After coming out of the 'I Know You' psychological counseling room, Wang Yalin didn't choose to go home immediately, she walked slowly, feeling the sun on her body.

The afternoon sun is a little heavy, and when I hide in the room for a long time, my skin that has not been exposed to the sun is a little red.

Wang Yalin did not hide from the sun, but walked slowly, feeling, she liked the warmth of being surrounded.

Unconsciously walked to Su University, because of the depression during this time, she has been on leave for a long time.

She walked in, didn't meet her classmates, and she didn't take the initiative to find someone else.

There was no destination, so I walked slowly in the sun, walked to the athletic field, and then sat down on the lawn in a daze.

Yuan Jia is right, she will be thinking a lot of things these days, sitting on the lawn in a daze, her thoughts have drifted away.

She remembered going to Palm Beach with her best friends the summer vacation the year before, the warm and soft sand kissing her feet, the sunset dyed red in the sea and sky, and the seagulls flying high in the sky.

She remembered her father who would always hold her hand every time she crossed the street when she was a child.

She remembered her mother, who cooked porridge for her when she was sick, and then sat on the edge of the bed and fed her bite by bite.

She remembered that her best friend, who was always like a madman, grabbed the tickets for Dong Chou's concert, and jumped up and down excitedly with her......

Her past life was like a movie picture, playing out in her mind, frame by frame.

At this time, when I think about the memories of my mother, my heart is not so painful, but I feel surrounded by warmth.

She learns the methods that Yuanjia taught her and accepts them all.

Whenever she misses her mother very much, she quietly allows herself to think about her for a while, as if she is in a loving world.

Life will gradually get better......

"Arlinn? Is it really your ......"

There was a familiar question around her, and then the two girls ran to Wang Yalin's side, took her hand, and sat on the lawn with her.

"When did you come back? It's been a lot better lately, haven't you? We're all worried about dying......"

Looking at her friend's anxious and concerned eyes, Wang Yalin came back to her senses, she held her friend's hand with her backhand, and said with a smile: "I'm fine." ”

"That's good!"

The two friends talked to Wang Yalin, and the topic revolved around some good memories between each other.

They are quite strange, they have always felt that Wang Yalin is not too nostalgic people, but today they have said so many things in the past.

"Haha...... Am I a little strange, it seems like I'm talking, you're listening. ”

"No, but Arlinn, you remember everything that happened when you were so young, it's amazing......"

"It's just that I suddenly remembered it today, and I might forget it in a few days. ”

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After Wang Yalin left, Yuan Jia stayed in the office to sort out the visit records.

This consultation took more than two hours, and he gained 300 consulting points, 200 thank you points, and Yuanjia charged 1,200 yuan, including psychological counseling and hypnotherapy, which is the standard price of his 'level', and compared to the substantive effect he played, this price is already very low.

Comparing Wang Yalin's treatment today, those 'famous teachers' on the market who charge thousands or even tens of thousands of yuan are not as effective as Yuanjia's treatment.

He does not discount or lower the price because he sympathizes with a client, and the client does not need the sympathy of others, what they need is understanding and help.

Yuan Jia recorded in detail the process of using the heart anchor to treat depression in this hypnotherapy, so that it would be convenient to check and fill in the gaps in the future.

The whole hypnosis lasted about an hour, and Yuan Jia implanted four heart anchors for Wang Yalin.

The first is to make her feel safe and loved in the face of loneliness and helplessness.

The second is that even if my mother is not around, it will not affect the beautiful scenery in front of me.

The third is to connect the warmth given to her by her mother to the warmth given to her by the sun, which she has always been there.

The fourth is the sentence she said when she said goodbye to her mother: 'There is a part of my emotions that misses you, and now I leave my part, and you take away the part that belongs to you'

At that time, Wang Yalin couldn't say this, and when she could say it, she actually really let go, because subconsciously, she had already said a complete goodbye to her mother.

These four heart anchors can be very effective in changing Yalin's way of thinking about how to view her mother's death, allowing her to jump out of the box in which she is trapped.

The biggest effect of hypnotherapy, in addition to implanting a heart anchor, is to let Wang Yalin meet her mother and let her say to her mother what she didn't say.

The unspoken apologies in her sophomore year of high school, the thoughts she missed these days, and the love she didn't have time to tell her......

This hypnotic process allowed Wang Yalin to fill in her regrets and do what she had not done, so that the obsession with her mother's sudden death was put down, and she would no longer suffer because of it, but kept the most precious memories of her mother in her heart.

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This hypnotherapy was also very helpful to Yuanjia, and before that, he had never given hypnotherapy to a client so formally.

Because he couldn't empathize with the client before, the client didn't trust him, the hypnotic effect was very poor, he couldn't enter that deep state, and even fell asleep.

Today, Yuanjia applied the learning results in the system to practice, which was a little blunt, but fortunately, it still had a good effect.

"I still have to learn a lot......"

Yuan Jia sighed that there was no end to learning, and the more he came into contact with the vast psychological knowledge in the system, the more he felt that he knew less.

The system is able to give him a rich 'actual mental simulation experience', which is a learning method that no psychology practitioner can match.

Just like many people think that they can experience life by reading more books, only to find out later that they can't read books without enough life experience, some songs don't feel much when they first hear them, but after experiencing more, they fall in love with this song.

In fact, the principle is the same, without similar or identical experiences, there is no empathy.

For mental illness, only 'self' is the best psychologist for oneself.

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Yuanjia sorted out the document, saved it to the computer, and continued to organize it tomorrow.

The hypnosis process is also quite expensive for him, his attention must be highly concentrated, and through Wang Yalin's subconscious body and expression reactions, he has to quickly change the hypnotic instructions.

If he didn't guide the hypnosis process well, Wang Yalin might have been left with more trauma in the hypnosis scene because of excessive recollection of bad things.

It's five o'clock in the afternoon, and he'll be home from work in a few moments.

Yuanjia relaxed and lay on the office chair, soft like a little fat cat at home, although this sitting posture is indecent, but it is really relaxing!

He picked up his phone and opened QQ.

QQ has a lot of friends, but now there is only one gardenia who has a chat, just like it has become her exclusive chat APP.

The message stopped at 1:30.

At 13:25, Gardenia: "Yuanjia, then I'm going to plant watermelons now." ”

13:30, Gardenia: [Picture]

At 13:30, Yuan Jia: "Come on!"

The picture is a stick figure drawn by her on the chat whiteboard, a cartoon girl with long hair, wearing a T-shirt and shorts, the left hand is black little by little watermelon seeds, the right hand is like a toy is a small shovel, and then there is a red sun in the upper left.

Cute and cute style of painting.

Looking at her paintings, Yuan Jia seemed to be able to imagine her appearance, and felt so cute, and then the corners of her mouth unconsciously hooked up a smile.

Gardenia won't easily send a message to disturb him during work hours, and before he gets off work, Yuanjia took the initiative to send her a message.

At 17:02, Yuan Jia: "I'm off work, how are your watermelons?"

In less than five seconds, Gardenia sent a number of photos.

Gardenia: "[Picture] [Picture] [Picture] ......"

Gardenia: "Look!"

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