"The general sentence is that 'what is too easy to get is often not cherished too much', do you think that the man should cherish the woman very much, and then what, the fact is often not, others may take it for granted, and even more feel that they do less?"

"How is it possible, obviously she is so good to him!" Xu Meng blurted out.

"Okay?!" Xu Yu snorted, "It's not as simple as you think, if the relationship is that you are good to her and he is good to you, there may not be so many troubles, and there will be no misunderstanding, and there is no appreciation, the relationship is not so simple, it is not a 'good' or 'bad' that can be explained!"

After Xu Yu finished speaking, Xu Meng was obviously silent.

Xu Yu thought about it and said, "She replied before, I didn't tell you, I thought ......"

Then Xu Yu sighed, "Actually, many things are not what you think, feelings are not about who is good or what, and I heard that the first person who often falls into it is also the one who is most hurt in love!"

Xu Yu looked at her and said a few words, then clicked on it and asked, how is she doing.

It's just that before I asked, I found out that she had sent a message, which should have happened just now.

Probably the content is that in the stalemate, the man didn't even arrange Zhuang Ya to sleep, maybe he was afraid of Gong Hanxu, and threatened that Gong Hanxu was the bride of their family to be married, that is, the prospective daughter-in-law, but that Zhuang Ya was just the one who missed his family and relied on him.

Despite this, Zhuang Ya asked Ying Hanchu to speak, Ying Hanchu ignored it, hid and didn't come out, and finally echoed his mother, saying that he didn't know Zhuang Ya, a crazy woman.

And the people in the community look lively, and there is a feeling of being more powerful.

There was no way, there was an argument for a while, and the daughter she brought with her was afraid that if she was robbed, there would be nothing, so she found a place to stay, and finally stayed temporarily in a nearby town, that is, a hotel, a few miles away.

Needless to say, Zhuang Ya's tears were filled with too many things that she didn't expect, and she didn't believe it, she couldn't accept this situation.

The point is that the man has a sense of déjà vu and an indifferent spectator.

Looking at the quarrel between the two women, the almost big exit, and the scolding, that kind of situation, Xu Yu felt like swallowing his mouth when he thought about it.

Alas, maybe many things are no longer in the expectation of Zhuang Ya, Xu Yu, and Xu Meng.

I thought that I would just go and ask the child back, but in the end, I found out that this was not the case, and I threatened to call the police, but there was no fear over there.

And thinking about being afraid that in case, she would be convicted and implicated in the family, Zhuang Ya hesitated, the dispute would be tired, and she was tired of traveling and driving, and she didn't even drink a sip of hot water, let alone warm meals and vegetables.

It's a feeling of despair that no one can experience.

It's all about disappointment and unexpectedness, as well as sadness.

One can imagine how desolate the heart of the person who typed these words was.

Before it stopped, I had to get my eldest daughter to eat and drink.

Xu Yu asked, "Why didn't you put the child where or place it? This is also very dangerous!"

Xu Yu also called other comforting words, but Zhuang Ya did not reply.

She thought that Zhuang Ya was busy with other things, but in fact, Zhuang Ya, who was sitting in front of the mobile phone, shed tears like beads, and was very sad.

In that scene, it is not an exaggeration to use the sentence "The tears you are shedding now are all the water that entered your brain at the beginning!".

Silence meeting, Zhuang Ya typed and replied to Xu Yu.

Xu Yu received it, the content was what she didn't expect, and she still had a little extravagant hope before she went, would there be a possibility, that is, Ying Hanchu regretted it, moved it with reason, and after knowing the feelings, Ying Hanchu took Zhuang Ya and the boy together, and then got the certificate.

At least no matter what, she didn't expect it to be like this.

She felt that the boy should be remorseful and, as he had said before, helpless.

But in fact, Zhuang Ya saw the last Ying Hanchu scolding Zhuang Ya with that person.

Zhuang Ya even had some kind of delusion, and as they said, it was now Zhuang Ya who used to destroy their family.

And the feeling of being an outsider.

How can it be that it is obviously the main room, but it has the illusion of being a junior.

But this idea is too strong.

Xu Yu thought about it and said, "You should go and find out if they have a certificate now." ”

Suddenly thinking about it, Xu Yu replied, "You are not much older than me, then you are still underage, so it is difficult to get a certificate, how to handle the child's household registration, have you thought about it?"

