(1. Banquet)

But Zhuang Ya is more affirmative, and she is also worried about this kind of affirmation, she is very entangled.

On the one hand, she felt that this was the case, but at the same time, she was worried that it was the case, how she should face it, so she didn't know what to do.

Xu Yu knew, and then calmed down and asked her about the details of what she said on the phone, so Xu Yu felt that if she followed what she said, it didn't make sense to respond like this, but in the end, Zhuang Ya's tone of voice was lower!

Whether there is a bearing and confident words can be seen in the attitude.

But now it's already like this, so Xu Yu analyzed and said a few words, since he didn't tell him in advance no matter where he went, he must have been prepared, as for the woman's voice, don't worry about it for the time being, the rest is a threat.

Show your determination first, pay attention to your tone this time, and if you don't answer the phone, you have to show a clear toughness in the text message.

Then look at what he says, adapt to the situation, don't say some cruel things, put yourself in the upper hand, and use the law or something as long as it is beneficial to him.

By the way, to appease Zhuang Ya, don't be too pessimistic about everything, it is estimated that you have to ask for leave, at least a few days later, three or four days are always required, and if you want to report it quickly.

Reporting the case can naturally blow him up in advance.

After speaking, Xu Yu sighed and chatted with Xu Meng, asking her to pay attention to this and that, if Min Xingchen's attitude when he contacted them and told them in time, by the way, he talked about some incidents about people similar to Zhuang Ya, as well as Si Tao.

Si Tao is shopping everywhere, there is a saying that he has married and had children or something, alas, in the end, it is hard to wander outside, but Xu Yu is mainly talking about Si Tao's dropout and casual and curious about feelings, women are not a high-level animal that can take risks casually, everyone must be more intelligent to be this high-level creature!

After chatting, I didn't go home for dinner and rest.

The next day, Monday, June 16, 2008.

Xu Yu's day is a day off.

There is no imaginary restlessness in bed and sleep.

But very early, when the sky was light, the family got up and talked about something.

At first, Xu Yu was surprised that it was so early, and then he thought that it was also today's day, didn't he make an appointment to have dinner together and attend?

But it's positive.

Xu Yu thought that Zhao Xiaohui got up at night and chattered, but what she didn't find was that Xu Tianming didn't seem to be sleepy and sat on the rattan chair, silently swiping his mobile phone, and his brows were tight.

Xu Yu couldn't help but ask, "Dad, you won't sleep all night, why ......?"

Because if he was woken up, or woken up, he should still be in a dim state, but Xu Tianming didn't.

Xu Tianming didn't answer Xu Yu's words, urging "Hurry up and do your own business!"

"Rest, what's going on!?" Xu Yu was puzzled.

"Washing, it will take an hour or two for your own grooming, it's okay, it's too early to finish, hurry up, how long will it take, I'll go straight to *noodles*noodles*?"

"Oh...... Wait. Xu Yu shouted.

In the end, he hurriedly dragged the time, and then urged him to come over and finish eating, and then solemnly "reviewed" the possible problems, Xu Tianming took the trouble to speak, but the people "offstage" were not very cooperative.

Finally it was lunch, and we made an appointment to be together.

Xu Yu didn't talk much at the table, but Zhao Xiaohui didn't dare to speak.

It's just that Zhao Xiaohui's eyes are always looking at the positions where those eaters change on the turntable.

"In-laws...... You can call it that!" asked Min's mother.

"Uh!" Zhao Xiaohui glanced at Xu Tianming and replied.

"Why don't you eat it!" Saying that, Min Mu motioned to turn the plate of pearl balls that Zhao Xiaohui was staring at, and turned to Zhao Xiaohui!

"I ...... This ......" Zhao Xiaohui, who was originally happy and wanted to serve the plate at once, was coughed a few times by Xu Tianming, and then withdrew his hand and said, "Don't be hungry, don't be hungry......"

But Zhao Xiaohui's eyes still looked at the plate of pearl balls.

is an obvious lie, it goes without saying that in the end, Mother Min got off the table and sandwiched the pearl balls, and gave Zhao Xiaohui's bowl with other dishes.

Zhao Xiaohui shirked, but Xu Tianming said angrily, "Eat it if you clip it, slow down ......"

Xu Tianming wanted to say a few sarcastic words, but he closed his mouth, took a few sips of wine by the way, clinked glasses with Father Min, and chatted idly.

Zhao Xiaohui was ecstatic at the moment, but under the touch of Xu Yu's elbow next to her, she restrained a little.

Don't dare to eat anything.

is slowly barely passing the test, at least Zhao Xiaohui will not be too conspicuous, then Xu Meng and Xu Yu are also relatively quiet, but Xu Yu occasionally needs to talk a few words.

Whatever you eat is rice, it's like sitting on pins and needles.

Zhao Xiaohui was constantly reminded by Xu Yu's elbow and didn't dare to move, but Xu Meng wanted to say something, seeing Xu Tianming's eyes stunned, he didn't answer, just buried his head in eating some food.

