(1. Planning)

Looking at the obviously unhappy appearance of the Min husband, the two looked a little deadlocked.

The sudden kick was naturally speechless, "What are you doing!?"

"I should ask you...... Have you been thinking like this for a long time!" Mother Min was displeased.

"What's that...... Neurotic!" said Min's father.

"You're nervous, your family, you're all, you ......" Min Fu's words were interrupted by Xu Tianming.

"Oh, what are you doing here, the good atmosphere has been ruined!" Xu Tianming stood up and persuaded.

"You ask him!" Min Fu said, pouting.

"You should ask her!" replied Father Min.

"Okay, okay, all of you are such an adult, what kind of tantrum do you have?!" Xu Tianming persuaded and persuaded him.

It didn't take long for the two to babble a few words to each other, and then they ignored each other, as if waiting for someone to speak first.

Xu Tianming had seen the scene, and then said something else there to ease the atmosphere.

After a while, the topic returned to Min Xingchen and Xu Meng.

Xu Yu looked at Xu Meng who was sitting on the side, and listened carefully at this time, but his expression was not concerned, but his eyes were either looking at Min Xingchen or the person talking from time to time, concerned about the progress of the words.

And Zhao Xiaohui obviously didn't want to get off the table, although she had already stopped chopsticks, and she didn't eat, but she had a fearless look, although Xu Yu also hinted at getting off the table a few times, but there was no movement, and now Xu Yu had to sit there together and watch what changed.

Suddenly, the picture became a little wrong, and he talked about Xu Meng and Min Xingchen's academic problems.

And the two now, Min's parents are naturally speaking for their children and their own families.

Naturally, the little suspicions and episodes of the previous conversation seemed to be forgotten, and now they are all partners and relatives in the same camp.

Right now, we're talking about whether to continue going to school and getting married, or whether to get married first.

And when I talk about marriage, I naturally mean that the current hometown on both sides of the table is set up first, after all, the countryside still uses this table to express the happy event of a treat, or a kind of announcement and witness.

Although the setting of the table in the countryside cannot be used as a basis, that is, it does not have the effect of law to protect their legitimate rights and interests.

In other words, if any party cheats, or does something that violates the bottom line of morality, it is not protected by law.

The law is not based on the customs of the countryside as how many people know how, and they are approved by husband and wife.

The law only looks at the red book of nine yuan.

But after all, Min Xingchen and Xu Meng are not of marriage age, Min Xingchen is 15, Xu Meng is 14, the two met and contacted after different classes at the same level, and they were both students in the second year of junior high school in Changyou City.

Naturally, it is under the age of marriage prescribed by law, and men must not be earlier than 22 years old and women must not be earlier than 20 years old.

Therefore, I can only discuss the wine in each hometown first, which can be regarded as having a name, and the child will fall out, so that I can have a source, and then I can register the marriage with the Civil Affairs Bureau when I reach the age.

And now the problem comes.

Xu Tianming's idea is to study first and then go to Min Xingchen's house to give birth in the first few months when the child is about to leave, but he also has to pay Xu Meng's tuition and various expenses each semester, including daily necessities.

And then it's time to go to Min Xingchen, and the requirement is to marry after drinking, and then take it over, and the age is in the testimony.

But Min Xingchen's meaning was to go back to the wine life first, and then do his studies, but the words were obvious Xu Tianming felt that he didn't want Xu Meng to study anymore, and at the beginning he said that he was following Xu Meng, who seemed to be the master, but it made Xu Meng's situation passive, and naturally Xu Tianming was not followed.

But the other party didn't want to let go, and said that it was okay to study, pay or anything, but people had to go to him first, which could be regarded as giving the name first, and at the same time not letting Xu Meng give birth elsewhere, and the pregnant child was waiting to be delivered at her mother-in-law's house, she said that their rural customs are like this.

But Xu Tianming disagreed, and then the two sides were deadlocked.

Zhao Xiaohui said a few words, and it was not on the point, and sometimes even unconsciously said that it was in the other party's camp, and she didn't know it, so Xu Tianming stared at it a few times, Xu Yu pulled, and Zhao Xiaohui sat there playing with the tablecloth.

Zhao Xiaohui pulled the disposable tablecloth on the tablecloth and played there and buckled it several times, and finally under Xu Yu's signal, Zhao Xiaohui left aggrievedly, originally said to go to the toilet next to her, and finally simply came over to Xu Yu and told them to go home and guard the door, and they all went with her.

