Chapter 116: Strength and Weakness
"Goodbye Joe!"
"Goodbye!"
At eight o'clock, Yuan Jia drove Qiao Shanshan home on time, and Yuan Hui also followed, sent Qiao Shanshan back home, and touched a big dog head with many treasures, giggling happily.
After going downstairs and getting into the car, Yuanjia started the car and drove home.
Huihui poked her little head out of the back seat.
"Brother, do you want to take me to play when you buy a new car?"
"Why do I have to take you to play when I buy a new car?"
Huihui sat back in the back seat, shook her little buttocks, and said, "But if you can't drive the car after buying it, then why do you want to buy a car?"
Huihui grinds and grinds with her brother, and she can always pull out a million reasons to take her to play on weekends.
If the stupid sister could put this mind on studying, she wouldn't count down with Qiao Shanshan in the class......
At half past eight, Yuan Jia started tonight's live broadcast.
Fans have been waiting for half an hour.
[Teacher Yuan is late]
[Don't sing two songs to make amends?]
ใClass 2 students come for sightseeingใ
has just started broadcasting, and the number of barrages is already quite large, with the popularity on the Internet these days, the number of followers in Yuanjia's live broadcast room has exceeded 500,000, and the average number of online viewers in the past two nights is more than 20,000.
There are so many private messages in the mailbox that they explode, so that Yuan Jia can't read them at all, so he can only take a cursory look at the email title and extract some more representative letters from them for live explanation.
The audience with the most brisk barrage is Yuanjia's students.
Since knowing that Mr. Yuan is a psychological anchor on the live broadcast platform, the students will come to join in the fun almost every night.
Compared with the more professional psychological knowledge in class, the more down-to-earth and real interpretation of psychological problems in the live broadcast room made them feel that they had gained a lot.
The students of Su University all know that there is an Internet celebrity teacher in the school recently, and many people come to squat, even if they are not interested in psychological questions and answers, they will come to listen to Teacher Yuan sing and sing.
"I'm a little late tonight, so let's sing a song to everyone. Yuan Jia said with a smile.
[Gardenia boss came out to order a song]
Xu Nanyu happily came out to order songs.
Gardenia's thirty-fifth song trumpet: "I want to hear courage~!"
Gardenia secretly sang this song to Yuanjia last night.
I love you-
The crowding of the needless sea of people-
Exhaust the strength of the rest of your life-
Just to be close to you-
Even if it's a centimeter-
As soon as Yuanjia sang the song, the fans' small gifts were brushed up.
[It's so good to cry]
[Teacher Yuan, please do another song]
[Good to listen to]
[This voice is too gentle]
[I'm pregnant]
Yuan Jia picked up the freshly squeezed orange juice he had just bought on the table and took a sip, moistened his throat, and said with a smile: "Let's sing it again at the end of the live broadcast, I have received many letters from classmates recently, and many classmates in southern Jiangsu have come to me for offline consultation, thank you especially for your support." โ
The email reading session began.
"Teacher Yuan, I have been an introvert since I was a child, and I have always been inconspicuous in the crowd, in fact, it is not inferior, but I feel that everyone doesn't seem to care much about me, or a little transparent that feeling, I like to read very much, whether it is good or prose, I can always taste the world in the book, but it is not that reading can improve a person's aura, but I always feel that I am still very weak, so I am very confused. โ
ใCultural Peopleใ
[I like it, I don't know if I like to read]
[People who like to read should be quieter]
There was a lot of talk in the barrage.
Yuan Jia finished reading the letter, took a sip of freshly squeezed orange juice, he rarely drank tea or coffee in the evening, but liked to drink a little juice, or eat fresh fruits, over time, I think this is also very good, very healthy.
This habit was learned from a friend who likes health in college, whether it is reading or socializing, it will always change a person subtly.
Yuan Jia put down the cup and said, "The letter has been read, and in the letter, you mentioned a very key word - aura. โ
"I don't know how you understand aura? There must be many people who associate 'aura' with 'temperament'. โ
[Teacher Yuan didn't say it, I really didn't find out]
[What's the difference?]
