The spiritual support and attention of so many friends during the renovation of the house is also a thing that makes me feel very relieved and moved. Once wanted to invest the money in the decoration of the stock to earn some back, who knew that the stock market crash in 2015, the loss of more than 100,000 yuan in one day, the tragic situation can be imagined, the mood is really extremely depressed, all of a sudden decoration of the preparation funds are less than 200,000 for no reason, and the decoration process encountered a variety of routines and potholes, plus every time at the end of each type of decoration, we never owe people the decoration money, all of a sudden led to the decoration funds formed a gap of nearly 300,000 yuan.

My brother once asked me to accompany him to drink at home when he saw my face full of sadness, after learning the details, he immediately said: "If the decoration should be installed, if the funds are lacking or insufficient, brother, I can get 100,000 yuan to you anytime and anywhere There is no problem! Difficulties are only temporary, don't worry too much about gains and losses." After listening to his words, the "stone" above your heart immediately felt much lighter.

I didn't mean to borrow money from him, but I just wanted to vent the depression in my heart when I was drinking together, and telling my friends can reduce and reduce the pressure in my heart, do people have to learn to relieve pressure; and the brother He Jianwei who has been in the past for many years also immediately said: "Take 100,000 yuan to use it first, and then find a way if it's not enough!"

With their firm spiritual support, I feel that my conduct can still be recognized by my brothers, and I really feel very relieved and touched in my heart.

There is also a "benevolent brother" is even more outrageous, 10 years ago lent me money to start a business in Suzhou, I have been very grateful to thank him, I don't know where he learned about the loss of stocks, in 2016 during the May Day holiday when he came to Kunshan home reunion, called me: "Xiao Zhao, you come to my home in Kunshan! I'm waiting for you!",

"Oh, okay, are you missing one, I'll come right after I've eaten!" , received a call from his uncle, in addition to rubbing mahjong or rubbing mahjong, his old man is in very good health, he doesn't like anything is love to rub little mahjong, after retirement, he has been arguing with his aunt to go to Kunshan's home to play small mahjong, although I never rub mahjong but as long as he is missing one situation, I am the one who is sure to fill the pit; Aunt Suzhou is getting older and older, so usually I am at home to eat a good meal and then rush over to accompany him to rub mahjong, can not trouble the aunt as little as possible to trouble her.

When I rushed to my uncle's house, which was 10 kilometers away from home, there was no one in his 80-square-meter demolished apartment, and I asked blankly: "Uncle, where are the mahjong players!"

"Well, there is no one else here now, you can use the 100,000 yuan here to decorate the house first, and my uncle will give it to you if it is not enough!", he mysteriously took out a bundle of RMB from his arms, and was ready to hand it to me.

"Uh, uncle, I didn't offer to borrow money from you, I don't need it for the time being, the money to renovate the house should be enough!", I looked confused but very happy, I didn't expect my father-in-law to say nothing, but my uncle was able to understand the hardships of our juniors, "I really thank you very much for caring and helping me for so many years!"

"I've brought it to you from Suzhou, you can use it, I don't need it anyway, it's not good to wait for other relatives in the family to come and see it, take it!", my uncle is still determined to stuff the money into my arms, "Help you because you are good enough to get on the road, you have been working hard, as an elder, we are also very happy to see your active and hard work." His words make people feel very warm.

"Uncle, I really don't need it, if I really lack a little, I will talk to you a little bit about it. As I spoke, I returned the money back to him, and pushed his body towards the room inside, "I really understand your kindness, with your encouragement and support, I will continue to work hard! ”

"I just heard your mother-in-law tell me and my aunt that you husband and wife are decorating the villa, but your father-in-law is silent, not a dime, you are really not easy to start from scratch to this day, we just have a spare amount of money in our hands and did not buy bank management, so bring it over for you to use first. He sat down with me and explained the matter.

