72. Praise and criticism, different worlds

Zhou Fangyuan thinks that he is not a sentimental person, but after being reborn, he is younger and seems to be more easily moved.

What his mother said in the classroom reminded him of his previous life. Perhaps it is this trust that makes them "indulge" themselves all the time, and as a result, they go further and further down the wrong path. So can you say that this kind of trust is wrong? No, trust is right, and it is you who is wrong.

Guo Jing didn't know when he came to Zhou Fangyuan's back, although he was facing the wall and bowing his head, anyone could see that his mood was not calm now. Guo Jing patted him lightly on the shoulder, "Zhou Fangyuan, are you okay?"

"I'm fine," Zhou Fangyuan hurriedly straightened up, he quickly wiped the corners of his eyes, "I'm fine, it's just that my nose is a little itchy and I want to sneeze." Well, I'm going to wash my face, I'm in a hurry this morning, and I didn't wash my face. ”

After speaking, he didn't look at the others, turned around directly, and walked towards the water room by himself.

The surrounding classmates looked inexplicable, only Shen Xing, looking at Zhou Fang's distant back, with a thoughtful expression on his face.

Although Zhou's mother's words are simple and don't make much sense, they can be regarded as substantial, especially when they have not been notified in advance, it is indeed commendable to be able to say such a thing.

Led by Ms. Guo, everyone in the classroom applauded her.

Zhou's mother was very confident when she said it, but when she finished speaking, she suddenly became a little shy, and she was applauded by the parents below, and her face turned red.

"I, I'm all talking nonsense......"

"No, Zhou Fangyuan's mother, what you said is very good. Teacher Guo stood up with applause, she walked up to the podium and looked at the parents below, "This is a problem that many of our parents and teachers have, they think that children should learn more lessons, and if they don't teach, they will make mistakes and go the wrong way." There was nothing wrong with this idea, but it was too much. While we criticize our children, we should always praise them to build their self-confidence, and at the same time we should give them enough trust. Confident children are the best, if a child loses self-confidence, not only will he not do well in the exam, but he will also hit a wall everywhere in the future. So I hope that all of us, parents, and we, teachers, will educate our children while ensuring that they don't go down the wrong path, and on the other hand, giving them enough trust to develop their self-confidence. ”

Teacher Guo said, and applause rang out again. Zhou's mother, who was standing next to her, also applauded, she didn't expect that she would be so recognized by Teacher Guo for what she said casually.

"Zhou Fangyuan's mother, thank you for your speech, you go back and rest first, and I will call the other parents to come up. ”

Teacher Guo said with a smile.

"Oh, yes, yes. ”

Hearing this, Zhou's mother immediately stepped off the podium and sat back on Zhou Fangyuan's seat, and several parents next to her immediately turned around and talked to Zhou's mother.

Teacher Guo also immediately called the second parent to the podium, as Zhou Fangyuan said, except for Zhou's mother, other parents have had a lot of experience in this area before, so even if they don't prepare in advance, they won't have stage fright.

And Zhou's mother made a good start in the front, and the parents in the back also put away the scene and began to say some of their true thoughts. In fact, to be honest, how many parents at this time have real experience in education? Aren't they crossing the river by feeling the stones? It can only be said that their family education may indeed be slightly better, but more of them are their own children who are sensible and can absorb as much nutrients as possible from family education and become excellent themselves.

Even the way parents educate them has become very good.

In fact, if someone really imitates the education methods of the parents of those students of Tsinghua University and North University, the children taught may not be able to be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University, and even other problems may occur. Therefore, the education method has always been different from person to person, and now what parents share, not so much as the education method, is more about the daily way parents and children get along, as well as some details of daily life.

It's like respecting children's privacy, not blowing too much foul language in front of children, such as how to make them an honest person...... The atmosphere in the classroom was very good for a while, and the parents who came to the stage shared a lot of their own tips and opinions, and the parents below benefited a lot from listening.

The applause continued, Zhou Fangyuan washed his face and dried it naturally and turned back, and he could still hear bursts of applause inside.

That didn't last long, though.

When Teacher Luan, who taught Chinese, appeared at the door of the classroom, Zhou Fangyuan could already predict what would happen in the classroom.

Teacher Luan's full name is Luan Jianfeng, as his name suggests, although he is a woman, he has a very strict character. The whole person is like a sharp sword, and sometimes it hurts people very much. Of course, she was originally the kind of person who had a good mouth, and what she said was ugly, and her heart was not good for the sake of the students?

