Treatment of multiple personalities is very difficult, and there are usually two ways to heal.

The first is to merge the rest of the personality, and when the main personality can dominate the self, it will manifest itself as a personality, and the emotions and hearts will be in a stable state.

The second type is the murderous personality, which can be understood as the death or long dormancy of the rest of the personality, when one personality is strong enough to suppress the others, the other personality cannot feel its own independent existence, and therefore cannot occupy the dominance of the body.

There is a greater risk that if the personality is weaker, it is likely to be replaced by a sub-personality, and in some cases, the personality is killed by the sub-personality, as if it has become another person living a long and stable life.

Yuan Jia prefers the first way of treatment, although it will be very difficult, but compared to him, this method is more acceptable.

After all, when a personality is complete, it is actually tantamount to a living person, but it does not have a body of its own.

At two o'clock in the afternoon of the next day, Kong Congmeng came to Yuanjia's consultation room as promised.

Her current condition doesn't look good, her face is very pale, her hair is a little messy and greasy, she hasn't gone to work since last week's incident, she hides at home to adjust her emotions, but she didn't expect the second personality to come out more often, almost every night, and she only found out when she woke up the next morning to find the clothes, items, and surveillance video on her body.

It can be said that she has almost nothing to do with the sub-personality.

Yuanjia asked Kong Congmeng to sit down and poured her another glass of water.

Kong Congmeng didn't drink, but couldn't wait to ask him: "Teacher Yuan, what should I do......"

"Do you know about multiple personality disorder?" asked Yuanjia.

Kong Congmeng has also checked the information these days, and he also knows nothing about it, so he shook his head.

Yuan Jia didn't rush to tell her what to do, just took out a wooden carving of a puppy from the drawer and put it in front of Kong Congmeng.

"Take it and calm down first. ”

Kong Congmeng held the little dog wood carving in his hand, and couldn't help but feel a positive feeling that seemed to be full of courage and peace, and her rapid breathing began to slow down, feeling this emotion, and did not speak.

Normally, the dominant personality has no memory of the sub-personality, and AB is used instead, and the dominant personality A occupies the body the longest and has the strongest sense of self.

Sub-personality B rarely uses the body, but B has always been in the state of an observer, B knows A's life state well, when A has some stressful factors, such as that day Kong Congmeng was left to work overtime, B is dissatisfied with A's approach, then B will come out to control the body.

The formation of B is the result of accumulation over time, B may have been born from something when Kong Congmeng was young, but at that time, B's personality was incomplete and did not have the power to control the body, as more and more things were experienced, B's personality was perfected and became a complete personality, so when there was a stressful event again, B began to snatch control of the body.

A is unaware of B's existence, and if B appears too often, A discovers clues, such as auditory hallucinations, hallucinations, or a strong sense of loss of time, feeling that he is forgetful, has a lot of things that do not belong to him, or appears somewhere inexplicably...... I realized the existence of B, but there was nothing I could do about it.

"When did your first impression of the other personality occur?" asked Yuanjia.

With the help of the puppy wood carving, Kong Congmeng's owner's personality was emotionally stable, and she recalled carefully and shook her head.

"It seems like three or four years ago...... At that time, my roommate accused me of stealing her things, but I didn't steal it at all, and then at night I remember that I went to bed early, and the next day my roommates asked me with strange faces, why did I get up in the middle of the night last night and say such vicious things to xx, everyone was scared to wake up by me, but I didn't have any impression at all......"

"Then in the past six months, I found that I was very forgetful, and often couldn't remember what I had done in a short period of time, and ......"

Kong Congmeng said a lot of details that she noticed in her daily life, and Yuan Jia listened carefully.

She didn't really know that B existed, but she attributed these strange phenomena to her being too stressed, causing forgetfulness or mental confusion.

After asking deeply, Yuan Jia found that B's appearance was regular, and almost every time Kong Congmeng experienced something that 'she couldn't handle', so B ran out to control his body.

These 'things she can't handle' include being scolded, feeling depressed, suicidal thoughts popping up from time to time, things that don't go your way, and so on.

Fortunately, after B seized control of the body, he didn't do anything too drastic, but simply controlled himself according to his own preferences.

Yuan Jia asked, "Then what do you think of her approach?"

