The tank is bold, and the invitation is not an ordinary guest, a young man of this age in this era has unlimited vision, and he can imagine the degree of fluttering when he looks at the billboard with the low neckline on the roadside, which can be imagined, but whoever has a relationship with the tank, there are not many who don't want to go.

The situation of the tank opened up a new understanding of the group of students, and they knew that there was such a thing of twenty yuan on the side of the park street.

It's just that some people's experience is not good, and they find that the beautiful things are different from what they imagined, so they are just urged by the women standing on the street to hurry up and hurry up, and they don't go again. But some students steal money from their families or try to get money outside just to make frequent trips to the streets.

The tank inadvertently drove a group of young male ticket passengers.

But Tank himself is also changing unconsciously, when they were drinking together on the weekend, Chen Wenjin and Xiao Xiao both found that Tank, like A Leopard, was dancing with his eyebrows, talking about those things with great interest, mixed with various related metaphors and vulgar words at every turn.

When drinking, when talking, Tank unconsciously likes to make some colored jokes on his friends of the opposite sex.

"Ami, you are wearing this dress today, the mountain looks super big, I want to grab a ...... when I see it" Tank grinned, feeling that it didn't matter if he stayed in words, even if it was a real gun, wouldn't it be like that, what is it to talk about?

However, Ami turned her head and left, and when she sat next to Xiao Xiao, her face flushed with anger. "Tank has become more and more excessive! He has become so disgusting, he often says things that are not respectful at all, and he treats all women as street women! If he does this again, it is better not to drink with him in the future, and to keep his distance. ”

Although Tank hadn't said these disproportionate words to Xiao Xiao, Xiao Xiao had heard Tank say a lot to others, and he felt very bad, nodding and saying, "Wang Shuai should be asked to remind him that he shouldn't talk to his friends like this, it sounds very disrespectful." ”

"That's right, you don't even know what he just said-" Ami was afraid that Chen Wenjin would hear it, so she lowered her voice and said what had happened to Xiao Xiao's ear, and poured out the bad feeling of being humiliated at that time.

Chen Wenjin didn't eavesdrop on their conversation, he saw Wang Shuai listening with interest, and then his eyes swept over, and he showed a hint of 'you know' kind of pride.

Wang Shuai didn't like what the tank talked about, but he always looked at others with a smile on his face, not to mention that at this moment, Wang Shuai was appreciating his masterpiece, and of course he was in a good mood.

Chen Wenjin knew that this change was actually unconscious and not deliberate for the tank.

It's just that people's cognition, words and deeds are often a system, and consciously adjusting this system is not something that everyone can do without learning.

Since it is a system, the change of cognition will affect the change of words and deeds.

Tank has changed from not talking about women in the past, from the attitude that love is sacred, and kissing must be put in the heart to commemorate and worship, to the current attitude of treating men and women as normal, only feeling that it is just to meet needs, just like drinking water when you are thirsty, eating when you are hungry, and taking a piece of paper to wipe the stains on your mouth.

This huge cognitive change will of course be accompanied by a big change in words and deeds.

And the tank is not a person who can think so much, so naturally he can't do it like Wang Shuai, who doesn't care in his heart, but his words and deeds correspond to the environment and people, and make appropriate adjustments and matches.

If the attributes of the tank in the past were strong, righteous, dedicated, innocent, serious in speech, and believing in love, then now, the attributes of innocence and seriousness are gone, and whether or not to believe in love is at least doubtful. He has a few less attributes that people like and admire, and more attributes that people don't like.

Originally, if the tank was worth intimacy, then it is a matter of course that the current tank is not worth going deeper.

In fact, friends of the opposite sex who used to have a good relationship are now keeping some distance from Tank, and Ami may be the last.

As for men, in fact, there are some people who feel that Tank has become degenerate and dirty, and they are not willing to maintain such a close friendship with Tank.

Of course, there are also opposites, such as A Leopard and Tank, who are very close now, and are undoubtedly the best brothers.

Once the tank looked down on Ah Leopard's love of showing off and depravity, now Tank just doesn't like Ah Leopard's love of showing off, of course, with Ah Leopard.

But in fact, it has been a long time since Ah Leopard had no real chance to show off, and the tank had no reason to hate Ah Leopard for a long time.

Chen Wenjin thinks that if the internal and external characteristics of people are judged by attributes, then whether two people are compatible, which characteristics and attributes have changed, and how big the impact is, can be quantified more clearly.

The impact of several key cognitions and quality changes of the tank clearly reflects the differences in the judgment and feelings of the people around him at this moment.

It also reflects the reason why the tank and A Leopard are so close.

The relationship between people will definitely change because of changes, some changes will not affect the other party's feelings, and some changes will be very important to the other party.

As a result, some changes have little impact on the relationship, while others can even lead to the end of the intimate relationship forgetting each other.

After eating supper, Tank and Ah Leopard withdrew first, and they made an appointment to go to the street side of the park, because Tank felt that drinking alcohol would last a long time, and it would be more relieving to collect debts.

Ami was very sad when he talked about tanks.

Chen Wenjin told her about this changed way of judging relationships, and Xiao Xiao, Wang Shuai, Qiancao, and Pomegranate were all surprised to hear it.

