I analyzed and judged that in fact, the development of my hometown is like Kunshan 10 years ago, so some things should be laid out and planned in advance, and in addition to the homeland where I was born and raised, there are also connections and networks that I am familiar with, so I am full of confidence in my hometown to set up** Consulting Services Co., Ltd., specializing in providing customers with trade agents, export receipts and settlements, export tax rebates and related logistics services one-stop service company, the company was soon set up, but also to prepare to do a big job, specially from the Kunshan company to transfer the business manager to develop this side of the market, after a period of hard work, found that my analysis and judgment is still lacking some necessary factors and parameters, the company still failed......

In the early days of the establishment of the company, I had to often return to my hometown to command, and often stayed in my hometown for 10 days and half a month without returning to Kunshan, two things touched me a lot: one is that I will tell her in advance before returning to my hometown on a business trip, but after I return, she will never call me to ask me to care about me: what did you do today or how is the progress? She wouldn't even call me for three or five days in a row, until I couldn't help but call her to report on the progress here and what she did every day, sometimes even making a phone call during the day, and talking to her again at night for half an hour or even more than an hour...... Until one night after hanging up the "phone porridge", I immediately thought about a question: if on the other hand, she cared about asking me how the situation was going every day, or called me again at night, I would be reluctant to tell her, and I would definitely be tired of her phone check, and even ignore her...... But I understand that only when I really understand the "cheapness" in it will I no longer do "cheap" things that are detrimental to responsibility and responsibility, just like my father's teachings before his death, it is still my own self-respect and self-love when I go out, and the family and career need to be managed with heart to achieve perfection, and we should never forget the responsibility and burden on our shoulders! Later, I asked her privately why she never called, and she said: " Soon after we got married, my mother-in-law told me that a man's heart is actually like sand, the tighter you pinch it, the faster it will drain, and it should be like flying a kite, firmly pulling the string and letting it fly high, but the rope keeps coming!". I now know why not long after I got married, my mother asked me to hand over the economic management of the family, money is the rope tied to the kite that my mother understood, as the saying goes, men become bad when they are rich, and women become rich when they become bad.

Another thing is that the whole social atmosphere deteriorated at that time, and the moral decline became more and more serious, at that time it was the era of the third and second mothers, and it seemed that if you didn't have a woman outside except for your wife, you wouldn't be considered a successful person; but not all people think like this, and I am a very traditional and disciplined person, I will never forget the two requirements that my father made to me back then, even if my assistant has been with me for eight years, there is no scandal between us, and I am not afraid of shadows; of course, there are also lustful female customers in my customer base who shamelessly took the initiative to ask me to open a room with me, and I asked her head-on"If we even break through this basic moral bottom line, then what can we leave for each other's families? Isn't the purpose of our desperate efforts to make money just to make a good life for our families? I will not do this kind of thing that relatives and enemies are happy!", although one night in the early hours of the morning, this customer was rear-ended by drunk driving, and the car carried a little white face, and called me to replace the top bag,...... , I still went and helped her settle the matter, but that's just your outlook on life, not mine!

When I returned to my hometown that year, I invited a group of colleagues and brothers who were very familiar with each other to have dinner together, and they all claimed to be "corrupt" outside; in fact, the wives and children of these brothers knew each other and were familiar with each other in our family, and even their parents had met, and it should be said that they were all brothers in a relatively close and better circle; after dinner, I invited them to KTV to sing, who knew that I was the only one in the private room who was stupidly picking a girl to sing with, it turned out that they all had "packed." Some even go directly to dinner together in the evening. Then the brother next to me began to open his mouth: "Brother, you are not a good mix, you don't even have a woman in your hometown!", I awkwardly changed the topic and replied: "There are in the family, and there are servants in the family, the old lady, the wife and the daughter." After a while, the girl who came in and stood in a row was alone and picked a random one to sit on the side and yell in the KTV, not long after, about half an hour or so, my buddy who had just "criticized me" The phone rang, and I sat on the side of my wife to check the gang, only to see him respectfully sitting on the sofa and saying: "I am singing with Xiao Zhao in ***KTV!". Because the younger siblings on the other end of the phone are very familiar to everyone, as soon as the other end of the phone heard that I was here, she immediately said that she was nearby and wanted to come over, and we also knew this routine: "Seeing me on the surface, in fact, it was a secret visit!", it is true that these young wives of the family learned a lot of "reconnaissance and counter-reconnaissance" methods in those days! After hanging up the phone, my brother looked at me with a blue face: "Wait a while, your brother and sister will come to check the post, my sister is your friend, you understand?!" "No problem, understand, girl, sit next to me!", he quickly retreated into the corner of the sofa.

"Oh, Mr. Zhao is now mixing well, hugging left and right, and getting two younger sisters", as soon as I entered the door, I heard the hearty ridicule of my younger brother and sister.

"En, yes, yes, it's rare to come back to fight the tooth sacrifice, low-key and low-key ......", I have to act a little bit, I caught a glimpse of the brother sitting in the corner secretly gave me a thumbs up, it really looks like the "Journey to the West" in the Bull Demon King's concubine, the iron fan notarization and the gang of the bridge, but there is no "Xiao Tiantian" in the back.

"Come, come, come, let's pay tribute to Mr. Zhao and toast to him in his hometown......!" In order to pretend to be more like, when his sister and second grandmother used my mobile phone to dial the number, I didn't even squeak, in this kind of entertainment I have always mastered the three principles: don't give a phone number, don't want other people's phone numbers, and go home at the end of the show to make a variety of appointments! After returning home at the end of the show, I received a text message from him: Thank you for saving the scene! The next morning, his "professional sister" also inexplicably called me to care about me.

It didn't take long for this thing to happen, and I don't know what his wife's will was, the couple proposed to come to Kunshan to have fun, and brought two other pairs of friends and couples, one is a couple who are policemen, and the other is a husband and wife who are lawyers, plus we are a total of eight people, and after dinner, they went directly to the KTV upstairs of the hotel to sing in the bread box. Because we are all husband and wife, so there is only one princess in the private room of the K room who is responsible for ordering songs, a happy plus a little more wine, I actually took advantage of them when they were singing, stood up and put his arm around the princess's waist and danced in the private room, in fact, I don't know how to dance, that is, pretending to be blind and swaying, when I swayed and turned around, I found that the brothers and their wives on the sofa were so surprised that their mouths opened widely, like "Jiupin Sesame Official" When the son of the tuberculosis ghost of the profiteer and Xiaolian got married in the cave room, Lord Bao fantasized about the scene of Xiaolian opening her mouth after marrying him, and they couldn't believe that I dared to put my arms around the princess's waist in front of my wife, of course, my wife's face was not good-looking at the time, but she didn't make it very embarrassing on the spot, but after going home and closing the door, she sent a little flutter with me, and I still sincerely apologized to her:" Actually, you are here, I am like this, you are not present, I am also like this, but I promise not to deceive you, have you ever agreed with me the rules and regulations of the entertainment venue? No, all the rules for socializing in the entertainment venue are reported to you by myself, and I can guarantee to do it, please rest assured and believe me! Of course, I really shouldn't be in front of you, this kind of seemingly provocative action is indeed my fault, I apologize to you! And I promise that in the future, whether you are there or not, you will not make such mistakes again!"

In this way, when they thought that an inextricable crisis was about to befall me, I easily resolved it that night! I believe that she believes in me, just as I have always deserved her trust, and I believe in her! I have never deceived her in the course of my marriage! Never!!