Although she is not a smart and wise woman, but at least my carefully selected wife, is also a beautiful woman, although she is not a perfect person, and even sometimes has a small temper outburst, but I always feel that this will not affect the relationship between our husband and wife, not to mention that there will be times when my teeth and tongue fight, mutual tolerance and humility understanding and understanding are also the basic parameters that must be had in running a family.

Every time we quarrel, it is not for the things between husband and wife and in the family, but for the low-level mistakes she often makes at work, sometimes even making the same mistakes in a row, I am very angry, I have always had a rule with my apprentices: it doesn't matter if you make mistakes, but you must understand that today's mistakes are for tomorrow's good, and they must not be yesterday's mistakes!

What is tomorrow's good, the guest compliments you, let me take the initiative to give you a raise...... For example, sometimes the business structure determines that a business will involve two or three receivables units, and she will miss one or two, and for example, when it comes to the reasonable commission negotiated by both parties in the company's business, she will pay more to the customer, until the guest says to me several times: "Brother, is your wife giving too much!" ,Sometimes I wonder if she's going undercover.,I've talked about it many times but still make the same mistakes.,My heart is extremely crazy and messy.,I really regret that I got her to the company to do the work of financial management cash cashier.,What's worse is that she's been doing this job for at least five or six years and still makes such a low-level mistake.,Anyone will be annoyed in their hearts!

I forgive a principle: I never bring work to the house, the house is the family's affairs, I don't discuss work matters when I enter the house, and even when there is a work phone call, I always run outside the door to answer it.

And every time she made a low-level mistake, I would scold her mercilessly until she cried: You have a snack, a little brain, this is the money in our own pockets, and you are sent by a charity to go undercover?

When she makes mistakes in a row, she will even be crazy to the point of not choosing her words, not paying attention to the occasion, and she is also embarrassed in front of her colleagues in the company, but she has a nirvana, every time she criticizes and scolds her, she will start a cold war with you, and a cold war is 72 hours, if you want me to say something as punctual as an alarm clock, you will not pay attention to you if you don't say a word to you within 72 hours...... It's a work thing, what are you bringing home for?

Every time she was scolded, she would enter the house with an iron face, and my father would reprimand me when he saw that she was unhappy: "Are you scolding her again, can you talk well!

"Combat experience" to her: "My son has a bad temper, just like his father, when he is in a hurry, you slip away a little, and when he comes back after a while, he will be fine......", the father smiled innocently and bitterly.

A lot of quarrels between husbands and wives are bedside quarrels and bedside quarrels, she's not, the alarm clock hasn't arrived, even if I apologize to her in front of my parents, it's not good, it's not good to keep going like this, I can't stand it, what to do?

There are always more ways than difficulties, I always think of ways to make her laugh, if it doesn't work, then wear a flower pants, pretend to be a woman, you have to stage, and she wants to laugh means that the alarm time can be pinched off in advance, and it's basically fine.

In fact, I know that she is a woman who is not very confident, she was frightened by her father when she was a child, and there is a shadow in her heart, and even when our son was in kindergarten a few years ago, she also had a fight with her strange father, and even used the bench to alarm 110, and I was not at home that day...... Thankfully, I've been taking my love promise seriously: I will never treat you the way your father did to your mother!

In fact, the relationship between our husband and wife has always been very good, at least I think I am sincere to her, even if I have been married for almost ten years, I have not appeared so-called

"The seven-year itch": We are more of a conflict at work, and sometimes we are really angry with her to vomit blood, often

"Quarrel", in terms of family life, we will only have some sharp contradictions and disagreements with each other on the issue of our son's education, but not to the point of fierce quarrels, as my mother said, when the temper comes up, I will be like a firecracker,

After the sound of "bang", there is no more, and the pull down is over. The next day, I was already like no one, I forgot about the quarrel, maybe women like to hold grudges, turn over the old accounts, she will go over the old accounts with you a few years ago to slowly calculate, I'll take a ...... , so I took the initiative to directly quarrel with her about the three principles of the problem: first, do not expand, no matter what kind of contradiction should not be extended to the parents of both sides, we are adults, solve our own problems, don't let the old people on the other side worry about us; second, do not hold grudges, teeth and tongue will be often

As for "fighting", the purpose of the quarrel is to unify opinions, so every quarrel is not allowed to involve the content of the previous or previous quarrels, one thing is discussed, one thing is quarreled, and after the quarrel is over, it is not allowed to beat people, and insist on convincing people with virtue and reason.

From the very beginning, I have tried to keep the contradictions under control by using systems or rules to restrain each other's words and deeds like running a company.

That's right

In this world, even the happiest marriage will have 200 thoughts of divorce and 50 thoughts of strangling each other in their lives.

Happy families are similar, unhappy families have their own misfortunes, happiness in our own hands, we must understand with our hearts, learn to manage happiness!