On May 1, 2010, we were scheduled to move into the renovated townhouse on this day, and we were finally able to move in, and finally realized the second five-year plan in the 10th year of my arrival in Kunshan. In order to let the relatives and elders in the family know each other, out of respect and respect for the elders, I still discussed with her to invite the relatives and elders to come over for a gathering, which is considered to recognize the door, don't be said by the elders that no one in our eyes does not understand etiquette;

During the banquet, the two of us toasted the elders and relatives one by one, and when it was her godfather's turn to toast, I only heard her godfather say to her father-in-law who was sitting on the side: "Old uncle, look at it, you have been in Kunshan for decades, and you have not been in Kunshan for 10 years, how about it? I didn't find fault with this son-in-law back then!"

"Eun, yes, heh...", the father-in-law had a stiff smile on the corner of his mouth, and his face was full of embarrassment. Yes, during the Spring Festival in the first year of marriage, he quarreled with my father with disdain and said that I was a useless thing, full of contempt and disdain, and now his daughter and son-in-law did not rely on his penny of support and help, and bought two cars and two houses by himself, he will definitely feel a little uncomfortable.

"Xiao Zhao, it wasn't my godfather back then, I nodded and agreed to your marriage with her, you can't marry such a beautiful wife, you have to continue to work hard!", the godfather turned his head and encouraged me at the invitation ceremony, my more strange father-in-law listened to the godfather's opinion on almost everything.

"Understand, thank you godfather! I will continue to work hard!", "I respect all the elders here, I will kill you, you can just say casually, thank you for your continued support and encouragement!"

After the relocation ceremony was over, after sending off relatives and elders, my mother secretly stuffed 6,000 yuan into my hand and said: " This is your three sisters' share of the money, your third sister said that you often buy a house, they often give you red envelopes that can't afford to come out, you can only mean a 2,000 yuan, although your two dumb sisters no matter what a big thing in the house, you have never given out red envelopes are not less than 5,000, mom knows that even if your talking third sister moved five years ago, you also gave all the cash 2600 yuan in the wallet to your third sister, you didn't leave any of yourself, mom I saw it standing on the side! If you don't care, you can accept the hearts of your sisters?". I smiled at my mother: "No wonder I want to hand over the money to you to deal with, I understand the meaning and good wishes of my sisters, there is no problem! How can I worry about this money with my sister, I know that they are embarrassed to hand it over to my brother and daughter-in-law, I will deal with it!"

Dad was "treacherous and scheming" standing on the side and looking at me secretly, smiling at me, I knew the meaning in his eyes: no matter what, the son's conditions are better than the three daughters combined, if possible, take proper care of and help the sisters, this is affectionate and righteous, great!

In 2010, the Dragon Boat Festival I took their two elders from their hometown to the new house in Kunshan, I want to implement my wishes and plans, after all, their two elders have been bringing up the eldest grandson since childhood, and the college entrance examination is over, which is also what my father has been emphasizing to me before his death: Don't help your big sister to train this child to graduate from college, I am uneasy, I can't bear it! Because the eldest sister's mother-in-law is very good at taking children, she almost killed her nephew, and her armpits and trousers have begun to become inflamed and rotten, and my parents are really reluctant to see this, and after discussing and agreeing, they will take their eldest grandson home from the 18th day of birth, so this child is not only my nephew, but also like my "younger brother" The same, he seems to have never left his grandparents, in his impression the concept of home is his grandparents' house, just day by day, year after year, with hard work to bring up his nephew, in order to let him study early at the age of six, Dad also deliberately asked the principal for special approval, since he was a child, he is also relatively good, although the age of the smallest in the class, the grades have always been among the best in the class, when I was a child, I participated in the Olympiad and always won awards, and the award certificate was pasted all over a wall in the house...... Now that I can finally finish the college entrance examination and go to college, my parents are much more relaxed and relieved, and they can come to Kunshan to live with their son and enjoy the joy of family.

Soon after we moved into the new townhouse, my wife bought a huge parasol and installed it in the yard, the umbrella was very large, it could cover half of the yard when it was opened, and it could be put away when not in use, and in order to fix it, she specially called the plumber to put expansion screws on the ground, and the umbrella suddenly broke on the day of the recurrence of Dad's illness...... After Mom and Dad moved to Kunshan, they still feel all kinds of discomfort, after all, life is not familiar, there is no emotional contact with old friends, although the grandchildren are around, the material conditions are much better, but it seems that they always feel that something is missing in their hearts, so I will also deliberately pick up the parents of the villagers in Kunshan to visit each other with them, to eliminate their inner loneliness and boredom.

After my parents moved to Kunshan, my wife's attitude seemed to be a little lukewarm, unreasonable, as if this parents had nothing to do with her, although my parents would prepare her breakfast every morning for at least five days and never repeat the same, but she seemed to have been in a cold attitude; until a few times my father secretly told me that my daughter-in-law never seemed to call me dad in person, I didn't care at first, I just replied to him under cover:" Your old man's ears are bad, and your daughter-in-law's voice is very low and soft, and sometimes even I can't hear clearly!" He was skeptical, but it wasn't until the second year after my father left, when it came out of my mother's mouth, that I realized that what my father said before his death was true......

Dad has officially retired since 2009, getting a pension of more than 4,000 yuan, they have no savings before, before they didn't come to Kunshan, his pension is basically spent on weekends and the family dinner of the eldest sister and the second sister in his hometown, the eldest sister's family has been eating at his parents' house for a long time, and the second sister's family will go to his parents' side for dinner on weekends, he never minds! After moving to Kunshan, his pension did not need to be spent, and all the expenses in the family were borne and borne by us, until my father later told me excitedly: "Son, I have saved 50,000 yuan a year in Kunshan, and finally become a 10,000 yuan household!" , probably the first time he had so much money, he was very happy, and I advised him that nasopharyngeal cancer needs to nourish his body, don't drink and smoke, you will save more and more money, and then you can accompany your mother to travel all over the country. He still didn't listen to persuasion, he still insisted on smoking and drinking, and even quarreled with his mother many times about this matter, but there was really no way, so it was up to him......

In order to relieve their discomfort and loneliness, I often send them back to their hometown to stay for a few days, anyway, there is only one purpose: how to make them happy, let them do whatever they want. He Jianwei's parents will take their son from their hometown to Kunshan for the summer vacation every summer, and I invited my uncle and aunt and his whole family to the house to feast on their family, but also to relieve the loneliness of my parents, who knows that my father and uncle hit it off at first sight, the two old people combined are more than 110 years old, and they drank from 11:00 noon to 16:30 p.m. before it ended, my father and uncle were very happy, he seemed to feel that he would entertain guests at the peak of his career: his home field was fighting, very high, I understand the joy and happiness in his heart。

The only thing I was worried about was that his hands that were smoking and drinking would be a huge obstacle to his physical recovery, but no matter what, I couldn't persuade him!