The theme of this training is about the psychological aspects of students, and the main purpose is to help students improve their grades.

Questions and answers naturally revolve around this center.

A Chinese teacher stood up and asked, "Teacher Yuan, I have a question I want to ask. ”

"Please. ”

"Students often ask me, saying that the teacher I have worked hard, but my academic performance just can't go up, what should I do, in fact, looking at the student's entire learning situation, he has indeed worked hard, I can't attribute this reason to his intellectual problems, so Mr. Yuan, is it possible that he needs any help psychologically?"

This question is very typical in the teaching process, and it is often said that some people are born to learn, and some people are not that material.

But Yuanjia believes that this phenomenon is not absolute.

"It is true that we do not deny the existence of gifted students, and they can get twice the result with half the effort in learning, but more students are just ordinary people, and for ordinary people, often he can stick to a matter of interest to the end, then he can also become a gifted person in the mouth of others, and this kind of thing also includes learning. ”

Yuan Jia continued: "Then why is it that he is studying so hard, but the effect is not great? I think the problem is that he is not interested in learning, he is only interested in getting high scores, or in other words, he is only interested in high scores, he only wants to score. ”

In fact, the current teaching environment is also aimed at this, overemphasizing the importance of scores, and subtly, scores have become the only goal of students. ”

"When a person has a clear goal, he will inevitably rush for quick success, such as mathematics, he may be interested in long-term, complex, The basic knowledge theory understanding is dismissive, but buries his head in the crazy brushing questions, relying on doing a large number of similar questions to quickly improve the scoring ability, on the surface, he is working hard, but in fact the learning effect is very poor, especially when the test question type changes greatly, this kind of student's grades will fall off a cliff, that is, the test is broken, at this time he will doubt himself, why do I work so hard, these questions still can't be done?

"That's why I said that we should give pressure reasonably, otherwise it will make the focus of learning deviate, because the pressure is too great, and the student pays too much attention to 'scoring' and 'efficiency', even if the teacher crushes the knowledge points in class and feeds them to him, he can't absorb it. ”

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After this teacher, several teachers also asked their own questions.

Yuan Jia could see that the other teachers were a little speechless, and they might want to ask some psychological questions about the teaching profession itself, such as what to do about teaching burnout, but because colleagues and Director Wang were present, most of the questions were asked about the students.

In the Q&A session, Yuan Jia answered six typical questions, and finally entered the link of heart anchor teaching.

Last time, he also told Director Wang that it can be of some help to students who are willing to do this seriously.

Most of the people present were class teachers, and Yuan Jia taught them in detail the principle of heart anchor and how to set up the heart anchor in daily life, and it was best to do this together during the lunch meeting every day.

Of course, the effect was not immediate, some of the head teachers were dismissive, and some took it down carefully, and everyone saw the expressions in their eyes, and they didn't emphasize it too much.

The whole training time was one and a half hours, and Yuan Jia pinched just right, and ended all the content to be talked about on time at half past two.

Because many of the solutions mentioned in it are to change the teaching environment of the school itself, which Yuanjia can't control, and many teachers can't control, then the most meaningful part of this training is the psychological analysis of students at the beginning.

According to these psychological analyses, each teacher adjusts his or her daily teaching work on his own.

Of course, although there are some things that cannot be changed, for these teachers who come to listen to the class, the gains are still quite great.

The group of teachers is based on qualifications, the older they are, the more they tend to look down on these hairy boys, and decades of teaching experience have long become his fixed career model itself.

At first, the old teacher who was not very optimistic about Yuan Jia, and couldn't help but think about it according to his words, Yuan Jia didn't look very old, but he saw the problem very thoroughly.

After the meeting ended, Yuan Jia went to the office with Director Wang to sign, and Director Wang personally sent him out.

"Mr. Yuan gave a good lecture today, and we all feel that we have gained a lot. ”

Director Wang's expression was also a little helpless, and he wanted to say something, but he stopped talking.

Yuan Jia can guess what she wants to say, it is nothing more than the pressure of studying, or she has to look at the grades to speak, compared to the performance of the school, mental health is really just a matter of words.

He also knew that this psychological training was more of a formality, and it didn't matter if Yuan Jia spoke badly in the form necessary for the teaching process.

The key is that Yuan Jia spoke very well, and she also listened to it, so Director Wang had this tangled look.

Yuan Jia smiled and said: "I just shared some of my humble opinions, Director Wang, you have been engaged in the education industry for many years, and naturally know better than me that in the education industry, there can never be an optimal plan, in the past, present, and future, only continuous practice and attempt, and then continuous improvement, is the most suitable teaching model." ”

Director Wang was stunned, and felt more and more that Yuan Jia seemed to be able to see through what others were thinking, and his words also happened to be in Director Wang's heart, which not only raised her hand, but also reassured her that she didn't have to blame herself or worry about anything about the current teaching model.

Education and medical care are always difficult problems, and any practitioner must be mentally prepared.

"Teacher Yuan is really good at talking, did you come by car? I'll send you?"

"It's okay, Director Wang, you go back first, if you have any questions, we can contact you at any time." ”

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It was still early, and Yuan Jia did not go home, but took a taxi back to the consultation room.