It's just that Xu Yu is relatively calm, whether it's eating or drinking, or chatting, because Xu Yu knows a little more, and it's not like Zhao Xiaohui's faux pas, he is a relatively rational person, naturally he is not hindered, and his position is clear, so naturally he doesn't say that he will add color, and he won't add to the blockage!

It's just that after three rounds of dishes, Xu Yu, who was going to come down, pulled Zhao Xiaohui and Xu Meng away, because according to the situation that was said before, it was almost after the dishes were served or they were looking for excuses to go, but when Xu Yu pulled Xu Meng, it was obvious that the other party was not happy.

"If you want to go, you go first, no one will stop you. The tone of the words was very light, but the meaning of the words was heavy, and Xu Yu was a little stunned.

Zhao Xiaohui was about to interject, but was blocked by Xu Yu.

"You...... What's the matter, go home and say, it's not suitable here, don't you finish eating early, look at you have already put your chopsticks off!" Xu Yu also responded softly.

Except for Zhao Xiaohui, Xu Yu, and Xu Meng, these words can be heard, and Xu Tianming, who is a few seats away, as well as Min's parents or Min Xingchen, can't hear it.

Xu Yu can't talk about those "agreements" and the actual thoughts in his heart at the moment, Xu Yu knows that Xu Meng wants to stay, and nothing else.

After all, it is her happiness, and Min Xingchen, who is difficult to meet, naturally wants to grasp it, and doesn't want to let go of the opportunity, but it is not suitable for such a consumption at the moment, in case something happens to her, in case she disrupts the situation, or other plans, it is not a waste of previous efforts!

Xu Yu didn't want to intervene in case Xu Meng was there.

Xu Yu made an excuse to let Xu Meng leave and go down the steps, all right.

Zhao Xiaohui could only look at it, waiting for the letter.

Not good......

Zhao Xiaohui forgot her mind and made two strange noises there, the quack-haha sound made everyone present stunned, and the unique "original words" caused Xu Tianming to stare at several times and let Zhao Xiaohui go down.

Let them withdraw.

The longer the time passed, the more ruthless the "exposure" became, and Xu Yu had to signal Zhao Xiaohui to walk away in his ear.

But Zhao Xiaohui asked, "What about you, not together!"

"You go first, I'll wait!" Xu Yu pretended to be calm and said.

"If you want to be together, where am I going, I don't ......" Zhao Xiaohui blinked her eyes as if she was very aggrieved.

And before the words were finished, Min's parents interjected one after another.

(2, "Prongs")

"Why are you uncomfortable or do you want the doctor to see it or ......? It's hard to get together, don't go wrong, this food looks okay, I used to see that this one is all separated by glass, it looks very hygienic, and it can be tested at any time, it is better than a few other small shops or scattered, this seems to be a branch, right?" Min Fu said and looked at Min's father on the side.

"Uh...... Yes Yes Yes ...... It looks big, let's wait for a seat, business is good, there shouldn't be any problems!" Father Min answered a little blankly.

He must also feel that if it causes discomfort or something, it should be unlikely, the two of them would normally talk together, after all, looking at Zhao Xiaohui sometimes wanting to eat but not daring to eat, or sometimes showing helpless looks and eyes, Father Min didn't notice, but Min Fu is a woman, so he is naturally careful.

But Xu Yu and his party didn't know if the other party was really friendly.

Especially Xu Yu wondered if she was here to dismantle the stage, why is this and that, it's her bird business!

And before Xu Yu could speak, Zhao Xiaohui couldn't help but lean forward and laugh, as if she had seen something particularly funny, and now she couldn't help but laugh.

The scene was a little awkward.

Xu Yu could only ask Zhao Xiaohui stiffly, "What's wrong with you......" Xu Yu said with a slight side face, "Did you think of something happy about me, and I was happy in my heart!

Then Xu Yu was going to add something sorry or something like that, and then turned his attention and the topic directly.

But as soon as Xu Yu's voice fell, Ben Yuan smiled and smiled embarrassedly, "This insider (the meaning of the wife) is smiling, smiling, I haven't seen anything in the world, I'm a little off the stage, in the past, I can't wait to cover my head, and I can't see it when I owe it (scar, it's not good-looking), and then it's over in a daze!"

Xu Tianming's words are to solve the siege first and express some meaning, which is equivalent to explaining a little, and not saying a little bit about the other party on the stage, so as not to embarrass each other, through the words, they will not feel anything, and they will not be too embarrassed.

It seems that the topic has turned to the phenomenon of blind marriage and blind marriage in the past, fingers for marriage, doll kissing or something, are all marriages set by adults, people who don't know much about it may not know the existence of each other for more than 20 years or decades, and the parents will pull the line and propose marriage as soon as they see that they are about the same age, and they may understand it for a few days or go through the motions before the agreement, and then end it.

