71. Trust them
Mr. Guo was just playing with a surprise attack.
Other teachers like to be notified in advance, so parents who are notified will be prepared, and what they say is not flowery, but it is also very beautiful. But once the thing of this speech is beautiful, it is difficult to say something. After all, everyone is not a great writer, who can guarantee that the things they make are beautiful and substantial.
So she changed her routine this time, and she also wanted to see if Zhou's mother could say something useful to other students' parents when she was temporarily ordained.
And to be honest, Zhou Fangyuan has really made great progress this time, after all, the results of the high school entrance examination are there, and the results of the high school entrance examination are not good, which means that the knowledge in the junior high school stage has not been learned well at all. In the case that there is already a big gap, the foundation is not solid enough, and Zhou Fangyuan can catch up and surpass many classmates who are much better than him all the way, which is not easy.
Even if others make progress, it is a small progress, and such a large improvement is really unseen in Mr. Guo's few teaching experiences. So she has some expectations, expecting Zhou's mother to come up with some excellent suggestions.
As a result, she did this, but she made Zhou's mother a trap.
It's just that she said it in front of so many parents, and Zhou's mother couldn't refuse if she wanted to.
Zhou's mother could only turn her head to look at Zhou Fangyuan.
Zhou Fangyuan also has a headache now, Mr. Guo's sudden attack this time put him in himself, fortunately, it was not him who came to the stage to speak, he could only avoid his mother's eyes as if nothing happened.
"That's it, Zhou Fangyuan's mother, you sit for a while, there are still a few parents who haven't come, and when everyone comes, we'll start the parent-teacher conference. ”
Teacher Guo finally closed the coffin, and Zhou Fangyuan's mother and son had no way to refuse Teacher Guo's proposal, so they could only walk to Zhou Fangyuan's seat. Zhou's mother's hand quietly fell on Zhou Fangyuan's arm, and then twisted it hard.
"Silk—"
Zhou Fangyuan gasped, turned his head to look, and saw his mother staring at him.
Get!
It's punishing yourself.
Zhou Fangyuan could only shake his head and smile bitterly, he didn't expect this at all. Not telling the truth at home is just to surprise your parents, but who would have thought that the surprise would be so big?
Arranged for his mother to sit down, Zhou Fangyuan hurriedly ran to the door of the classroom, and after welcoming the last few parents into the classroom, the classroom door was closed, and Zhou Fangyuan and several people were locked outside the classroom.
After the sound inside was completely blocked, Guo Jing came up with a smile.
"What's going on?"
"Get out!"
Zhou Fangyuan's eyes widened.
"Hehe, don't you blame yourself? If you tell the truth, you won't have this problem?"
Guo Jing hooked Zhou Fangyuan's neck with a hippie smile, and his expression was more than enough to be beaten.
"It's different, in the past, the teacher would tell us in advance whose parents were going to let speak on stage, but this time it has completely changed, has Mr. Guo informed you?"
Shen Xing answered on the side, and then looked at the others.
Everyone shook their heads, obviously, Mr. Guo really didn't notify anyone.
"You see, we haven't been notified, everyone is the same, you can rest assured. ”
Guo Jing patted Zhou Fangyuan's chest and said with a laugh.
"Can that be the same?"
Zhou Fangyuan glared at him again.
"You used to study well, and your parents would often be called to speak on stage, even if you didn't prepare in advance this time, you have more experience than my mother. My mother has never been on the podium before, what if she makes a fool of herself? ”
Zhou Fangyuan leaned against the wall with a helpless face and said helplessly.
His words caused the other students to snicker.
Although the classroom door was closed, they could still faintly hear the sound inside.
Teacher Guo first made a summary of the teaching situation in the first half of the year, and then praised some students by name, including Zhou Fangyuan, Zhou's mother sat in the classroom with a red face, she was excited, as a parent who was criticized by the teacher almost every time in the first three years, this time she was praised by the teacher, Zhou's mother was very happy and excited.
Then it was the same naming and criticism as always, Zhou Fangyuan looked at the situation in this class through the window, and the parents who were named and criticized did not look very good. While it is impossible for a teacher to criticize parents, she is criticizing those students. But aren't students the children of their parents? When children are criticized, they will be disgraced along with them.
"Now there is no one else in the classroom, we have what to say," Teacher Guo said, and suddenly the conversation changed, "Learning is not important, I believe that parents know better than me, I know that some of you are very busy, and I also know that some of you don't care about your children's learning status, so I can not listen to what I say next, I only target those parents who care about their children's learning." ”
Speaking of this, Mr. Guo paused.