But Zhao Xiaohui left, but there was still not much progress on the topic, seeing that some situations were getting worse and worse, and the two sides did not rely on each other.

But Xu Meng was so anxious that he couldn't wait to jump.

Maybe Min's mother saw this situation and said, "We are all parents, so we are still the starting point!?"

"That's nature!" Xu Tianming replied with an unhappy expression.

"Since it's all for the children, why don't you ask the children's opinions?" Auntie, I ask you, ...... you" Min Fu looked at Xu Meng's face and said.

But before he finished speaking, Xu Tianming interrupted, "But don't forget that children are young, what ideas and decisions they can have, it is up to adults to think about it, just like preparing to ask how old the doll is like Dad or Mom is such a stupid thing!"

Xu Tianming's words were very simple, meaning that he couldn't ask Xu Meng's thoughts, he knew Xu Meng's thoughts, but now he said that it was meaningless to ask them about their decision, because he was too young for adults to think about it.

And when the doll asked if she liked her father or her mother, she said that such a question was meaningless, and it would also intensify the conflict, intending to feel that the words and thoughts were inappropriate.

(2) Intervention.

Mother Min hasn't said anything yet, Xu Meng has already heard what she said clearly, maybe excited, or eager to marry, after all, if there is such a stalemate, it is difficult to have a result, and the two sides are also in a stalemate.

Xu Meng almost blurted out, before Xu Tianming's words were finished and his voice was not finished, Xu Meng had already spoken, which was equivalent to the same time, and both of them were talking.

What Xu Meng said was, "Actually...... Should we go to see his (Min Xingchen) hometown first, and then look at the situation from far and near, after all, if we marry far away, our parents will also be worried!"

It seems to be considerate and reasonable, but if you don't know someone who listens to this, you feel Xu Meng's filial piety, but those who know Xu Meng know that she is actually against her will.

Otherwise, why did he go so actively to Jiangxi City, which is far away, and Jiangbei City, where Xu Tianming is located, in completely two directions, just to escape from the control of the family and hide far away.

It seems that because of the change of school, and it is the joy of the focus, and what Zhao Xiaohui said, what if you go late, the relationship to get into the position spent money and was squeezed into by others, the meaning is afraid of change, and the money has already been spent, and it is good to occupy the pit first.

So a week before the start of school, Zhao Xiaohui told her to go early, occupy tables and chairs, and don't fall behind.

Xu Yu was speechless, naturally chattered again and again, Xu Tianming was also annoyed, and set foot on the road to that side early, three or four days in advance, take some accommodation, and feel the way for Xu Meng first, how to go home and buy things nearby, the daily route, how to approach, how to tell Xu Meng, and some things to pay attention to, what not to fight with students, listen to the teacher.

But only Xu Meng herself knows that she has already flown a long time ago, it doesn't matter where she goes, as long as she stays away from home, she doesn't care so much about whether the focus is or not.

In this situation, Xu Meng actually wants to find a reason, first, to ease the atmosphere, secondly, to let himself go there in another way, and secondly, he wants to understand his hometown and the place where he was born and raised.

Xu Meng said calmly, but the corners of his eyes were still full of joy.

"Okay, okay, it's not far away, just the school and then go to the alley over there, and then take a taxi ......" Min Fu laughed at this, maybe he also felt happy to know Xu Meng's thoughts!

It's just that his words haven't fallen yet, Xu Tianming is dissatisfied, "You go to Jiangxi City by yourself, we are in Jiangbei City, the place is west and north, why is it not far!" Xu Tianming was angry and gestured, meaning like two lines, they are all in different directions, how can they not be far.

It's also something that can't be done when you think about it!

Xu Meng's expression at this time was not provoked by Xu Tianming's words themselves, but the tone and momentum of Xu Tianming's speech, obviously with no remembrance of the place over there, and he didn't want Xu Meng to go there.

Xu Meng originally wanted to find a step for each other and an outlet for his own happiness, but now it is making Xu Tianming say that there is no way out, and he is unhappy.

Some disdainful of the sentence, "She (Min Fu) said that it is not far, maybe it is not far, and this and that means of transportation, it is not the same as walking before, no matter how close it is, it feels very far, and now it is a car or a plane or something, and it will be there in a few minutes!"

"Yes, yes, it's pretty close, if you're worried about your dream, you can come and see it at any time, walk, it's very good here, the transportation is convenient, the people are also simple, you can rest assured that you can eat and wear, there is a small shop not a few steps from home, and it's ......"