After Xu Yu comforted him, he said that he was thinking about this main problem.

Zhuang Ya replied, saying that she had checked this aspect, in fact, if she had a child out of wedlock or underage, she could get a household registration, bring relevant things, and the illegitimate child from the hospital, etc., and then pay a fine.

Now that the eldest daughter is about to reach the age of kindergarten, Zhuang Ya feels that her eyebrows are burning and she can't drag it out.

Xu Yu thought about it and suggested that she contact her parents, no matter what, at this juncture, her parents will definitely help, she is angry, and she is also her parents, this blood relationship cannot be broken, and she looks at it in combination with her previous words.

Since her parents still want to take care of the child, it is not so difficult to let Zhuang Ya try to contact her parents, and Xu Yu also said that this is the only and most convenient way at present.

After all, she took the child and went to the family to theorize, but she felt incompatible and inconvenient.

Talking and talking.

Zhuang Ya sent a message saying that she was so sad, and what did their village name think of her.

She is the one who is scheming and destroying other people's families.

I haven't given birth to two children in such a man's family, and I feel aggrieved and tired.

Xu Yu hesitated, and typed a line of words: "Maybe some people are not worthy of being people, but only in this way can you see a person clearly, after this hurdle is over, think about it carefully, don't be too stupid!"

Zhuang Ya was silent but did not reply, probably regretting it thousands of times in her heart, but she didn't know how to answer and said.

Wait a minute, Zhuang Ya said that she felt that she had seen the wrong person, she was sorry for her parents, she didn't want to say it, the child was making trouble, so she went to get busy.

Xu Yu agreed.

Said that there was something to help with ideas, anyway, he is now at home and has no work.

After Xu Yu finished fighting, he looked at the long conversation between the two sides, and he couldn't express the feeling in his heart.

Before he could say a few words, a voice came from behind.

Zhao Xiaohui in the master bedroom chattered, "Sure, girls should take care of themselves, there are bad people outside, bad people, I am all good"

Xu Yu listened to these words and said something roughly, indicating that Xu Yu's own friends had some emotional problems.

Zhao Xiaohui said, "You can't figure out your own affairs, and help others, don't act like you know everything, it's better to think about finding a job."

Then Zhao Xiaohui's rent and something came out, and Xu Yu dealt with it casually.

Look at the latch that has been drawn.

Xu Yu looked at Xu Meng on the side with some peace of mind.

whispered, "Actually, you also watched it, anyway," and then Xu Yu whispered.

"Think about it yourself, the living examples around you, you think about it yourself"

Xu Yu wanted to speak and stopped, and did not continue.

But she thought Zhuang Ya understood.

"How can this be, why are those village names so unreasonable, I can't tell right from wrong!" Xu Mengxia still couldn't help but chatter.

"I feel like it's shocking, but in fact, I want to think about it, jump out and see, it's understandable, after all, in that village, trust the man's family, naturally more cordial than an outsider, how can it be the person who has known this for a long time next to it, think about it, estimate, what the family usually says, anyway, others trust the man's ......"

Xu Yu didn't finish his words.

Xu Mengdao, "You can't reverse black and white!?, how is it, how can it ......?"

Xu Yu sneered, "What is black and what is white, do you think this is like this, is this way? Don't forget, how can others trust an outsider if they have lived there for so long!"

"That can't be like this, it's obviously wrong here, the children have it, it's not responsible, it's still like this!"

Xu Yu thought about it and said, "Yes and what, what if it's not right, maybe you have a preconceived idea, and you have already accepted the man's words and thoughts over there, otherwise do you think that if a girl goes over there, there is no sound on their side? Some things may not be so simple!"

Then Xu Yu straightened up, covered the quilt on the lower *half* body*, and continued, "Since she took the child over, it is also possible, such a decision is made by someone, at least acquiesce! Besides, no matter how the truth is, even if you know and have the bottom in your heart, no one wants to offend the neighbor next to her for decades, and go to help an outsider!"

Looking at Xu Meng, he still looked a little unclear.

Xu Yu said again, "It's like, it's like...... I watched TV before, so "Blind * Village" is not it, and the backward situation in the place is different, perhaps, they may also have a small economy in his family, and then it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law, now that they have children, there are also women who are willing to marry, they may also be happy for this man's family!"

Xu Meng didn't understand, blinking his eyes, "Why do you feel so messy, how do you think ......?"

