Chapter 139: Girlfriend Roll Call Conference

"Eh, when are you going to bring your girlfriend out to meet us, why are you hiding it when you fall in love? ”

The familiar supper stall, Yuan Jia and Luo Qian were talking.

Time flies quickly, and it's already mid-May.

In the past half a month, Yuanjia's small life has been beautiful, he will attend classes when he has classes, receive visitors in the consultation room if he has no classes, engage in live broadcasts at night, and take his stupid sister and the little fat cat to Xu Nanyi's house to accompany her on weekends on Saturdays and Sundays.

The key is that now every day at noon, Yuan Jia doesn't have to go out to eat fast food, Xu Nanyu cooks early, and he sends it over on time after work at noon, and his cooking skills are getting better and better.

Xu Nanyu's current progress is quite smooth, and Yuan Hui is like a sister, Bai Yan also regards Yuan Hui as her daughter, and she talks about her every day.

Yuan Jia plans to start taking Xu Nanyu to try to walk outside the house next week, if it goes well, when summer comes, maybe she can come to the community to pick the gardenia in person.

Listening to Luo Qian's words, Yuan Jia smiled and said, "Later, she is shy. ”

"Who are you talking to?college classmates?friends from outside?" Luo Qian asked.

"You know. ”

"I know?"

Luo Qian was surprised, and then began to list names.

He and Yuan Jia have been high school classmates for three years, and their social circles are naturally high school classmates.

"Oh oh! Haha, I know! I didn't expect you kid to get together with Gan Mengxuan, I remember that she publicly confessed to you in the class when she was a sophomore in high school, right? ”

Listening to Luo Qian's 'sudden realization' analysis, Yuan Jia rolled his eyes and said speechlessly: "It's not her." ”

Luo Qian was stunned, patted his thigh again, and said: "That must be Hao Ting, right? The best looking thing in the class is her, that leg is really long, I used to ask you questions all day long, I was so annoyed that I occupied my place every time, and I couldn't leave." ”

Yuan Jia said speechlessly: "Is Hao Ting the most beautiful?"

"Who else could be prettier than her?"

"It's not her, I haven't been in touch with her in years. ”

Luo Qian stared at Yuan Jia for a long time, flicked the cigarette ash, and affirmed: "Then don't guess, the cliff is Shen Manqing, she is more beautiful than Hao Ting, although she is not from our class, but I also know her, and at that time, labor and management helped to send her love letters." ”

"You stuffed those paper cranes in my drawer?"

"Don't thank me, for what the Father ought to do. ”

“…… It wasn't her, I didn't even add her contact information. ”

"That's He Yingying? It's pretty cute, you liked talking to her at that time, right? ”

"Not ......"

Luo Qian simply took out the graduation photos from the QQ space that he hadn't been on for N years, and the girls asked one by one, but Yuanjia denied them all.

"What are you me! Our circle is so big, who else I don't know? Don't talk nonsense, tell me who it is. ”

Luo Qian was angry, for him, a straight man of steel, it was too difficult to guess who Yuan Jia had been interested in.

After graduating from high school, there were several couples in the class who made the official announcement, and Luo Qian was very surprised at the time, but he didn't expect a certain G to secretly get together with a certain M, which is really an afterthought.

Yuan Jia smiled and said, "I'm at the same table." ”

Luo Qian's eyes widened, and he subconsciously distanced himself from Yuan Jia.

"Yuanjia, my father has always treated you as a son, you don't have strange ideas, it's dangerous, I'll tell you......"

“?”

Yuan Jia picked up a peanut, accurately exploded Luo Qian's head, and said with a smile: "The girl before you were at the same table with me." ”

Luo Qian had an impression, but he couldn't think of the girl's appearance in his mind, and vaguely remembered that she was almost nested in the corner of the seat, and Luo Qian hadn't even seen her whole picture, let alone heard her speak.

"Oh...... I remember...... Her name is ...... What's it called......"

"Xu Nanyu. ”

"Is that the name?"

"Yes. ”

"It's really not impressive, I remember that she just dropped out of school after less than half a semester? You two got together? It's been ten years, right?"