"That explanation sounds interesting!" Wang Shuai pondered, "The change in the tank has made Ami change from liking him as a friend in the past to just wanting to maintain the distance of nodding friends, which is also a matter of course!"

"Yes, yes, yes! I thought about a few friends in the past, and after thinking about it in gold, I suddenly understood why the relationship had faded later!"

But at this moment, it's not just pomegranates that are looking at her, so Xiao Xiao doesn't mind at all, and she also empathizes with this situation, and she is also using the method Chen Wenjin said to review many people in the past, even the changes in her relationship with her parents, etc.

Chigusa thought about it and pondered, "With this method, you can also determine which friends are most suitable for you, and which friends will slowly drift away from you, right?"

"Theoretically, it can be used as a guide, but in reality we will also be affected by friendship, a simple fact is that a person's change is analyzed from the attribute characteristics, and it is completely unsuitable for a friend, or even a distant kind. But because of the friendship before, even if the density of contacts is not so high, it will not really be like a stranger, even if we haven't seen each other for a long time, everyone still has the feelings accumulated in the past, and they will still be very cordial to reminisce and drink. As for the factor of feelings, it is difficult to quantify. There is also a common situation, we don't like a person, but he is a very good friend, so even if we feel that we are not compatible with each other, we will still build trust and friendliness with each other because of the bridge role of common good friends, and the degree will be more than the trust of ordinary friends. After Chen Wenjin finished speaking, he drank a breath of happy water, and he felt that all the people present were well-intentioned, and the sharing of this method was beneficial.

If you talk to Leopard and Tank about this, they will say that they don't know what to do, and then they will probably be gone.

Xiao Xiao listened, nodded and said: "You can use a notebook to write down your reasons for your good friends and the people you like, if you find that the other party has changed their characteristics, you can communicate in time, you should be able to help each other, and you can avoid becoming more and more difficult to understand each other because of this change, or even misunderstanding." ”

"That's a great idea! Then let's all think about it, think about it, write it down, and exchange each other's hearts. Wang Shuai immediately proposed, and Pomegranate said worriedly: "It's good, but it's too difficult for me to suddenly write down all your attributes in my heart." Otherwise, go back and think slowly, write slowly, and write it down and give it to the other party when we meet next time!

Chigusa actually thought that she could write it, but of course she would take care of her best friend Pomegranate, so she said, "I think it's good, and I think about it more clearly." ”

"yes, I need to think about it slowly, too. Ami also felt that there was no need to be in such a hurry, and in a hurry, she was not sure if she could think about it well enough.

Xiao Xiao looked at Chen Wenjin and then at Wang Shuai, and said, "Then go back and think about it slowly, right?"

"It's good, there's no need to rush. Chen Wenjin naturally had no objection.

"Okay, I'm a little too eager to respect everyone's opinions. Wang Shuai smiled and said, "It's not too early, let's withdraw together." ”

Wang Shuai was going to send Qiancao and Pomegranate, but after drinking, Qiancao and Pomegranate said that it was very late, they took a taxi back directly, insisting on not letting them go, estimating that the two of them had something to say, Wang Shuai accompanied Chen Wenjin and sent Xiao Xiao and Ami back first.

Ami goes to Xiao Xiao's place to stay overnight, which is also a common thing, occasionally Xiao Xiao goes to Ami's house, but it is all the situation that Ami's parents do not come home during the holidays.

When he turned back, Wang Shuai lit a cigarette, took a puff, and said, "You have such a fun idea, why did you mention it today?"

"Just sorted out clearly. Chen Wenjin naturally couldn't say, in fact, he hadn't used it for too long, because Ami complained about the tank and suddenly remembered it.

After mastering this method, there is no need to deliberately attribute it, and you can directly change your understanding subconsciously, and the way he says it is to facilitate understanding and application.

"This method is very interesting! I went through it in my mind just now, and I can directly determine that Ami's match with me is much higher than Chigusa's. However, I think there is another important factor in your method-" Wang Shuai looked at Chen Wenjin, wanting to make sure if he knew.

"The influence of non-attribute factors, as well as the change in the proportion of attribute relationships, are dynamic, static, and the degree of influence is suddenly amplified under special circumstances. For example, in the evaluation, you and Xiao Xiao are very compatible, but the background relationship determines that you can't get too close to her, which is affected by non-attribute factors, and the degree directly excludes everything else. Chen Wen saw Wang Shuai nodding today, knowing that he was the one who discovered this problem when he was evaluating Xiao Xiao. "But this factor is as difficult to quantify as feelings, and can only be evaluated and adjusted by the individual according to the situation, so I didn't mention it. ”

"Yes, it's not easy to make a definitive measure. Wang Shuai saw that Chen Wenjin already knew, so there was no need to talk about it, so he smiled and said: "I think that after Qiancao uses this method, there is a high probability that she will give me an answer in advance, and she will clearly know that I am not her dish." With her personality and style, she will not waste everyone's time by hanging me, and will definitely take the initiative to make it clear to me. ”

"If I had known this, I would not have said it. Chen Wen pretended to be remorseful, and Wang Shuai couldn't help but smile and said, "You're bad!"

But actually, they all know that this is good.