The question is Kong Congmeng's opinion on personality B.

This time, Kong Congmeng's answer was a little hesitant, and after a while, she lowered her head and said, "I don't know ......."

Just like three or four years ago, when B came out in her place and said vicious things to the roommate who framed her for stealing, she was actually very happy, because she couldn't say those words herself, but B said them for her.

In other words, every time B comes out to do something, including B's tough character, it is Kong Congmeng's ideal state, and she longs to be such a person, but the main personality A can't do these things.

But I don't want to see the existence of B, this is the desire to survive on a physiological level, A knows very well that if B is dominant, then A will never have a chance to come out, that is, die.

So she felt the fear from the physiological level of B's existence, and this fear was uncontrollable, like a tiger with a bloody mouth in front of her, even if it was a person who wanted to commit suicide, she would feel the fear from the physiology at this time.

"Tell me about what you have experienced, as long as you can remember, whether it is sad or happy, you can tell me, don't hide it, I can help you. ”

Listening to Yuan Jia's words, Kong Congmeng came from the instinct of survival, and began to recall the various past events he had experienced since he was a child, Yuan Jia listened, while recording quickly.

Kong Congmeng is a girl from an ordinary family, the only daughter in the family, but the patriarchal thinking in the family is very serious, after her mother gave birth to her, her grandparents, including her biological father, were very dissatisfied, and strongly asked her mother to have a second child.

But because of physical defects, the mother could not give birth again, and the father snubbed the mother and daughter.

The grandparents were also very dissatisfied with the mother and daughter, not only snubbing them for a long time, but also encouraging the father to divorce the mother.

It's also sad, the mother's personality is the same as Kong Congmeng, they are all extremely weak characters, never dare to resist, and when they are wronged, they will only cry in front of their daughters, and the young Kong Congmeng felt angry, so he clashed with his elders, and was beaten all over his body, and since then, she has never dared to mention her demands at home.

My mother can still tell her if she is wronged, but who can she tell her about her grievances, when she was very young, she had the habit of talking to herself.

When he was five years old, his father cheated, his mother had a violent quarrel with him, Kong Congmeng hid behind the door, saw him slap his mother hard, the corners of his mouth were bleeding, she couldn't remember what the two said, she only remembered that it was dark at that time.

When she was nine years old, her cousin, who was five years older than her, molested her, and when she told her uncle, grandfather, grandmother, and father, no one believed her, and threatened her that she would lose face in the family and not talk nonsense.

When she was 10 years old, her father divorced her mother, and when she brought her home outside, she saw her 'younger brother', who was three years younger than her

......

It can be said that Kong Congmeng's childhood was spent in this oppressive and irresistible environment.

After listening to this, Yuan Jia also knew how B, which was completely different from her 'weak' master's personality, came about.

There is a certain proportion of personality disorders in society, and the personality psychology of normal people will have a closed loop of defense mechanism, and when they suffer great psychological trauma, they can slowly heal themselves, but people with psychological defects cannot.

There is a gap in the closed loop of their psychological defense, and the defense mechanism cannot complete the closed loop, so when they experience these traumatic events, they will produce personality fragments one by one, and when these fragments are complete, they will produce sub-personalities B, C, and D......

For example, if a normal person is bullied, he may be very angry and beat the other party violently, but what will happen to Kong Congmeng?

She was bullied, and the main personality A would be very sad, dare not resist, and bear it silently, but this trauma was really unbearable, so B's personality fragments were produced, and B would be very angry, bravely resist, and beat the other party.

That is to say, this process of normal people is integrated, it is a complete closed loop of personality, you bully me, I am very sad and angry, so I am going to beat you up, and then I am angry.

However, Kong Congmeng's psychological closed loop is broken, A bears this trauma, and B solves it, and then she is angry.

For a long time, there will be the extremes of AB's two personalities, and A will always be weak and dare not resist.

Kong Congmeng's case is also quite tricky to deal with, and Yuan Jia has already designed a treatment plan.

The way to kill personality B obviously doesn't work, because personality A is too weak, and in the process of confrontation between two personalities, the probability of the main personality being killed is far greater than the probability of the secondary personality being killed, as can be seen from the increasing frequency of B recently.