"Also, there is a toilet, the squatting pit, maybe it is still a big dung pit, accidentally fall down, shouting for help no one found it in time, take care of it, rescue it is also mud, do you go?

Every day, there are some uncles and aunts.,There's no suitable person to talk to chat.,Watch TV every day, you think you don't want electricity.,Say it's dead.,Don't expect a computer or something.,Maybe there's no radio network cable.,You have to use the small TV in the past.,It's not long before the wind blows outside.,TV can't be watched.,You think it's good to get traffic.,There's traffic.,The country signal is not good.,And who do you think gives you a monthly exchange fee.。

This is not economical, sit at home and wait to eat, do not work in the field, say that you will die, adults and children will eat in the future, and the children will be busy with you, you go, it's okay to do nothing every day now, dry staring, still being drowned by people spitting on you, go and go, no one will pull you, let's go!"

Xu Tianming's phone call embarrassed the people present, especially Min's parents, and Min's mother didn't know how to pick up the stubble, and the unprepared call came, and she was stunned and didn't speak.

Xu Meng seemed to be a little substituted by Xu Tianming's pitiful situation,

At the moment, I was a little stunned and dazed, and I was also a little worried there.

She hasn't been to the countryside, she doesn't know the rural situation over there by Min Xingchen, and the Xujia Dawan she brought with her when she was a child is too young and doesn't remember much.

But Xu Meng has more relatives for the New Year, and some were taken back to Xujia Dawan and other rural areas by Xu Tianming, and he knows a little when he sees it.

Although every time she went home, she was in a hurry, but she had an impression of the fence road, the well, and the big dung pit in the places of her relatives or friends, especially in the remote places of relatives or friends.

There is also the small talk of every household, she does not participate much, but every time she goes, there will be a few Mo celebrities who say her name, what she saw when she was a child, and ask this and that to learn.

These are all impressions, she mainly went back at that time, if she lived like this every day, she listened to Xu Tianming's situation, she had been there a few times, and she was extremely bored, and she couldn't wait to count the time with her fingers, naturally she didn't like it.

But in the future, maybe in this similar village, the difference is that there is his existence there, there is companionship, Xu Meng is a little silent, on the one hand, I don't want to live like that kind of life in my heart, people, naturally live a better life, I don't want to go back or a relatively poor life, it's all like this, naturally Xu Meng is not surprised.

She is in the dormitory of Changyou City School, although it is not very good, the collective toilet, and shower, sleep in the upper, middle and lower moving beds, even if the cotton wool is padded, it still can't be stopped, there will still be a phenomenon of arms.

Compared with other places, it is not good, and the good environment and place can be so good that she can't imagine, but for her current knowledge, she thinks that such cleanliness and hygiene are still very good.

At least not long after going out, there are supermarkets with various business outlets, as well as snack streets, etc., which are naturally better than those in my hometown.

Xu Meng has seen some, in her opinion, there are already a variety of goods to choose from, and now it means that she wants to return to a single choice, and maybe this commodity may not have the phenomenon, buy it in a big city or county.

This is the supply of goods as well as the necessities of life, which is not so convenient.

There is no such thing as taking a bath and waiting.

And what Xu Meng doesn't want to accept now is that there will be mosquito bites in the toilet when he goes back to his hometown, and he still has to drive away flies when he goes to the toilet, as well as the smell of the dung pit and the wriggling insects, etc., and some rural areas go to the toilet far away, and they can't put their feet, which makes Xu Meng feel very entangled in his heart.

And these entanglements, in Xu Tianming's view, are now thinking too much, because what he means is to study first, go to school and then go to that hometown, and if he really goes, Xu Tianming's heart is that "two sayings (meaning various sayings, all kinds of sayings are possible, not constant situations and choices)!"

And this stalemate, Min Fu naturally reacted quickly, hurriedly stood up, pointed at Min Xingchen and said, "There is him, there is him, we are okay in the countryside, (you said) some phenomena have, some don't, and each has its own advantages and disadvantages, just like people can't always look at the bad side, the countryside is not all unbearable......

Oh, I don't want to run to the city, so there are still some of us who come home from the city, and they are not people, aren't they also alive?

The days are getting better and better, and we will all work hard in the future, work together, and then we will all buy a house and live in the city, and there will be this, even if there are some bad phenomena, there will be no more, now they are not all in the reform and construction, and the situation of paving the road next to the township in the future will be good, and slowly, the little couple will live a sweet life, life will be better and better, and they will be envious, I am blessed to marry a beautiful daughter-in-law!"