"Personally, I think learning is a very important thing. Studying well may not be able to find a good job, and studying well may not necessarily lead to no achievements, but learning can change a person's quality and vision. Even if the latter could make more money, it would be all too rare.
Under normal circumstances, people with higher education will inevitably be more successful than those with low education. I hope that all the parents here, even if you don't think about yourself, you should think more about your children, do you want to see your children live worse day by day in the future? Don't you want your children to get better and better? Maybe when you are old, you can still get a little light with your children, instead of waiting for your children to be tall and even raising the next generation, and they will reach out to you for help because of the difficulties in life. ”
Teacher Guo's words made many parents show thoughtful expressions.
Teacher Guo looked at the expressions of the parents and nodded with satisfaction.
"Okay, that's all I have to say, let's ask the parents of the students to come up and talk about your education methods, Zhou Fangyuan's mother?
Teacher Guo was the first to name Zhou's mother, and when Zhou Fangyuan heard this, he immediately put his head back from the window. Because he had already seen his mother's gaze, it was a complaining gaze. But then he stretched his head out again, watching his mother walk up to the podium step by step, and when she looked at him again, Zhou Fangyuan immediately showed a flattering smile and stretched out his thumb at the same time.
Mother Zhou glanced at him without a trace, and then looked at the more than seventy parents in the class below, she took a deep breath and her expression was a little calmer.
"Actually, I, I don't have much experience to say, Mr. Guo has to let me talk about it, I don't know what to say......"
Zhou's mother said with some apprehension, and got the kind laughter of other parents.
"My kids, in fact, have always been a worry for me. You may not know that he didn't like to study since he was a child. When he was in elementary school, his grades were quite good because of his simple studies. At that time, we thought that our child was very smart, and when he was ready to go to junior high school, we didn't want him to go to No. 7 Middle School, because the atmosphere of that school was too bad.
His father and I used our family savings to send him to No. 6 Middle School. But he didn't study hard, his grades were not as good as day by day, his father was so worried that his hair was gray, and I also had a bad stomach because I was often angry, and now I will feel uncomfortable eating something cold. But we have always felt that the boy has strong stamina, maybe he will be sensible when he goes to high school?
So when he was ready to go to high school, we discussed it for a long time, and we still wanted him to come to No. 3 Middle School. Because the teaching in the third middle school is better, and the atmosphere is stronger than that of the fourth and fifth middle schools, but his high school entrance examination score is only 450 points, and he needs to pay a high price to get in. His father and I are both ordinary workers, so how can we have so much savings. We borrowed money everywhere to make up enough for his tuition, and in the end there was still a gap of 9,000 yuan, and we were so sad that we had to sell our house and land......
When she said this, Zhou's mother's expression was a little choked.
Zhou Fangyuan put his head against the wall, closed his eyes, and tried not to let others see his appearance at this time.
The other students also listened quietly, no one spoke, and the parents in the classroom did not speak, and many parents even began to wipe their tears. These parents are those parents whose family conditions are not very good, and their children's grades are average, and their families smash pots and sell iron to send their children in. Some of the parents and children in it are even the same as Zhou Fangyuan in the previous life, obviously painting the high price that the family almost had to sell blood to get, but they are not good at studying.
They empathize with Zhou's mother's experience, because these situations also happened in their family.
"I don't know when my son changed, it seems like a month before the start of school, and one night he suddenly said to the two of us that he would not let us sell the house and land, and that he had a way to get the money himself.
Although my child's academic performance is not good, I believe that he is still an honest child. I wanted to ask him what he wanted to do, but my family told me not to ask, so that I could believe and support my son's idea.
So we gave him 500 yuan, and he used the money to buy a sausage roast machine in the market, and then set up a stall on Daxi Street for half a month, and it was the hottest day, and he sat in the sun, and the skin on his body was peeled off layer by layer, and he earned the 9,000 yuan......
Speaking of this, Zhou's mother seemed to think of Zhou Fangyuan's tanned skin like a piece of black charcoal, and finally couldn't help but reach out and wipe her tears.
Other parents were wide-eyed, they didn't expect this to happen.
"I don't say this to praise my children for being sensible, I just want to say, parents, our children are good children, we should believe in them and support them. Maybe they are not sensible yet, maybe they don't like to study now, but one day they will wake up and understand the difficulties of us as parents. Even if that day comes late, they are still our children, and those of us as parents can't always scold them and beat them, we should encourage them more, give them confidence, and let them have more courage to face the future. ”
In the last paragraph, Zhou's mother was completely moved.
When the words landed, there was a warm applause in the classroom, Teacher Guo was also applauding, and other parents were applauding.
Zhou Fangyuan stood outside the classroom, maintaining the posture of pressing his head against the wall, and finally couldn't help but shed tears.