It's a pity that most students can't understand this, so Teacher Luan is the teacher that most of the students in Class 5 hate and fear the most, and there is no one.

is no longer young, with an unsmiling expression, and slightly raised eyebrows, let's put it this way, even if you just glance at Teacher Luan, you will feel that the other party is not a good talker.

In fact, when Teacher Luan knocked on the classroom door and walked into the classroom, the originally cheerful atmosphere suddenly dropped to freezing point as if a ton of ice had been thrown into it.

"My name is Luan Jianfeng, the Chinese teacher of Class 5. ”

After nodding to Teacher Guo, Luan Jianfeng walked up to the podium and said such a sentence with an expressionless face.

"My classmates and parents are here, right? I'm going to criticize a few people by name today......

There is no superfluous nonsense at all, and as soon as Mr. Luan opens his mouth, he criticizes by name. It's the students who are criticizing, but they're not criticizing the parents? At the very least, the parents of the named students will definitely become very faceless.

"Who is Wu Jing's parent?"

When it comes to doing it, Teacher Luan's first sentence is to point out the girls with the worst academic performance in the class. And her parents, the dress doesn't look luxurious, but it's not very bad, in short, it's a relatively ordinary level.

"I am Wu Jing's parent, Teacher Luan, and my family is quietly ...... her"

"Let's not talk about Wu Jing's academic performance, I want to ask, do you pay attention to her studies at home? Usually you don't finish your homework, don't you parents ask? Look at her grades this time, she scored 52 points in Chinese! How did she get the test? Three of the multiple-choice questions were right, one was right in the poems, and the ancient Chinese translations were all wrong. Wu Jing's parents, let's leave the child's character good or bad, let's talk about the grades. Chinese is one of the three main subjects, and even if it is divided into arts and science classes in the future, Chinese is also a compulsory subject. With Wu Jing's current state of study, it is impossible for her to be admitted to university, unless she can get full marks in all other subjects! But is this possible? I hope you can pay more attention to your children's learning when you go home, her current study is very problematic, you want to ignore it or not, it will be too late to take care of it in the future, you know?"

Don't leave any face at all, and open fire directly with one mouth.

Wu Jing's parents were red-faced by Teacher Luan, but they couldn't say anything, after all, the other party was the Chinese teacher of this class, and they really offended the other party, what should they do if they put on small shoes for their daughter?

After talking about Wu Jing's parents, Teacher Luan pointed the finger at other parents, and after "teaching" eight parents in one go, he died down.

"But some students are still doing well in the exam, who is Zhou Fangyuan's parent?"

It's Zhou Fangyuan again.

The other parents all looked in the direction of Zhou's mother, and Zhou's mother slowly stood up.

"Zhou Fangyuan's exam results this time are not bad, which is much higher than his score when he entered the school, which shows that he has worked hard. He usually completes his homework very carefully, and he also listens carefully in class, and I hope he can continue to keep it up. ”

"Okay, I'll urge him, thank you, Mr. Luan. ”

Zhou's mother nodded and said.

Next, several students were praised, including Duan Qingyi. Teacher Luan really likes Duan Qingyi, and has proposed more than once that she wants Duan Qingyi to be the representative of her Chinese class, but unfortunately Duan Qingyi just doesn't agree.

The "lesson" has also been "taught", and the praise has been praised, and Mr. Luan has other classes to go, so he left the classroom after a few words.

And during the time she was talking, some teachers from other classes also came to the door of class five, some teachers saw that there were teachers in class five who were talking now, and turned around and went to other classes, but some teachers stayed, like physics teacher Liu, he stood outside the door of the classroom and talked and laughed with Zhou Fangyuan.

The teachers entered the classroom one by one, and everyone had to praise them by name after they entered, and they all criticized them by name, and the parents of the students with the worst academic performance were now completely unable to raise their heads. Almost every teacher has to name them and criticize them. And Zhou's mother, this time there is no doubt that she has enjoyed the treatment of the stars, almost every teacher has to praise Zhou Fangyuan when she enters the door, there is no way, he has greatly improved every subject compared with the high school entrance examination, and his comprehensive score has climbed hundreds of places in the grade, of course, he will be praised.

The result of this is that after the parent-teacher meeting is finally over, Zhou's mother walks a little floating.

Zhou Fangyuan hurriedly went over to support his mother, compared to his mother's state at this time, maybe she was like those parents who were criticized in her previous life, sitting in the classroom and unable to raise her head, and couldn't wait to leave here when she got out of the classroom.

Therefore, it is really important to study well, at least to study well can give your parents a big face. Parents of top and poor students are sitting in different worlds when they have a parent-teacher conference.

Zhou Fangyuan looked at Zhou's mother's smiling face, and the idea of studying hard became more determined with this parent-teacher meeting.