Luo Qian was very surprised, the time was too long, he was just an ordinary classmate, so naturally he couldn't remember Xu Nanyi, after all, she didn't even leave a graduation photo.

"We got in touch some time ago, and then we got together. ”

"It's really yours, do you have a photo, take it out and I'll help you take a look!"

The brothers gossiped, more than their best friends, Yuan Jia pushed away the face of his son in front of Luo Qian, who arched in front of him, and lit up the lock screen of his mobile phone to show him.

"You still use photos as wallpapers! Why didn't labor and management think that you were so sassy before? ”

"It's not called sassy, it's affectionate. ”

"Get out. ”

When Luo Qianding saw the photo, he couldn't help but be stunned.

The photo is a group photo of Yuanjia and Gardenia last time, Yuanjia is ugly, Gardenia is beautiful, and under the backdrop of an ugly and a beautiful, Gardenia looks even more beautiful.

So much so that Luo Qian was a little stunned, and said in a lost voice: "You kid P picture!"

"When has there ever been such a good-looking girl in our class?!"

"Did you find the picture P on the Internet?!"

"This can't be our class, I don't have the slightest impression!"

Just let Luo Qian glance twice, Yuan Jia took the phone back preciously, put the lock screen back in his pocket, and didn't show it to him.

"Oops, I didn't see it!"

". ”

After a little fuss, Luo Qian also expressed his blessing: "You have finally found a companion, and my father will be relieved." ”

Then he was accurately shot in the head by peanuts.

After chatting briefly with Yuan Jia, Luo Qian also knew about Xu Nanyu's situation, he frowned slightly, and sighed: "Then you are with her, won't you be very tired?"

"No, the reason why people are tired is because they don't get positive feedback, Gardenia's current situation is indeed much worse than that of normal girls, but she has been improving, she and I are enjoying the process, watching the person I like get better and better, this process itself is a very happy thing. ”

As an ancestral single dog, Luo Qian couldn't feel this feeling, but he could also feel his emotions from Yuan Jia's eyes that became gentle when he mentioned her.

"Then she's lucky to meet you. ”

"I was lucky to have met her. ”

"Hey, sour the teeth of labor! Don't say it, don't say it! Damn, those who say they want to be single aristocrats, all of them have found companions, are you worthy of me?"

"Hahaha. ”

……

After being fed a wave of dog food by Yuan Jia, Luo Qian was hit by this topic to the fullest, so he talked about the case at hand that had just been handled.

As a criminal investigation police officer, Luo Qian can always encounter a lot of strange cases, with the improvement of the criminal investigation network and social supervision, the cost of crime is getting higher and higher, and Yuan Jia can talk to him about these among his friends.

Kong Congmeng's case is the most special case since Luo Qian's career.

"At the time, I thought that Kong Congmeng was lying, and the acting was too realistic, if it weren't for the surveillance, it would be really hard to believe that a person could have two completely different personalities at the same time. ”

Luo Qian lit a cigarette and continued: "I asked her to consult with you in the past two days, has she contacted you?"

"Yes, I've made an appointment to come over tomorrow afternoon. ”

Yuan Jia said, and said: "The world is so big, there are so many things that you can't imagine. ”

Luo Qian said curiously: "I've seen a lot of multiple personalities in movies and TV series, but this is the first time I've seen you, you're engaged in psychological research, what's going on?"

Yuan Jia has learned too many courses on personality disorder, and he knows this very well, and every time he simulates the experience in the system, if the negative effects of the system are not cleared, over time, this experience may also evolve into his other personalities.

He didn't answer Luo Qian's words directly, but asked rhetorically, "Are you sure that you are real, or have you ever doubted your own memories?"

This question made Luo Qian stunned, and he felt a little hairy in his heart, he sneered and said, "Of course I am real, and the memory belongs to me, do you still need to doubt this?"

"Now that you are thinking about a random passage or a scene, can you completely restore the content of the dialogue and the panorama of the scene?"

Luo Qian was silent, just now he kept recalling, the female classmates in the class, the events of high school, the memory is a little blurry, and he was surprised to realize that when he checked his memory, he was actually looking at it from the perspective of God, and he could even see his own expression on a certain day and a certain year......

