If the arrival of my daughter is happy, in fact, it is also a deep sore spot in my heart: it is her brother!

Because his career was too fierce when he was young, the child was basically brought up by his father-in-law and mother-in-law since he was a child, and the child followed his father-in-law's surname, so he was naturally spoiled by his grandparents since he was a child, especially my unreasonable father-in-law, who has no bottom line when he is spoiled, as long as my son wants one

"Moon", his old man even gave away an extra star for free, I don't know how many times I have had theories and arguments with her and her father-in-law for the sake of my son's education, and his old man replied to me more humiliatingly with a straight face: "You go away for me, Fu wants to gossip with me a lot!"

For example, children should not drink carbonated drinks, otherwise it will cause adverse consequences for the development of children's teeth, children should never be allowed to eat candy and apples at night, they should brush their teeth before going to bed, the rice grains in the rice bowl should be eaten by themselves and cleanly, and they should greet their elders after eating...... In the end, all these basic requirements I mentioned were all met by my father-in-law and mother-in-law, and even with the help of her

"Shot" out, these basic basic knowledge is so lacking in this family, I can't help but gasp, what's more serious is that they completely keep me, the father's educational custody of the children, firmly out of their doting umbrella, as if this child has nothing to do with me, when I say that this is wrong to my son's unreasonable and incorrect place, they can directly veto it in front of the child, I was like the one who had been deprived of all power, and as soon as I opened my mouth about the slightest thing about my son, my father-in-law would humiliate me in front of the child

So much so that since he was a child, his son felt that he could not listen to his father at all. And my wife didn't know it was

"Second pregnancy stupid six years" is still the true color, everything as long as her parents do it is right, although not long ago her father-in-law and mother-in-law quarreled over feeding her son, she wheeled up a stool and smashed it at her father, although I have been discussing and discussing with her in private before:" We should be grateful to our parents for helping us to take care of our son, but the responsibility of children's education is our responsibility as parents, as the old saying goes, there are no rules, the son does not teach the father's fault, the son is not educated well, and we are still the ones who suffer when we are old, we should instill in him a sense of responsibility from an early age, let him know the right and wrong of things, and understand why! It doesn't matter if we don't agree on the spot, but we can't show it in front of the child, and we'll discuss it separately afterwards!", and she seems to be the one

The cow who "doesn't listen, can't teach, and doesn't change" has always been the same, still the same, and I am the right with a dry mouth

"Niu" played the piano for a long time. I am indeed very grateful to my parents-in-law for helping us take care of our son, so that I have the time and energy to work hard for my career, but I am very annoyed with their bottomless doting education, until one day the anger that has been suppressed in my heart bursts out, and I directly punched a hole in the door of the room with a fist: my son who has been spoiled since he was a child at home does not know why he lost his temper inexplicably, how to coax him to tease him is not, I suddenly realized that this is the consequence of the old man's spoiled education, I stepped forward to preach to my son can not be like this, who knows that this kid is my father-in-law to me often used a sentence: "Go away, don't listen to you!".

Thinking about how my father-in-law used to humiliate me in front of my children, my son's words at this time suddenly angered me who was forbearant and depressed, and I locked my unrelenting son directly into the room, and said to him through the door of the room:

"Wait until you are quiet and know that you are wrong before opening the door, otherwise you won't open the door!", he was spoiled since he was a child, and he cried even more inside, and his mother-in-law and wife who were standing on the side wanted to come up and rush to open the door to let him out...... I was furious and smashed a hole in a printed plate in the door with my fist, and the loud noise silenced everyone in the room, including my son, who was locked in the room and crying...... In the end, the child still admitted his mistake, apologized and came out, I hugged him, he was so scared that he trembled in my arms, my heart was also extremely uncomfortable and not a taste, I stroked his back to comfort him while enduring the discomfort in my heart, calmly reasoned with him, and apologized to the child:" Dad tried his best to improve the economic and material foundation of our family, and you stimulated me with your grandfather's humiliating language, but Dad shouldn't be so angry with you, it's Dad's fault, don't be afraid, Dad promises not to do this again in the future!" This incident also left a shadow on his young mind...... But what can be done?

In such a family, the only thing that can understand me is the six-word hug that my father gave me: "Son, you are so tired!"