Then the choice is to merge the two personalities.

The male protagonist in "24 Billy", after the personality fusion, formed a new personality: the teacher, and lived with this personality stably.

If Kong Congmeng can successfully merge her personality, her main personality will be able to obtain positive and favorable psychological qualities such as toughness and bravery from B, which will be the best result for her.

"Do you know about hypnosis?" asked Yuanjia as he put down his notebook.

"Know...... But haven't tried...... I feel like I'm hard to be hypnotized......," Kong Congmeng replied.

"You come with me. ”

After guiding Kong Congmeng to lie down on the sofa, Yuanjia began to guide her into a hypnotic state.

"Holding the wooden carving of the puppy in his hand. ”

The puppy wood carving is infused with brave and positive emotions, which can greatly stabilize the psychological state of Kong Congmeng, and prevent the sub-personality B from running out when negative emotions appear during the hypnosis process.

Yuan Jia's hypnosis skills are already quite proficient, and after the guide hole gradually relaxed from the dream, he began to build a safety island for her, and at the same time anchored the safety island to the puppy's wood carving, which made it more convenient for her to stabilize and control her emotions.

The next thing is the exposure of the traumatic memory, through hypnosis, Yuan Jia implanted a positive heart anchor into Kong Congmeng's subconscious, so that she can look at the traumatic events she has experienced in the past more positively.

This is the process of psychological surgery.

In the past, Kong Congmeng responded to these traumatic events by establishing a B personality, but now, Yuan Jia guides her to repair the closed loop of psychological defense in a normal way.

The most important thing in the process of personality fusion is to determine a stable personality, if the personality is unstable, then it must not be able to complete the personality fusion.

......

For the next three days, Yuan Jia performed hypnotherapy on Kong Congmeng.

In the past three days, it can be seen that Kong Congmeng's main personality has changed a lot, and compared with the initial weakness, he has more firmness and confidence.

"Has she come out in the past three days?" asked Yuan Jia.

"No, when I checked the camera records, I slept well at night. ”

Kong Congmeng asked, "Teacher Yuan, is she gone?"

"She's still there, and she's slowly becoming you. ”

Yuanjia took notes and encouraged, "Keep faith. ”

"Hmm. ”

Kong Congmeng nodded, and she was still holding the puppy wood carving in her hand, which was also magical, she only needed to hold the puppy wood carving to feel positive in her emotions.

It's just that Yuan Jia said something that surprised her next.

"I want to meet her," he said. ”

This, of course, she was referring to another hole from the dream.

Kong Congmeng became nervous and said, "Teacher Yuan...... I—I don't know what to do...... She only comes out at night...... I don't know her at all......"

Kong Congmeng is still very afraid of letting another 'self' control his body.

But Yuanjia must meet her, and it is the most important step to promote the integration of personalities.

"She's a part of you, and you have to be ready to meet her, not resist her. Yuan Jia reassured.

These days of treatment made Kong Congmeng full of confidence in Yuan Jia, and after listening to Yuan Jia's words, she nodded and asked, "Then Teacher Yuan, how can I let her out?"

Yuanjia took Kong Congmeng to the lounge, let her sit on the sofa in a relaxed position, and then took a half-length mirror from the utility room.

The mirror is placed in front of the hole from the dream, and she can clearly see herself in the mirror.

Since he knew that there was B, Kong rarely looked in the mirror from his dreams, because when he looked at himself in the mirror for a long time, his consciousness would become a little trance, as if he had become strange in the mirror.

Teacher Yuan...... I ......"

"It's okay, look in the mirror, listen to my guidance, relax, the puppy wood carving is put down first, yes, relax, look at you in the mirror, look at your eyes, look at her......"

Kong's expression from the dream quickly became trance-like, and his gaze was a little dazed.

The transformation of the main personality and the sub-personality varies in length, and when encountering major stressful events, the transformation can be completed in a very short time, such as the common 'blackening' and 'rampage' in anime.

Under Yuan Jia's lucid hypnosis, Kong's dream-like and sloppy gaze became concentrated again.

She stopped breathing, her eyes widened, her expression became fierce, and when the conversion was complete, she let out a hysterical sigh and kicked the mirror in front of her!

