot of money on other women, will you be happy to be the wife of such a person?

Perhaps, when it comes to men's stinginess, many women will be very disgusted, thinking that such men are too unmasculine and too cowardly. Yes, in the beginning, I also despised that kind of people. However, the real examples around me tell me that such a person may not be welcomed and welcomed by the public, but he is not necessarily a good husband? Yes, you must be wondering.

"So, I'll give you an example, and you'll understand. Suppose two men also bought fifty oranges in the bazaar, put them in baskets, and take them home.

"There was a man who was carrying a heavy basket of oranges on his way home from the street, and along the way, he met the neighbors who came to the market. It was a generous man, and whenever he met an acquaintance, he greeted him with a smile and handed him a golden orange. However, when he returned to his home ten miles away and wanted to give his wife and children oranges to eat, he suddenly found that the basket was empty, and not a single orange was gone.

And the other stingy man, he knew to wrap a veil around his basket full of oranges, so that others would not know what he was inside. When he met familiar people, he pretended not to see them, let alone greet them, so that when he returned home, there were no less fifty oranges. In this way, his wife and children can enjoy the sweet oranges to their heart's content.

It can be seen that the wives and children of those who are stingy with others benefit immensely, while those who are extremely generous to others suffer greatly.

"For example, if you have 100 yuan and you have to give 99 yuan to help others, then you only have 1 yuan left. The family shares this yuan, and only save food and use it sparingly. On the contrary, if you just give one yuan to others, you will have ninety-nine yuan left, then, in this way, it will be more than enough to arrange the daily life of the family.

"There are also people who are not good to others, but they are not necessarily bad to their wives and children. For example, those bandits and triads who do a lot of evil and murder like hemp, I heard that most of them are very fond of their wives or lovers. ”

"So, you have to marry a bad guy, not a good guy??"

"This good and bad are relative, as long as the person is good to himself, he is a good person. It doesn't matter what kind of impression he leaves on others! In my opinion, a person who leaves a particularly good impression on others is not necessarily a good person. ”

"Why?"

"Because some people love to pretend, they go out with heavy masks, and even worse, they can act. Therefore, what we see is not their true face at all.

"There is such an example in my husband's village, there is a woman in her thirties, who is very warm and cheerful, and greets everyone with a smile on her face. Especially after her sister-in-law and his wife disappeared, she took the initiative to take the three poor children to her own home to raise, and she was also good to the children. As a result, the woman was praised by the whole village.

However, what she never expected was that she was actually a murderous demon, and in the past six years, she has killed eight people in a row. When the police scooped up the eight bodies in an abandoned pit that had been deliberately covered with feces and debris, the women showed up to identify the scene, and the villagers couldn't believe it.

Later, I learned that among the eight people, there was her sister-in-law and his wife. The reason is that the sister-in-law and his wife have urged her to repay the money, and after being refused, there were conflicts and they were killed one after another. Tell me, then, whether that woman is a good person or a bad person?"

"Of course it's a crazy bad guy!" Tian Tian replied resentfully without thinking.

"But what about before, before the police solved the case?"

"This ......"

"Therefore, we should not only look at the superficial phenomena, but also look at the essence through the phenomena, and we must analyze and judge rationally!"

At this time, a group of doctors and nurses walked in. It turned out that it was ten o'clock, and it was the time for the medical staff to make rounds. The doctor simply asked Tian Tian about his condition and went out.

Seeing that the white coats left, Tian Tian and Aunt Lian continued the topic just now.

"Where did we just go, Aunt Lian?"

"When it comes to it, we must not be fooled by superficial phenomena, but learn to analyze and judge. ”

"It's so hard!"

"Yes, this society is complex and there are many things that we cannot predict. It's like stepping into a swamp we've never set foot in, and we don't know if we'll be able to pull it out if we step on it. Therefore, it needs rich experience, and it needs to be sensitive and summarized to grow a long way. ”

"I don't know if I should believe the people and things I've heard and seen?"

"How to put it, acting on the opportunity varies from person to person. After all, there are many good people around us, and those bad people with bad intentions are only a very few. This is to train a pair of discerning eyes. ”

After hearing this, Tian Tian stared at the lamp on the ceiling and fell into deep thought.

Aunt Lian walked out of the ward with a basin and towel in one hand and a hot water bottle in the other. She should go fill up the hot water, and want to wash up and get ready for sleep.

Sure enough, when Aunt Lian came in again, she had obviously washed her face and looked refreshed. She looked at Tian Tian, "Sister, it's time to wash your face!" she said, poured the water in the kettle on the basin, and then poured an appropriate amount of cold water, and stirred it in the basin with her hands, and tested the water temperature by the way.

"Uh, good!" Tian Tian was pulled back from her contemplation by Aunt Lian.

Aunt Lian helped Tian Tian wash her face and hands, poured the used water into the toilet next to her, and hung up the towel. Then, close the door of the ward, and then, open the folding simple bed in the corner, put it next to Tian Tian's bed, spread a mat, and cover it with a thin quilt.

Aunt Lian and Yi got into the quilt, "Sister, I'm asleep! If anything, you can call me!"

"Goodnight!"

Soon, Tian Tian heard Aunt Lian's soft snoring one after another.

I thought: Aunt Lian fell asleep so quickly, but she didn't feel the slightest sleep.

Tian Tian twisted her body, she wanted to change her position, and suddenly, she felt something stab her back, she reached out and touched it, it turned out to be the letter.