Whether it is a case consultation or a training lecture like this, he will record and summarize the process afterwards.

This is a habit that I developed when I was studying, and I felt very tired and troublesome at first, but after it became a habit, I felt that the process was in vain if I didn't make a record and summary.

Review the process again, record every key point, and it will automatically be deeply imprinted in your mind.

In the past two days, the paper has also been sorted out, and Yuan Jia logged on to the official website of the Psychology Newspaper and submitted the manuscript.

The whole submission cycle is very long, and it takes at least four or five months to successfully appear in the journal, including the initial review, external review, revision, editorial board, manuscript release, and edition assembly, among which the external review and revisions may occur repeatedly, and it will take at least four or five months to successfully appear in the journal.

After successful submission, Yuanjia will receive a manuscript number, which can be used to check the progress of the manuscript.

In the second paper draft, Yuan Jia plans to write a study on emotional carriers, which is a very large topic, and the content of each part can be made into a separate paper.

For example, 'painting and interpreting emotions', 'listening emotions', 'tactile emotions' and so on.

Language is one of the most commonly used emotional carriers for us, because singing in the live broadcast two days ago caused a certain 'healing' effect to the audience in the live broadcast room, and Yuan Jia is still very interested in the research of emotional carriers.

At present, there are only two methods of psychotherapy he uses, one is the common consultation Q&A, and the other is hypnotherapy.

Counseling Q&A For people with severe mental illness, some are painless, unless it is a long-term companionship counseling, the effect is limited, and it can only be aimed at the early and middle stages of mental illness.

Hypnotherapy is like surgery, by implanting different anchors, to change the patient's subconscious mind.

If Yuan Jia has made a breakthrough in the study of emotional carriers, then he will have one more means in treatment, which is called 'medicine'.

For example, a patient with long-term depression can give her a cute rabbit wood carving, which has a 'happy' mood, just like a 'medicine' prescribed to her, which can be very effective in relieving her depression.

Of course, Yuanjia has no way to prescribe 'medicine' to patients now, and the emotional reader in the system mall has to sell for 150,000 points, so it has to be saved slowly.

Yuan Jia packed up his things and got ready to get off work, tomorrow Thursday, except for making an appointment with Wang Yalin for a second relaxation hypnotherapy, there is no other appointment, and he also needs to prepare for the exam.

After my father told him about the external psychology lecturer last week, Yuan Jia went to the Su University network to register, the preliminary examination has passed, and he went to participate in the unified written examination on Friday, there are about 30 people, and the pass rate of the written examination is one-third, and then the interview is evaluated.

If you are an ordinary person, you have been holding the Buddha's feet in the past few days, Yuan Jia is full of confidence, after all, after coming out of school, his professional knowledge has not been pulled down at all, learning is his daily routine, and tonight he will strengthen his training in the systematic course, and the written test is really difficult for him.

Listen to my dad revealed, this time the competitors are quite strong, more than half of them are doctoral students, fortunately, there is a back door to slip, Yuanjia has suffered a little loss in academic qualifications, written exams and interviews to perform better, after all, it is a social recruitment of external lecturers, not lecturers in the establishment, and the recruitment requirements are only academic qualifications to meet the master's degree or above, and more important is the ability to lecture.

Yuanjia closed the door and left the consultation room, it was about four o'clock in the afternoon.

Habitually send a message to Gardenia when he gets off work.。

Yuan Jia: "I'm off work." ”

Gardenia: "[Happy] [Happy]"

Gardenia: "You got off work so early today?"

Yuanjia: "Well, I'll leave work early when I'm done, and then I'm going to pick up Huihui from school now, what are you doing?"

Gardenia: "I'm practicing walking in the yard! I can walk fast and steady now! It's just that the yard is a bit big, and there are still a lot of places I haven't walked, so I'm going to conquer the yard completely next week!"

Xu Nanyu walked, holding the bear in one hand and holding his mobile phone in the other hand to reply to Yuanjia's message.

She has made great progress, a few days ago she just stood stupidly in the yard and didn't dare to move, just like a child who has just learned to walk, the parents let go of their hands, and they just stood in place at a loss, crying helplessly, and now they can walk slowly in the conquest range alone.

Gardenia never told Yuanjia about her difficulties, and the tone of the messages sent to him was very cheerful, and it seemed to be relaxed, but in fact, she still had cold sweat on her forehead, and her hands were shaking when she typed.

She felt that Yuan Jia worked so hard to help her, if she couldn't even do this little thing, she would blame herself and be very sad.

The empty front of the courtyard, the empty overhead, the empty surroundings, the sound from a distant place from time to time...... It all made her feel uneasy.

But in these days of practice, from the extreme fear at the beginning, Gardenia gradually divided the yard into what she subconsciously thought was a safe place, like her room.

This is a huge step forward within the concept, but it is still impossible to get out of the house, after all, going out of the house is beyond the scope of the concept, and the world outside the house is too large, which for her, is tantamount to stepping one foot out of the cliff.

Yuan Jia: "That's great!

Gardenia: "Hmm!![nodding vigorously]"

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(Thanks to the reward of the eleventh leaf, I have become the new helmsman~ Thanks to the reward of the Streamer Flying Feather Sword without a trace, I have been promoted to an elder~)