"Bastard, you want to kill me, if I hadn't come out, you'd have died!"

Yuan Jia's attention was also highly concentrated, and he was not very surprised when he saw the hole in front of him change from a dream to another person, but his pupils shrank slightly.

In the systematic experience course, he experienced multiple personality disorders, and it was much more serious than Kong Congmeng, with more than ten different personalities, and he could even talk to himself and quickly switch between different personalities.

Although the mirror is not expensive, if it is kicked and broken, it will inevitably scratch people, Yuan Jia's eyes are quick, and when Kong Congmeng kicked out, he immediately opened the mirror.

"You let me go back!!I'm going out!!"

"Useless thing! I'm Kong Congmeng!"

Kong Congmeng went crazy in the lounge like a madman, she has the memory of the main personality, because she is usually in the state of an observer, she knows the life of the main personality well, and when she encounters some stressful events, she has her own way of dealing with them.

She naturally knew that it was the owner Personality A who came to the consultation room to ask Yuan Jia for help, but Yuan Jia gave the owner Personality A a small dog wood carving, so that she couldn't find a chance to come out.

Now that it's out, she wants to leave the ghost place of the consultation room as soon as possible, unlike the owner personality A, she doesn't trust anyone, she only believes in herself.

Yuan Jia stopped her, Kong Congmeng began to smash things, but the lounge was smooth and there was nothing to smash, so she and Yuan Jia started to move, as a little pepper, she dared to do it with the gangsters in the bar, not to mention the psychological counselor in front of her.

Fortunately, Yuan Jia not only insisted on running three kilometers a day, but also learned a good martial arts.

"Let go of me, bastard!"

"Calm down. ”

Kong Congmeng's strength was amazing, and Yuan Jia took a lot of effort to stuff a round wooden ball into her hand, squeezing her palm tightly and letting her hold it forcibly.

The wooden ball is infused with emotions of doubt, doubts about the self.

The reason why it is round, rather than triangular or otherwise, is to prevent the wood carving itself from irritating her.

"Okay, you said that you are Kong Congmeng, then let me ask you, how do you know that you are real?"

Yuan Jia's voice invaded Kong Congmeng's ears, and she struggled much less, and then became louder again, and said viciously: "Of course I am real! I have all the memories!

"Can you reproduce all the scenes you remember? It's just fragments of an observer that you see through them is not real, you don't exist. ”

"You talk nonsense!"

"You don't have the memories you had before you were born, your young memories are blank, and your so-called memories and truths are just processed by yourself. ”

Kong Congmeng's eyes were a little confused, for the post-born sub-personality, she did not have the memory before birth, and the memory was more scattered than the main personality, all of them were negative memories, and there were extremely heavy processing marks.

"You don't really exist, you're just a part of Kong Cong's dream. ”

Yuan Jia implanted a negative anchor in the secondary personality.

Don't underestimate this negative anchor, whenever the sub-personality has the authority of the human body, the anchor will come to remind her that you are not real, she will naturally doubt herself, and then gradually disappear and be absorbed by the integration of the main personality.

Kong Congmeng's resistance gradually became smaller, Yuan Jia let go of her, she didn't get up again, her eyes were a little confused, and she muttered Yuan Jia's words in her mouth......

Yuan Jia sighed and said softly: "Accept her, and you will change together." ”

It's not just A who has to accept B's existence, B also has to accept A's existence.

Only in this way, when encountering a stressful event, Kong Congmeng's psychology can form a complete closed loop of defense, and no more personality fragments will be generated.

Kong Cong lay on the sofa in a daze, his eyes and expressions changed unconsciously, and when the sense of existence of the sub-personality fell to a certain level, the main personality once again took the initiative.

Her gaze was normal.

Yuan Jia took the 'self-doubting' wooden ball out of her hand and put the puppy wood carving into her hand.

"Awake?"

Teacher Yuan...... I was just ......"

"It's okay, I got into a fight with her, she's already starting to accept you, and you have to accept her too. ”

"Hmmm......"

Kong Congmeng held the puppy wood carving, and there was a more determined and brave emotion in his heart, not all of them were the effect of the puppy wood carving.

And a part of her.

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(Thank you for the big lemon and the two classmates in the Nine Festival!)