At that time, most of the rural areas were common in fifteen or sixteen knots, and some even married at that time and soon had a baby, and children at a few years old could play soy sauce.

Xu Yu naturally knew something.

At that time, including the father's generation and even the previous generations, what they believed in was "marrying a chicken with a chicken, marrying a dog with a dog", marrying the past, and could only complain that their fate was not good.

And the mother's family generally doesn't care much after marrying a daughter, the daughter in addition to going home for the holidays, otherwise it is also a loss of face, if the daughter's mother's house is a little longer, you will feel that the face is dull, especially those poor places are not even good to go back, that feudal and traditional thinking is heavier.

It also includes men and women, so women teach their husbands and children, and if they are subjected to domestic violence or something, it can be said that the older they are, the more afraid they will not speak.

And Zhao Xiaohui is also influenced by her parents, and the humility of women.

Including seating, they are not allowed to sit unless necessary, even if their daughters are also, if Xu Yu and they want to sit, unless there are few people at home, otherwise there are a few friends of Xu Tianming, even if there is a place, Zhao Xiaohui and Xu Yu cannot be served.

It's disrespectful, and it's not a matter of etiquette.

Speaking of this, Xu Tianming still sometimes uses this daughter, and the woman does not attend the table, indicating that the family education is good.

And tutoring is only a man's "discipline" of a woman, and it is impossible for a woman to "discipline" a man.

It's like the fact that the subordinate can't manage the superior.

Even if the superior has obvious mistakes, the subordinates are careful to remind and suggest, and whether to adopt them or not depends on the superior's intentions.

No matter how big the mistake is, it is controlled by others, what kind of things are his friends and social lessons, prison lessons and the like, it is impossible for a woman to "overstep her responsibilities" to teach.

And the more the ancestors go up, the more serious the feudal traditional thinking, the lower the status of women, those women dare not come out, women are used to "serve" men.

So in fact, from a certain point of view, everyone in the ancestors is a poor father, the birth of a peasant.

Because at that time, before the liberation of China, everyone was the same poor and identical, but some had a little more money, but they all wanted to contribute to the country.

With the success of a big country, there is a small family.

That is the phrase "how can there be a home without a country?"

Because of the international turmoil, people everywhere are struggling to make a living, and the people come to rest and work and build a homeland, a hand * grenade * bomb * immediately makes you tremble, how can you work, you may be blown up on the way out, and you may be in a different place at home by the sudden soldiers who fell from the sky......

Therefore, the higher the father's thinking, the lower the status of women.

It was only later that the country was liberated, and the poor people recuperated, worked, and created wisdom, and the gap between the rich and the poor that naturally widened, and the improper transformation of thoughts, also came, burns and looting, and all kinds of Xing cases.

The change of thinking is naturally justified, so after a few bags, the difference between men and women in some places will be reduced, but it is difficult to talk about complete equality between men and women.

The history and culture of 5,000 years are difficult to change with a few slogans and gimmicks.

After all, there are always traces of historical precipitation.

When everyone no longer talks about equality between men and women, it will really be equal, so how is divorce and the humility of the traditional woman of this man's thinking, but women are unwilling to change, and there will be natural disputes, and to a large extent, it is also the influence of this that there are also unmarried people......

Of course, there are happy ones, but there are more unfortunate ones, it is a fact, most of the marriages that look kind on the surface are full of devastation, maybe they will slowly transform and evolve later......

Expect......

Straight to the point.

So Xu Tianming pointed to the blind marriage in the past.

Naturally, Father Min said, "That is, in the past, they were blindfolded, and they may not see each other's appearance clearly until the next day, but it is too late, and they can only swallow bitter water!"

Originally, he laughed, and Father Min, who was talking, laughed, and Xu Tianming also laughed, but the people accompanying him laughed embarrassedly, but Min Fu was not happy, but he didn't make a sound.

But no one paid attention to this detail, maybe Xu Tianming deliberately noticed it, so he continued, "The people in the past are really pitiful, they didn't see the situation clearly, do you regret it?!"

It looked like he was talking about someone else, chatting about himself by the way, but as soon as the words fell, it seemed that he also said Father Min, maybe the other party didn't think much about the "people in the past" He was not in the list, so he casually accosted "I must regret it, I must ...... Ah, why are you stepping on me!"

Suddenly, Father Min's tone changed, and he looked at Min Fu in surprise.

How the picture seems to turn into the war of the other side.

Xu Yu looked at them and looked at Xu Tianming, as if he had asked him if he was okay, Father Min would forget it, and what was the talk on it, it seemed that the clear water had become muddy.

Xu Tianming seemed to shrug his shoulders and looked at himself, taking a sip or two of wine.

It doesn't seem to have anything to do with me, I'm just a spectator......

Xu Yu twitched, and he didn't know what to say, this ...... What is the situation?

It's like the chaos has just been resolved, and it has attracted another game to Xu Tianming......

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