After answering the email letter, Yuan Jia chatted with the audience for a while, and continued to read the next email.

"Mr. Yuan, I am a 27-year-old girl, I found that as soon as I go on a blind date or fall in love, I can't help but enter a state of 'scrutiny', I know that there are some excellent boys among them, but every time the result is not satisfied. ”

"In the process of getting along, the state of 'scrutiny' has always been with me, I will find fault in all aspects of others, and I am also very impatient when I communicate, and now I am very repulsive when I hear about blind dates. ”

"Is it my own problem? I hope the teacher can answer ......"

After reading the letter, the audience also began to discuss.

[I found that I seem to have this kind of problem, but it's not that serious, I always feel that the other party is not good here and there, and I can't look at it]

[I don't like blind dates either]

[What if it's a blind date like Mr. Yuan?]

[Marry on the spot!]

[Based on Mr. Yuan, I'm afraid I'm going to be single]

Blind date,Yuan Jia has a lot of experience in this problem.,Although it's not a blind date veteran.,But you can also analyze the problem of the subject.。

"I don't know if you've been in love before, but a twenty-seven-year-old girl, it's inevitable that the family will urge you, and this is understandable. ”

"The problem is that you want to find one you like but can't find it, the more your family urges, the more bored you are, but the three aunts and six mothers-in-law go into battle together to put pressure on you, and there will definitely be no good results for blind dates with pressure. ”

"People have a rebellious mentality, for the blind date, they will find fault, in fact, to put it bluntly, they don't want to succeed, but they want to have a family, so they fall into a dead loop. ”

[Yes, yes, yes, I'm like that!, I just want to mess up on purpose!]

[I don't want to go on a blind date either, how can I skip the process of getting along and have a husband and baby daughter directly]

[Cut, I still want to skip the process of marrying a wife and have a daughter]

[Has Mr. Yuan been on a blind date?]

[Teacher Yuan is so handsome and needs a blind date?]

Yuan Jia looked at the barrage, slightly embarrassed, and naturally wouldn't admit it.

However, he saw a familiar little fresh avatar, nicknamed 'Yin Yin Monster', and he knew that it was Zhao Shiyin's at a glance, and he sent a [smile] expression in the barrage, and spent six yuan to get a card for Yuanjia.

Mr. Zhao said that he came to watch his live broadcast, but he didn't expect to come.

If she hadn't secretly bubbled, Yuan Jia wouldn't have known that she was peeping.

In this way, Mr. Li is afraid that he is also peeping, and there may be other female classmates who are also peeping......

【Teacher Yuan, I like you!】

Occasionally, such a barrage floats by, and it seems to be their anonymous confession, which is a real headache......

Back to the topic, Yuan Jia cleared his throat and continued: "It's not difficult to change this state, the key is not to go on a blind date with pressure, you must respect each other, whether you like it or not, for a boy, respect for him comes first, and respecting him is also respecting yourself." ”

"In addition, you must change your mode of thinking, whether it is introduced by others or by chance, you must know that blind date does not mean love, let alone marriage, you are free, no one can interfere, let go of pressure, let go of all kinds of conjecture and prediction, naturally will not over-'examine' the other party, maybe you will find a satisfactory object. ”

【666】

[I feel that Mr. Yuan is very experienced]

【Hahaha】

A few black lines slid down Yuan Jia's face, and hurried to the next topic.

"Teacher Yuan, I fell in love with a 34-year-old married woman, eight years older than me, but she looked very young, she looked very quiet and cold, she was in the company when I first met, she was dressed in a very plain but very high-end, very light makeup, and her long hair was pulled up with a wooden hairpin, I was deeply attracted by her at once, and even clearly remembered the faint fragrance when she walked past me. ”

"Later, the more we got along, the more I felt that she was mysterious and special, so different, I never forgot her, I even dreamed of her. ”

"I kept looking for opportunities to get close to her, and then I confessed, she smiled very calmly, and asked me if I knew that she was married, and I said I knew, she didn't say anything, and gradually distanced herself from me. ”

"At the party two days ago, I couldn't help but kiss her in the corner, this time she was really angry, but I really like her, what should I do?"

It's rare to hear a letter from a boy, and after reading it, the girls in the live broadcast room are all talking about it.

[Everyone is married, brother, don't be delusional!]

[When I used to study, some students confessed to me]

[I won't look for a boy younger than me anyway, I feel immature]

[Then you are an uncle?]

[Envy the charm of that woman, think about the old lady who will be 34 years old in the future, I don't know if there is still a little fresh meat that takes a fancy to me]

[Brother is the same as me, I'm also a sister control, I like the royal sister]

After reading the letter, Yuan Jia raised his eyebrows and said, "My Fair Lady, the gentleman is good, it is natural to like it, but you know the situation." ”

"From your description, I can also feel the charm of that woman, even if she is thirty-four, she still looks young and has an elegant temperament, which is her characteristic. ”

"You know, these qualities of hers are not given to her by appearance, but by her life experience, you are intoxicated by her maturity, her growth is brought about by her husband, not you, if you go back ten years, she may not be able to attract you. ”

"Love and possessiveness are two different things, and you are obviously the latter, that is, to covet her. ”

"If you really like her, then respect her family, don't be an excuse for possessiveness because of your appreciation and recognition, and make bad moves. ”

[Agree!Teacher Yuan's three views are very positive!]

[Speaking of love and possessiveness, I think of a book, "The Devotion of Suspect X", loving someone can actually be so loved]

[Teacher Yuan is right, the subject doesn't really like her at all, has he considered her from her point of view]

Women are more concerned about spiritual emotions than men, and the discussion on this topic is also very popular in the live broadcast room.

The next questions are mostly about emotions, Yuan Jia feels that she has become the president of the women's association, and the live broadcast room has also become a 'seminar for girlfriends'

Finally there was a letter for other types of inquiries, and Yuan Jia cleared his throat and began to read the letter.

"Hello teacher...... I'm a girl, I don't dare to speak in front of others, as soon as I talk to others, I feel like I'm going to make a fool of myself, I can't help but blush, my heart beats so fast, especially when I speak in front of everyone, I feel like a public execution, the whole person is stupid, the world is spinning dizzy, I can still hold back in front of others, and I can't help crying when I get off the field, everyone thinks I'm crazy, but I just think others are so scary, I can't help but be scared when I talk, I have no friends so far......"

Yuan Jia frowned slightly, if the description is true, this is already a very typical social phobia.

The treatment of social phobia is quite cumbersome and cannot be solved in a sentence or two.

And social phobia is often accompanied by other types of mental illness, including depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, agoraphobia, etc.

The current treatment method is usually a combination of medication and psychological counseling, and systematic desensitization therapy is one of the more effective methods, but it usually requires the assistance of a psychological counselor.

[I'm also quite afraid of socializing, but it's not as serious as the subject]

[My phone is muted, I'm afraid that someone will call, and my heart will beat wildly as soon as the bell rings]

[Mmmm, I used to have a classmate who was a social phobia, and then dropped out of school and never saw him again]

The barrage began to talk about this topic, and when Yuanjia was thinking about how to help this girl, a large reward floated in the live broadcast room.

[Gardenia: Give away x1]

Yuan Jia was stunned, how much does the super rocket cost to send ......?

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