"Thank you again for your aunt and uncle's trust and support, the villa is renovated and you will be invited to come and stay for a few days. I expressed my heartfelt thanks to my uncle again, and then continued to help my father-in-law and said: "Although my father-in-law did not say anything, he also has difficulties, understandable, I know that his retirement salary is also very low, and he is a little stretched to take medicine and eat, and there is a door open here, he must have his hardships and difficulties; we are still young and have hands and feet, this current difficulty is not a problem, and I can cope with it, you can rest assured!"

My father-in-law and mother-in-law have always been not harmonious, and they are about to quarrel after only three words, and even have done something with their dearest relatives in the family, although I don't like him like this in my heart, but no matter what, he is always my father-in-law, and he can't always spread his old man's platform behind his back, and try to explain and comfort him as much as possible. It wasn't until the end of October 2016, perhaps because my mother-in-law repeatedly asked my father-in-law to come and see even if it was spiritual support, that he appeared outside the courtyard of the villa we had renovated and shouted to himself: "This little man bought a big house!", which was heard by his granddaughter standing next to him and secretly told me privately; in the past few years, almost every Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, he would whisper to me in private: "Your son's surname is decided by your father and me!" In fact, I know that he is afraid that I will change my son's surname back to Zhao, this matter has similar contradictions and entanglements in many families, in 2016 during the Spring Festival, I let him eat the scales like a rest assured, I raised the wine glass to him:" Dad, on the question of my son's surname, I will emphasize to you again, even if my father is no longer here, even if I will not be there in the future, my son's surname is still my wife's, and he will never repent, our surname Zhao does what he says, and he believes in his word, so you put a hundred hearts, and we don't need to talk about this topic every year in the future!", I drank it all after speaking!

I was pleasantly surprised that he was able to show up before we moved this time, and I told him the good news that made him feel more at ease: "The title deed of this house is in my son's name and I'm just a co-creditor!". A divorced friend once joked with me: "You out-of-town grass dog, one day your wife sees that you are unhappy and kicks you out of the door, and you honestly carry your broken bag back to your hometown!"

"I've never thought about one day to do something sorry for my wife, why should I worry about my wife taking me out, the gentleman is frank, there's nothing to worry about!", is it really someone else's sober and I am drunk alone, and it's rare to be confused for whom? I've lived for half my life, and I've struggled for whom, don't I still know yet?!

In stark contrast to my uncle and brothers who took the initiative to borrow money, my sister, who was the only one who could talk, when I went home to visit my father's grave during the Qingming Festival in 2016, my sister and I half-jokingly and half-really proposed to borrow 100,000 yuan for renovation and turnover, and the maximum period was one year...... Later, on the way back, my mother told me, "Did you borrow money from your sister and was refused, I just heard your little nephew questioning your sister on the side: Mom, when our family was in trouble, my uncle was very supportive and helped us get through the past, why can't we help my uncle?" "Mom, I already feel very relieved to have a child! Before I even opened my mouth, a friend offered to lend me money for the renovation, I just wanted to test her! I hope she remembers today!".

Before the Spring Festival in 2017, our family officially moved to a new home. In order to thank the elders in the family for their care, support and help, I decided to invite all the elders on my father-in-law's side to the house for dinner, without receiving any red envelopes and gifts, but just asking them to come and recognize the door, so as not to be gossiped: I don't even know which way the door of his house opens. After a week, I also invited all the elders on my mother-in-law's side to the house to reunite. Although some of these elders did not give me help and support in my career, they also gave me a lot of moral support and encouragement in other aspects, and in any case, the first thing to consider as a junior is to do what I should do.

Looking at the elderly and children at home and her satisfied smile, so far I have completed the third five-year plan of my life, and I suddenly remembered Zhang Jie's song "Wife" in my mind: Whenever someone asks me, why do I live I can only say that for a promise I once said to myself that I want to make you happy Take you over the mountains and rivers...... In the evening, I looked at her affectionately and affectionately: "Wife, do you remember what we said when we fell in love, on the night of January 13, 2001, we faced you in the city ** square?!"

"You talk so much all day long, how can I remember what you said!", she answered me almost without thinking. I suddenly felt a basin of cold ice water poured from head to heel, and my heart was cold, and I stood dumbfounded and speechless by the bed, and then silently lay on the bed and stroked my chest......