"Temperament and aura are different, temperament is the external manifestation of the influence of your personal mental activity, while aura is your influence on the surrounding environment and people. โ
"So what's the relationship between the two, when your temperament is strong to a certain extent, and you pay attention to influencing the people and things around you, then you have the so-called aura. โ
For example, a professor with deep academic research, or a powerful tycoon in the business world, they only need to appear in the crowd, and the aura will immediately affect others, either causing cheers or silence. โ
[Haha, I think of several classic villains in film and television dramas]
"Going back to the letter just now, the first thing that is certain is that reading can change a person's temperament, but this is not the role of books, but the role of thinking in the process of reading. โ
"Through thinking, you can know your choice very clearly, which invisibly transforms into your self-confidence, and this self-confidence is your temperament, strong to a certain degree of knowledge, it becomes your aura, which means that even if you are deep in the corner of the crowd, even if others do not see you, you will not be anxious because of this, and naturally there will be no problems mentioned in your letter. โ
"The meaning of reading is not how many books you read, but whether you think for yourself in the process. โ
[Mr. Yuan, can introverts also have a sense of existence]
[Yes, because I'm introverted, I feel like I'm a little transparent]
Yuan Jia looked at the barrage and smiled: "Introversion will not cause much damage to a person's sense of existence, introverted celebrities abound, what really makes a person have no sense of existence is the lack of independent thinking consciousness, and it is mediocrity." โ
[Understood] x999
"Hello Mr. Yuan, I've been watching your live broadcast recently, including your class video, you should be a very gentle person, I dream of being like you, but I'm very distressed. โ
"Should I be strong or weak, I don't want to be in conflict with others, I don't want to be suppressed everywhere, how can I become a person like you?"
[Haha, every time I read the letter and praise myself, I feel very happy]
[Teacher Yuan, you blush]
[I'm also quite distressed about this problem, and I feel that I am a weak person]
The cheeky Yuan Jia smiled and said, "Thank you very much for this classmate's recognition of me." โ
"Strength and weakness have always been a common character label for us, similar to physical strength and thinness, which is based on our inner strength. โ
"There are two sentences that are very good, one is called 'there is a tiger in the heart, smell the roses', and the other is called 'women are weak, and mothers are strong', ambition will also have times when they are impressed by gentleness and beauty, in fact, each of us has our own masculine side, and also our own feminine side, more or less. โ
"Like the bothering people mentioned in the letter, many people don't know if they should be stronger or weaker?"
"I think it's because you have encountered some kind of occasion in your life, such as going to participate in the company's contract negotiation, at first you may behave friendly and weak, but the other party will be aggressive and make a lot of unreasonable demands, and then change to strong words and actions to negotiate, the other party will admire you and respect you more. As a result, many people mistakenly think that being strong must be better than being weak, but in fact it is not. โ
"Whether you are strong or weak, it is based on self-interest, in other words, where your bottom line is. โ
"Only when we accept and recognize ourselves in our hearts and stick to our bottom line, our external appearance will change because of our internal changes, others can feel the 'power' in us, and they will be more respectful, trusting and accepting us. โ
"A person's strength or weakness is not a one-sided generalization, as we experience more and more maturity, we become strong when we should be strong, weak when we should be weak, and it becomes a consistent and stable character trait. โ
"So, your direction is not 'strong' or 'weak', but a state of 'neither humble nor arrogant' or 'outer circle and inner square', with your own thoughts, your own voice, and a clear boundary between your inner and outer world. โ
"Don't be strong, but be firm and firm, don't be weak, but be gentle and courteous. โ
"In the normal mode of getting along, your greeting, or a word of concern, or a gesture of help, can give people the feeling of warm winter sun and spring breeze. โ
"This is gentleness. โ
[Ah, I'm one step closer on the way to becoming a Yuan teacher]
[Do you have a marshal]
[Gentle and handsome, full of talent]
[I know the truth, cracked]
The two-hour live stream was over quickly.
Yuan Jia used a song "The Best You in the World" as the ending song and gave it to Gardenia.
You're talking about the plot of your dream-
Nervous to the point of crying red eyes-
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(I got off work late today, and the second chapter was not written, maybe it was changed very late, so you don't have to wait)