Chapter 57 What I can't let go of is regret
Yuan Jia was ready, and when he heard the doorbell ringing, he got up and went over to open the door.
Standing outside the door was Miss Wang Yalin, who had made an appointment at two o'clock to consult, and as always, Yuan Jia quickly understood her emotional state through observation.
Wang Yalin was wearing an over-the-knee dress, a thin little face, and no makeup, she was supposed to be a young and beautiful girl, but now her face was sallow, and her lips were pale and chapped.
Before she looked up at Yuanjia, her eyes were empty and expressionless.
Few college students of her age have experienced the pain of losing their mother, and the suddenness of the incident made her feel like a dream and at a loss.
"Hello Miss Wang. ”
Listening to Yuan Jia's words, Wang Yalin's sloppy gaze condensed, and when it fell on Yuan Jia's face, she still couldn't see any expression, not that she covered it up well, but that her heart was empty.
Her eyes opened slightly, her black eyes were a little gray like dust, and as she spoke, her cheeks also sunken, and she seemed to be trying hard to make a voice from her throat: "Hello Teacher Yuan, ......"
"Please come in. ”
Yuan Jia didn't say much, and took Wang Yalin to the office to sit quietly.
As she adjusted her mood, Yuanjia brought her a glass of warm water.
"Thank you......"
"Tell me about your troubles. ”
Yuan Jia's voice was very penetrating, but it did not make Wang Yalin nervous, but invaded her body and mind very softly.
Wang Yalin began to talk slowly, Yuan Jia did not let her talk about the recent events, but first let her start from the memories of childhood.
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"My mother was very good to me, I was the only daughter in the family, and she often told me that she wanted to see me in my wedding dress......"
Wang Yalin began to choke, and her eyes instantly turned red, but she couldn't hold back her tears.
"It's okay, you can trust me completely, you don't have to suppress your emotions. ”
"She has a very good personality and can get along with anyone, when she was living in high school, she was afraid that I would not eat well at school, so she often cooked and sent it over, and made a lot of extra dishes for me to share with my roommates, she is really a good person......"
Wang Yalin couldn't control her emotions, and Douda's tears slid down her cheeks.
Several times I couldn't even speak clearly, just cried.
"She has high blood pressure, but I haven't taken it seriously before, I'm an irresponsible daughter, I should take her health more seriously, spend more time with her, I regret it now, I can't breathe at the thought ......of not even seeing her for the last time"
"I often think about how desperate she must have been when she fainted in the kitchen, no one was around her, no one helped her up, she must have been thinking about me at that time, but I was still playing at school......"
Wang Yalin cried silently, choking on her own tears and coughing constantly.
She even thought about going on a hunger strike to feel the pain of her mother's last moments, and she regretted that she couldn't be by her side.
"I hid under the quilt with her picture and cried, not daring to let my dad see it, I knew that he was more painful than me, but he still had to take care of my feelings......"
"But I really can't get out, these days I have dreamed of her every night, I dreamed of her talking to me, I really miss her, I have fantasized more than once that I died in an accident, I hope she can come and take me with me, I haven't had time to repay, she is gone, I feel empty in my heart, I am really very uncomfortable, very tired and tired......"
Yuan Jia can empathize with Wang Yalin's pain, and he experienced this kind of grief in his dream last night.
Most people are not afraid of their own death, but they are afraid of the death of the person they love the most, and the death of the person they love the most, leaving the living behind often suffer immensely great.
A white head overnight is not an exaggeration.
"It's okay......"
Yuan Jia patted her shoulder gently, he only said this comforting word from beginning to end, but Wang Yalin's mood gradually stabilized.
The force of the shoulder tap is small, but it has a tremendous soothing energy.
"Have you watched "Dream Travel"?"
Wang Yalin's mood improved a lot, she sniffed and shook her head gently.
"In "Dream Travel", it is said that after death, the person who died did not leave, but lived in our hearts and memories, if we forget her one day, then she is the real ...... leaving"
"I won't forget her, never...... Teacher Yuan, what should I do?"
Yuan Jia said softly: "I also used to grieve because of the loss of my loved ones, and I also cried helplessly at night, but later I learned to observe myself, and I found that my emotions are part of missing her, and she continues to live in my heart because of my thoughts." ”
"Whenever this happens, I quietly allow me to miss her for a while, remembering what she expects from me and what she has said to me, and I can feel the warm love surrounding me. ”
Wang Yalin listened quietly, Yuan Jia's words had never been told to her by others, he did not tell her to let go, but asked her to remember and feel this love.
Wang Yalin could feel Yuan Jia's understanding, although he didn't say much, but from his eyes, expressions, movements, and Adam's apple rolling from time to time, she seemed to be able to feel Yuan Jia's emotions.
He had experienced such pain.
This is something that Wang Yalin does not feel in the eyes of the other three counselors, who are more like sympathetic listeners, while Yuan Jia is an empathetic empathizer.
"You close your eyes and feel the part of your emotions that you miss her. ”
Wang Yalin closed her eyes and felt quietly according to Yuan Jia's words.
Tears flowed, and this time it was not because of sadness, but because I felt the warmth of that love.
Seeing that Wang Yalin has gradually entered the state, Yuan Jia plans to undergo hypnotherapy.
"Come with me to the lounge, and I'll do hypnotherapy for you. ”
Teacher Yuan...... Does it work?"
"Your mom has always been in your heart, and you might be able to see her again and tell her what you want to say to her. ”
Meet her!
Yuan Jia's words aroused Wang Yalin's anticipation, she nodded vigorously, got up and followed Yuan Jia to the lounge to receive hypnotherapy.
Through the consultation just now, Yuan Jia already knew that the biggest reason why Wang Yalin couldn't let go of her mother's death was actually regret and regret.
I regret that I didn't love her well, I regret that I didn't see her for the last time, and I regret that I still have a lot of things to say that I can't tell her......
He has reached empathy with Wang Yalin, Wang Yalin trusts him very much, and the prerequisites for hypnosis have been met.
If you want to get Wang Yalin out of grief, then hypnosis is the best treatment.
Let her see her deceased mother in a hypnotic state, let her last feel the warmth, let her fill all her regrets, say to her what she wants to say but can't say it, and even fulfill her mother's wishes and stand in front of her in a wedding dress.
People suffer because they want to do things but can't do them.
After doing what she wants to do and letting go of her obsession, there will naturally be no grief and regret, but the precious memories of her mother will always remain in her heart.
Wang Yalin adjusted a comfortable sitting position under Yuan Jia's guidance.
"So let's get started......"
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(Thank you for the reward of the spine, I have become the new helmsman~)