The daughter who came with the crisis
2008 was really a fateful year, just as the Chinese were immersed in the joy of the Olympic Games, the subprime mortgage crisis occurred in the United States far away on the east coast of the Pacific Ocean, which seriously affected China, directly leading to a sharp decline in China's exports, damage to the real economy, small and medium-sized enterprises began to close, unemployment began to increase, the stock market was green into the Hulunbuir grassland, and what directly affected me personally was the company's sales fell by 50% that year , personal investment in the stock market directly cut in half, and the company has more than 10 people to support, the responsibility and pressure on the body suddenly feel extremely big, standing in front of the office window even jumped from the fifth floor of the heart, thinking about the burden and responsibility on their shoulders, immediately stopped thinking nonsense. I am really confused and confused, I always like to drink tea with my father and talk about it, and he can always give me some assistance and guidance, seeing my son's mood and emotional instability, he patiently pointed out: "This is a global economic crisis, not our China at all** can be controlled, so as you personally, it is even more uncontrollable at all, but you can adjust and adapt, be prepared to open source and reduce expenditure, retain elite forces, compress surplus and unprofitable departments and personnel, strictly control the cost of operation and management, reduce and reduce the size of the team, first ensure that the company survives, and then seek the next step of development, life will always have ups and downs, Mr. *** is also "three ups and downs", don't be blinded by the current troubles and confusion! After communicating with his old man, he suddenly became enlightened, and immediately reduced the size of the company's personnel from 14 to 7-8 people after returning to Kunshan, and cut all the salesmen and drivers with poor performance and reserve personnel in accordance with the provisions of the labor law, and the company's dinner was changed from once a week to once a month.
Along with the crisis came the advent of her daughter, which was also the happiest thing in 2008! In 2006, she had a painful abortion of twins, and after a year she became pregnant again, as the time of delivery was getting closer and closer, but I had no choice, because there was no birth permit, this is a disgusting strange name, the local people's hospital in Kunshan could not let her be admitted to the hospital to give birth, and I had to think of the hospital in my hometown, and I had to accept her with the help of my cousin's friend. At about 6 o'clock in the morning on September 9, 2008, I received a call from my mother from my hometown: "I have given birth to a very healthy granddaughter, your father and your eldest sister are jumping up with joy, our whole family is very happy, and we are finally looking forward to the arrival of a princess!"
Yes, when she had a big belly before, she had been placing princess dolls in the house, and she was looking forward to it, three sisters gave birth to three nephews, plus our sons, all of whom were "bald", and finally there was a princess surnamed our old Zhao family! I then drove my father-in-law and mother-in-law from Kunshan, 170 kilometers away, to my hometown hospital, I saw her lying on the hospital bed, my heart was both happy and full of guilt, when she gave birth to a second child, I was not by her side;
That night, Dad was happy like a child, he insisted on drinking a little wine and smoking a cigarette to celebrate, so he picked up the cigarettes and alcohol that he had been quitting for two years because of the arrival of his granddaughter, and his nasopharyngeal cancer condition was not allowed to touch these two things at all, which was also the cause of nasopharyngeal cancer metastasis shortly after he moved to Kunshan. Even if he was really very happy to have this granddaughter with his surname, even if our whole family was strongly opposed to this matter, but at this moment, his will was no longer as strong as iron!
The arrival of my daughter made me feel the pressure and responsibility on my shoulders, only by working harder and redoubling my efforts can my family have a good material foundation, so I soon returned to work in Kunshan, and my son has been taken by his father-in-law and mother-in-law since he was a child. At night, he was alone in the "boudoir", Completely sleepless I miss their mother and daughter, so I got up from the bed and drove back to their hometown to see their mother and daughter, from Kunshan to the hometown of the 175 kilometers of road, I only took an hour to miraculously rushed to the hospital bed, in the Yangtze River Expressway just put into trial operation at that time, I actually drove on the highway to a speed of 200 kilometers per hour, that was the first time I drove so fast, but also the last time, although there was no traffic accident, but after thinking about it is really a little afraid, after all, not afraid of 10,000, just in caseWhen I showed up at the bedside, she was startled, and after a few hours of tiredness, she drove back from her hometown honestly, and my parents didn't even know that I had fled back that night.
A few days after picking up their mother and son from their hometown, when they were worried about their daughter's household registration and whether to be fined, the staff of the Kunshan District Neighborhood Committee took the initiative to provide door-to-door service, and said: "They didn't understand the situation clearly before, and a situation like our husband and wife can apply for a birth permit, because your parents-in-law are demolition land workers, and they have been receiving land demolition compensation, you can be regarded as "entering the door" and fulfilling the responsibility of supporting your father-in-law and mother-in-law, which can meet the two-child policy!" Forgive us for not doing our work meticulously before!", I have to say that the attitude and service efficiency of our grassroots organs in Kunshan are indeed worthy of praise, and soon we cooperated with the implementation of the child's household registration!
This is a "little mouse" that is painful and happy!