On the third day after bidding farewell to my grandmother in June 2001, she told me: "I opened up about our relationship to my father, who never communicated, and my parents wanted to see you, because I lied to my father when I went back to my hometown with you to say goodbye to my grandmother, although my mother knew, it was estimated that the paper couldn't hold the fire, and he quarreled with my mother again, so I could only confess to him."

I was very excited and excited at the same time, I was also very nervous and scared, and I was excited and happy that I used my sincerity and sincerity to finally get her affirmation and recognition, how exciting it was! ...

In fact, I have already communicated with my parents and exchanged opinions, their idea is: as early as 1998 before I went to Kunshan to work, my father used the indicators and quotas to buy a set of nearly 100 square meters of affordable housing for me, ready for my marriage, for this house he sold all the two houses in the town, not enough to repay another 40,000 yuan loan. Because the son found a daughter-in-law from Kunshan, if he started a family in Kunshan, they decided to sell the house, and then find a way to scrape together 150,000 yuan to buy a second-hand house of about 70 square meters for us in Kunshan, so that we can get married first.

"And where are you and my mom going to live?" I asked him

"I'll go to the first floor with your mother and rent a car garage to live in," he replied without thinking.

"No, I don't want it, the garage is not well lit and not ventilated, it's not good for your health! I'll first state to the two of you: even if you sell this house, I won't ask for this money!", I replied to both of them categorically......

So the marriage room is also one of the places I am afraid of, if my uncle asks, I am very bottomless in my heart! Love is the most afraid of hesitation, and then I can only miss it, I don't want to miss the person I love again, so that this lonely and wandering heart has a place called home to moor, because of this, I also have to grow up all over the body of hair and courage. In this way, after a fierce ideological struggle, my "hairy feet" carried two bottles of Wuliangye, two soft Chinese cigarettes and a large number of various fruits, and went to the door to "take the exam".

As soon as I opened the door, I greeted in standard Mandarin, and the basic qualities of politeness and tutoring were instilled in our family from an early age. Not long after putting down the things, a middle-aged man with big eyes but angry eyes came out of the room, murderous and fierce-looking, I don't have to guess that this must be her father who was so scared that I almost didn't hold the phone steady, I suddenly felt that her words for her father were all in place.

"Hello, uncle!", he didn't seem to be interested in me, and even ignored me, and went straight to the kitchen to cook lunch. "Yes, people treat their daughter as a flower in winter, afraid of freezing in winter, afraid of rain, and finally blooming, but you are a deflated calf but you have to take away the flower pot, can you not be in a hurry to get on fire?!", just like Ah Q, I comforted him in my heart for myself.

But the aunt is very very kind and very kind, pulled me and Yumei to the reception room next door to talk about this and that, very relaxed, my nerves like a cowhide band collapsed a lot of relief, Auntie is worried about whether my two dumb sisters are congenital, will they inherit such a thing, I will be honest and honest, tell the truth, this is actually the pain and guilt in my father's heart.

In a blink of an eye, it was time for lunch, his father sat opposite me, and the moment I looked up, his bull's eyes happened to be staring at me and looking at me, and in an instant my "cowhide band" that had just soothed was immediately nervous to the extreme, and I was like the lying and perjured domestic helper "Laifu" in the Stephen movie "Jiupin Sesame Official" in that week, trembling as he was enjoying the "last dinner", his hands trembling and holding a bowl full of rice and not daring to eat, I "stared at whoever is pregnant" from his "leopard head" She sat on the other side of the Eight Immortals table between me and her father, and kept putting vegetables into my bowl like the "Mo Zai Jiang" in the movie "Jiupin Sesame Official", "Eat vegetables, eat, you're welcome!", and after a while, the big bowl with not much rice was already full of vegetables, and even picking up a grain of rice had to be carefully pulled out like digging a yellow eel hole.

This meal immediately gave me a taste of several characters in this movie, it was simply the taste of ice and fire! This uncle, who was like a "leopard head" catching the head, except for glaring at me viciously throughout the whole process, did not have a word of exchange and communication, no wonder she kept saying that it was a father who never communicated. There was no sound except for the simple and soft exchange of words between her and me to resolve my embarrassment, and I could feel another silence in the scene, and you could hear the ticking of the electronic clock on the wall. She eats in her own house, never speaks or discusses anything, or talks and laughs, which is completely opposite to our family, which is completely cold and fire.

I don't know how I ate that bowl of rice, or how long it took to eat this "last meal", but after eating, she seemed to see my embarrassment, "Mom and Dad, let's go out for a while, and we won't come back for dinner in the evening!" Her father firmly disagreed with this marriage, but she insisted on going against her father and insisting on marrying me, so her mother said that she would come to the door to see me first!"