Xu Meng didn't know what to say.

Xu Yu understood, and said, "That's it, think about it yourself, a lot of things, not what you think, not what you think you should be?" Anyway, I said, you'd better not have anything to do with that boy, anyway, you ...... yourself."

Xu Yu didn't finish speaking, and obviously felt that Xu Meng's state had changed.

Xu Yu didn't speak.

Xu Meng didn't finish listening to what he said, so he threw the phone in his hand and threw it to Xu Yu, then covered the quilt by himself, turned sideways, and stopped talking.

Maybe some things have to be done slowly......

Xu Yu sighed and didn't speak, chatting with Zhuang Ya.

Chatting and chatting, Zhuang Ya was free and talked about her past and her situation.

Xu Yucai understood that she had a younger brother at home, and naturally there was no love at home, and he was also from a rural family.

So in this way, she longs more for a home, and the idea of escaping.

Xu Yu understands this thought, and sometimes Xu Yu also has such an impulse.

It's just that the difference is that Xu Yu hasn't met it yet, or he didn't dare to let himself deliver it like this......

She always felt that after she got the certificate, many things would change, and it was not good to say.

Just like in TV, even if you get married, there are people who run away from marriage, so if you don't get to that step and don't get a certificate, Xu Yu feels that everything is in vain.

However, thinking about it, I also understand Zhuang Ya.

She is far away from home, working to make money, too much in her heart, and the family probably doesn't cherish much, and she takes it for granted......

Otherwise, Zhuang Ya wouldn't be either, I don't want to go home, I remember talking about my family, but when I mentioned it, Zhuang Ya didn't want to talk.

As you can imagine, the family probably doesn't treat her well......

She said, I don't know how, since I told Xu Yu so much.

At first, she didn't know how to say it, who to say it, because she was lonely, there was no way, and there was nowhere to talk, and she was about to collapse.

The family naturally didn't dare to say it, at that time, she and Ying Hanchu stayed together, at first just because the shared house was cheap, and she also liked this boy, and then thought that it would be good to take care of each other in life, so they acquiesced to each other, and then they were together as a matter of course.

Naturally, there are also expectations for the future.

It's just that sometimes when she feels lonely, she feels tired inexplicably, sometimes she quarrels or something, she wants to leave, but she doesn't know where to go, and the small family stays with Ying Hanchu, even if there is not too much warmth, of course, it is good at first.

Naturally, she didn't want to leave, and she didn't know where to go......

chatting tentatively with friends, and chatting with Xu Yu was Xu Yu's order to dissuade Xu Meng from talking to Ying Hanchu and explain the situation at that time, so she also wanted to rescue a girl and fall into the emotional trap, but in the end, it was in vain.

But the conversation box opened, and Xu Yu and Zhuang Ya chatted a lot.

Talking about their beginning, hard, really warm, he will come back from work to bring her food, of course, the point is not food, it is this kind of care.

Zhuang Ya felt very warm.

I also thought it would be good to be like this in the future.

Xu Yu asked, and was also surprised, "He has worked, not to say ......"

Zhuang Ya replied.

After working, at first they were looking forward to working hard for their own small family, the happiness of their children around their knees, naturally Zhuang Ya was in such words, thinking that they saw the future.

But I didn't think about it, now it's like this.

Xu Yu thought about it and said, I read the book before, and I said that the boy's oath was a problem, and he was serious when he took the oath, and he expected it so much, but at that time, many times, maybe they didn't think much about it, just talked, and even talked about it for a certain purpose, and after speaking, they forgot about it.

But the poor woman kept it in her heart.

I thought that these good things were a lifetime.

The simple kiss that woke up, as well as the affectionate eyes, and the determination to accompany each other to old age.

There are occasional small surprises, she said, she doesn't want much, just don't give up, she didn't think about the future wealth, or how to live, how to give romance to boys.

Maybe in her heart, this kind of romance is enough, but she never thought about it, but it was the last wound.

Xu Yu comforted and said, "Maybe your thoughts are simple, but others don't think so, this is the difference between people...... There are so many things that you think about each other, and you can never know what the other person really thinks!"

Xu Yu thought about it and said, "Maybe the goal has been achieved, or if you think it's boring, you want to leave! Actually, it's not nice to say, I don't think it's a good thing to live together before marriage!"

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