"Finding out no, the memories that you believe in, in fact, you are not fully sure that it is real, under your subconscious processing, these memories are not a process of recording, but a process of processing. ”

And this is the reason for the emergence of personality. ”

"Normal people have only one personality, and their personality and emotions are stable, while abnormal people have multiple personalities, which you can understand as the same body, inhabited by several different souls at the same time. ”

"When these different souls take control of the body, even if your physiology does not change in any way, you will behave very differently, even the accent of your speech, the way you handle things, the life skills you have, etc., will be like a different person. ”

"As I just mentioned, memory is actually a process of our own processing, so the same kind of memory, abnormal people will have multiple memory processing to evolve different personalities. ”

"If you have been greatly injured, when your self is unable to form an automatic psychological defense, the self and the heart will be out of balance, and the self will accept the original memories and form a personality. ”

But this kind of hurt is unbearable, so it unconsciously gives birth to a sub-personality to deal with this kind of injury, so that the main personality can escape and face this kind of injury. ”

Luo Qian was a little stunned when he heard this, so Yuan Jia used the example of Kong Congmeng to explain.

"Kong Congmeng may have been in this kind of harm for a long time when she was a child, but the main personality is not capable of showing resistance or anger, she does not dare to show the 'evil' aspect, but it is too heavy to bear, so she develops a sub-personality. ”

The sub-personality modified her memory, she pretended that she had resisted, she imagined that she had slashed the other party with a thousand knives, and the more she suppressed it, the more real this memory modification became, and even any detail was comparable to the truth. ”

"Thus a sub-personality is created, which is completely different from the 'cowardly and incompetent' main personality, and the sub-personality is 'tough and irritable', forming two great contrasts. ”

"The psychological defense mechanism of normal people is a complete closed loop, and only when there is inner balance will the personality be stable. If there is a problem with the psychological defense mechanism, then once you encounter something difficult to solve, scattered personality fragments will be formed, and as you experience more and more things, these personality fragments will continue to be replenished and complete, forming one complete 'sub-personality' after another."

"A complete sub-personality has a memory, a self-image, an identity, and even a name that 'belongs to itself', as if multiple souls were living together. ”

"In the age of ignorance, people often referred to this completely different manifestation as the ghost upper body. ”

After listening to Yuan Jia's analysis, Luo Qian also had a basic understanding of multiple personality disorder, and couldn't help but shudder.

The brain is the most mysterious area of the human body, and even now, human research on the brain, memory, personality and other topics is only scratching the surface.

Some experiential actors are also prone to multiple personality disorder, because in the process of experiencing the role, he will continue to enrich the character's memory, image, identity, experience, etc., the richer he is, the more realistic he will become, and when the 'real' reaches a certain level, the character will come to life.

Some similar writers will also have this experience, and the highest level of literary image creation is to construct the whole life of the character, including every detail of growth, so that the character has life, as if it really exists.

"Have you seen 'Your Name'?" asked Yuanjia.

"I've seen it. ”

Luo Qian was curious: "What does this have to do with personality disorders?"

Yuan Jia smiled and said: "Assuming that it happens in reality, then from a psychological point of view, the protagonists Taki and Sanye are dual personality disorders, and they are not lightly ill." ”

"Taki is a strange and special person, he will live another life in a dream, but when he wakes up what he does, what he sees, he doesn't remember anything, the store manager's skirt is torn, he can repair it, and he is intimate with small flowers and grass, but sometimes he seems to be a different person, and he doesn't remember what he said to his friends. The things he had done, the first date with the store manager, also became very rusty, lost his soul, there seemed to be a lot of blank in his memory, the first time he went to a photo exhibition, he stood in front of a photo and cried, as if he had been to that place before, he could even clearly tell his friends all the details ......of his life as another identity, but that town was long gone"

Listening to Yuan Jia's analysis, Luo Qian also fell into the gods.

After a while, he followed Yuanjia's example, picking up a peanut and giving him a headshot.

"Stop, stop! Don't ruin the drama! Labor and management rarely have a favorite dog food drama, if you say it again, I'll arrest you and go back to the bureau for tea!"

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