Fifteen minutes early, Yuan Jia and Zhao Shiyin came to the conference room where the class was held.

There are about 20 teachers who came to listen to the class today, most of them are teachers in the third year of high school, and Director Wang is also there.

Yuan Jia walked up to the podium, and a male teacher helped connect the computer to the projector, this lecture hall is not large, and it is usually used for public classes in some classes.

Ordinary people will inevitably be nervous when they come to lecture on stage, but Yuan Jia can't say that he is nervous, after all, he is also a teacher, and his father is also a teacher, he has been very familiar with this profession since he was a child, plus his own temperament bonus, when he walks on stage, he will make people feel that he is particularly calm and confident.

The teachers came one after another, and by one o'clock, they were all there.

Because it takes up a break, many teachers are actually reluctant to come.

Many of them had studied psychology on their own, and felt that these things were actually only useful verbally, but due to Director Wang's arrangement, they had to come over to listen to the lectures.

Ninety minutes of lecture time is not too long, Yuan Jia has a lot of content to talk about, after a brief self-introduction, he will project the finished courseware on the white cloth.

Of course, Yuan Jia could see the expressions of most of the teachers in the audience, but whether they were willing to listen was their business, and it was his business to collect money to give lectures, and he would not bother with this.

In fact, with the study of the system course, Yuanjia's own professional skills have become stronger and stronger, and now he is not as eager to prove or show others as he used to.

It's like walking on the road, he can also see through his expression that some people's emotional states are not quite right, but he will never rely on his face to tell him 'you are sick, you have to be cured', he actually believes in another approach, that is, if you are willing to ask me for help, then I will be happy to help, if you are not willing to change, then I will not do unnecessary things.

Changing a person is very difficult, and unless the other person is willing to accept it, it is definitely a thankless task.

Yuan Jia began to talk about the psychological characteristics of adolescence.

"This is a time full of contradictions, and the physical and mental development of students is rapid and unbalanced, and there are often psychological difficulties or crises. ”

"The rapid development of physiology, because most of the time is spent on studying, leads to psychological growth can not keep up, and there are psychological and behavioral deviations, such as school boredom, mania, persistent depression, etc. ”

On the contrary, most students will overestimate their maturity psychologically, believing that their thoughts and behaviors belong to the adult level, and they will demand adult-like trust and respect based on this psychology. ”

"In this stage of psychological maturity, on the one hand, they close their hearts and do not open them to adults, and on the other hand, when they encounter setbacks, they hope to get spiritual help from adults. ”

"As self-awareness develops, so do worries, such as the image of personal dignity in the collective, and become more sensitive to loneliness and repression. ”

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Yuanjia's PPT is very good, and the level of the lecture is also very good, not according to the PPT, the PPT shows some pictures and concepts, and then he makes some detailed additions and examples on the stage.

At first, the teachers, who were just planning to come here to check in and be ready to doze off, were gradually attracted by Yuanjia's class, opened the cap of the pen, opened the notebook and began to make some notes that they thought were important.

The two who listened most carefully were Zhao Shiyin and Director Wang, because they were familiar with Yuan Jia, and they also knew that his business level was very high, and the analysis and summary were in place, and they felt very comfortable when they gave lectures.

Yes, it's a comfortable feeling.

Unlike many well-known celebrities, the lecture puts his position very high, and every word is full of the flavor of 'I say what I say is right', and he especially likes to point his fingers at people to speak, his eyes are looking down, and he feels uncomfortable listening to the class.

Yuan Jia's lectures are more like academic exchanges, sharing what he has summarized himself, his expression and movements on the stage are very calm and confident, and he will not give people that aggressive feeling, and he is very comfortable listening to the lecture.

After analyzing the students' learning psychology, adaptation problems, school boredom problems, and adolescent problems, Yuanjia entered the next link, that is, how teachers should communicate effectively with students, and how to arrange and set up learning plans to scientifically improve their grades.

The last time I communicated with Director Wang, I also said that blindly and indiscriminately putting pressure on students is like a double-edged sword, and it will sacrifice many students who are unable to cope with the pressure.

Communication is an art, the mouth is used to speak, but communication must be done with heart.

After talking about the basic law of communication, Yuan Jia also extended a small topic.

"When I was chatting with Mr. Zhao just now, I also talked about a question, that is, what is the meaning of us being teachers, it is us, and I may also become a teacher in a while. ”

The teacher in the audience smiled, agreed with this 'peer', and listened carefully.

"What does it mean, am I lecturing on stage and the students looking at me adoringly, or am I talking to a bad student who is so moved by me that he swears to change his ways, or I am trying to study and teach, and the students are all doing well...... Is that it, I don't think so. ”

"These are not the whole story of education, nor are they the source of happiness. ”

With the example of Zhao Shiyin, the teachers in the audience can empathize with Yuan Jia's words, in fact, most of the teachers are very simple when they first enter the education industry, teaching and educating people, kind and responsible, like gardeners, victims, candles and other books that compare teachers.

It's just that the current situation of education has slapped them in the face, the work has begun to become boring, the days are repeated day by day, and the original intention is gone, like an assembly line, a teacher beaten with iron, and a student who flows water.

"I think the most important thing about being a teacher is wisdom. ”

"Many enthusiastic teachers will take care of everything for their students, even if they are disappointed with their students, they will still be sincere, but in the case of insufficient wisdom, these sincerity will be in vain, and you will feel tired of the teacher's work. ”

This also hit the hearts of some teachers in the audience, and their expressions were a little complicated, especially Zhao Shiyin, as a 'new teacher', she felt deeply, and many times it was useless to be sincere.

"Perseverance in learning and growth, as well as wisdom in educational work, is the most important and has practical significance. ”

With that, Yuanjia moved on to the next free Q&A session.

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