Two days before the Qingming Festival in 2012, I suddenly received a phone call: "Are you Zhao * of *** company?"

"I'm me, where are you?", at first I thought it was a customer who came to visit.

"I'm from the Kunshan Taxation Bureau, my surname is Zhao, you come to my office, I have something to ask you!", the other end of the phone indicated his identity and intention.

"I'm sorry, I'm not empty!", I was preparing to go home for the Qingming Festival to accompany my critically ill father, and I was in no mood to deal with this matter.

"Well......! What do you mean?!", the leader Zhao on the other end of the phone must have never received this kind of call that rejected him, thinking that this guy is quite old.

"Oh, leader, that's not what I mean, my father is already critically ill with cancer and has given up treatment, and I want to go back to my hometown to accompany him through the last period of time! Can you wait for me to come back and meet you?", I realized that I didn't express it clearly, so that the leader misunderstood.

"Oh, you are very important, you hurry back to your hometown to do this thing, we are all children, and we should do our filial piety at the end, so let's call the phone number of my office when I come back!", the words on the other end of the phone make you feel the warmth of spring, which can soothe the anxiety and uneasiness in my heart a little.

"Thank you very much for your understanding and understanding! After my father's funeral is completed, I will definitely go to the appointment on time!", I can feel that this is a reasonable leader.

After I returned to Kunshan after completing my father's funeral, I immediately went to deal with this matter, and I had to have the spirit of contract in my life! When I went to his office at the tax bureau as promised, he asked me to explain why our company's declared profit rate was lower than the warning cordon in the tax system; I conscientiously explained and explained to him in his office the actual situation and difficulties and the reasons why the profit rate was low; it may be that the interlaced lines are like mountains, and he said to me in a foggy and confused way:" Otherwise, you can go back and write me a written fact sheet and analyze all the things you just said in the report?"

"Okay, leader, no problem! I'll send you the report in the afternoon!", writing a report is simply easy for me who has been a confidential secretary for two years, and soon I submitted this fact sheet to him in the afternoon, and I will analyze the reasons one by one in the fact sheet, and put the facts and reason one by one, since the leader is reasonable, we can't make the leader embarrassed!

After submitting the report to him, he never called me again, but in my heart I always felt that I was not going to go, and I was very grateful: he helped me to press this matter back for two months, let me accompany my father at home on the last journey, and wanted to invite him to a meal to thank him, after all, people are so reasonable, we must also have a person to know how to understand etiquette and feelings! I don't know how many times I asked him, he really refused, so I told him on the phone:" Leader, I sincerely thank you for letting me go home to accompany my father on this last journey, I can feel that you are also a filial son, but also a reasonable person, and we have the same surname, you really refuse to come out to eat, so can you enjoy the family banquet?"

Maybe it was because I asked him to talk about it, or maybe we reached a "consensus," and he finally agreed to come to my house as a guest! Later, after everyone got acquainted, I asked him: "Leader, after I handed over my report to you, I haven't seen you come to ask me again, is there nothing wrong?"

"I want to cry when I read the report you wrote, so what should I do, I can only continue to lower the cordon and include you!", he said humorously;

"Of course, we have also verified the reasons you mentioned in the report, and it is true that with the fierce competition in the market and the trend of becoming more and more transparent in recent years, the profit margins of various industries have also declined to a certain extent. ", he continued to add impartially and objectively.

It may be that our "three views" are very similar, I am honest and frank, and because we have the same surname, the distance between each other has been shortened a lot, and then he gradually became my best friend, and there are many things I am willing to be honest with him. Exchange of views, learn from his different angles and methods of analyzing problems and dealing with things, including the artistic level of speech, he is 11 years older than me and does have a lot of life experience and experience worthy of my reference and learning, and I have always been grateful to him for his guidance and help since then, this is a good big brother worthy of lifelong stay!

Sincerity, sincerity, honesty and frankness can always be exchanged for intimate friends!