Chapter 083: A Few Years
But saying this, the onlookers who looked at the dealer changed their eyes, and they were a little suspicious!
Father Zhuang was very annoyed, "Don't spray people with blood here! What are you talking about, you have to think about it first, whether it is right or not, whether it is wrong!"
"You don't know if you have money or not!" What does it mean to say this, it's clear that there is nothing to do!" Father Zhuang said, pointing at them.
After gossiping a few details, Ying's mother still buttoned her hat and said, "I just saw what you are, and if I found out, I would have been deceived!"
After some gossip.
Talking about what kind of blood certificate, this and that blood confession, DNA test and what, the atmosphere became more and more tense.
And the contradiction is getting deeper and deeper.
Because Ying's mother said that they were all suspicious of the situation, if the inspection report proved that there was no blood relationship, they would release the younger son, otherwise they would not let it go.
"Where can I get the inspection report with you, and it was originally my child's own, how can it be fake?" said Zhuang's mother very angrily.
"It's true that she was born to her, but it's not the same as if she was born to my son!"
The words were intense, and in the end, Zhuang's mother and Zhuang's father had to go over to beat people, and they were a little powerless to persuade them, and they "stuck together" if they didn't pay attention.
Then, someone from the crowd called the neighborhood committee and the village chief.
Then they chatted and helped explain the situation.
It is advisable to reconcile privately.
Because Zhuang's parents don't want to make a big deal about it, no matter what, they are embarrassed, after all, they haven't got the certificate yet, and they are so young, only 19 children, before 15, they followed Ying Hanchu, and spread it out, which is somewhat bad for Zhuang Ya's reputation.
That's more people making jokes.
So I originally said to let the relatives of the Zhuang family come together, but in fact, in fact, no, after all, others are not willing, this is far away, how to ask for leave, come over, there are things, the place is also remote, Zhuang's father does not want too many people to know, so think about it, it is also a closer relative, know a little about the situation.
It's better to deal with this kind of thing by yourself!
If you make trouble at the police station, it's not good-looking.
And Ying's mother doesn't want to be known to everyone.
So, in the end, they mediated privately, asked Zhuang Ya's opinion, and the two sides discussed.
In the end, the eldest daughter was handed over to Zhuang Ya because she had to go to kindergarten.
Therefore, Zhuang Ya and Ying Hanchu rented a house near the school, Zhuang Ya is almost the same as before, that is, to pick up the children after work, and Ying Hanchu to pick up the children after overtime, but the handling of big and small things at home is still Zhuang Ya.
And what I promised is that in a few years, when I reach the age, I can get the certificate, and I will get the certificate.
And the mother-in-law is in her hometown with her young son.
As for the DNA that was also done, Ying's mother didn't believe it, so she deliberately took the child to the relevant institutions in private to get the results again.
Otherwise, you won't be able to break your mind.
So Ying's mother had no choice but to talk to Gong Hanxu, the woman who was born infertile, that is, Zhuang Ya called once, and the woman who heard the voice was she, originally intended, to keep the child, and then let her son Ying Hanchu marry Gong Hanxu, and suddenly they would not all sneak away.
But things are well-known in the countryside, and naturally it's not good to let others in the door anymore, so it doesn't matter if you want to or not.
Within a few years, when he reached the age, he got the certificate together and went to see his mother.
At the same time, the only drink was also placed, which was equal to the child, and the youngest son's two-year-old banquet was attended by the banquet, which can be regarded as an indirect recognition of identity.
The mother, the identity of the youngest son's mother, and the identity of the daughter-in-law of the Ying family.
When the youngest son was one year old, he didn't invite Zhuang Ya, and the banquet was held, but there was no Zhuang Ya, and other related people had it.
It is equivalent to when the youngest son was two years old, he took the family members and relatives of the Ying family to meet with him, just toasting and saying a few words.
But for Zhuang Ya, it can be regarded as bittersweet.
She felt like everything was going to be fine.
The eldest daughter is also five years old, and everything seems to be going in a good direction.
But the truth is not.
Outsiders, as well as others, look fine.
Even Zhuang's mother thinks that the child is doing okay now!
But the hardships of life, a little hard behind the scenes, only they know.
What others see is only superficial, actual, and only they understand.
Looking at the reality, there are chicken feathers.
Because it may be that the more time passes, the more obvious the contradictions in those lives become.
Ying Hanchu still doesn't take care of the big boy very much, all kinds of dislikes, Zhuang Ya can only knock out her teeth and swallow it in her stomach many times.
Tell yourself that everything is okay, it's okay, it's going to pass.
also told others that he was doing well, but no matter how hard he tried, it seemed that he was just secretly competing.
And the older the child, the occasional temper tantrums and disobedience break the harmony in the family.
Because, Ying Hanchu hasn't changed those habits of chatting about SAO.
was even "caught" by Zhuang Ya again to get the evidence.
On that day, Zhuang Ya had a rare rest, and wanted to stay with Ying Hanchu and rest well, but it backfired.
That day, they had another big argument.
Zhuang Ya asked helplessly, "Please, please, what do you want next time, wipe your mouth clean, don't show so many horses' feet!"
There's a song called "You smell of her perfume!"
And when Zhuang Ya inadvertently washed clothes, she saw that there were one or two strands of hair on Ying Hanchu's clothes, and the color and length were obviously different from her own.
In order to cope with the cold season, Zhuang Ya had already compromised enough, and dyed her hair several times, basically dyeing the color of the compartment.
thought that if he changed his hairstyle, style, and color, he would have more favor for himself at the beginning of the year, but in fact, he didn't.
Not really.
It's like I've always been reluctantly strong.
And he was easily hit all over his body.
Zhuang Ya asked Ying Hanchu, "Next time, next time, can you, can you, don't be like this when I'm a fool, if you care about my feelings, you just go home and wipe off all the 'evidence', I don't want to look at your phone like crazy again, and then want to know your secret, I'm tired, tired, really tired!"
Ying Hanchu looked very indifferent and didn't speak, but his expression was disdainful.
"Are you talking, talking, dumb?" Zhuang Ya held a pillow and hit Ying Hanchu.
But it didn't hit a few times.
Ying Hanchu said impatiently, "There is no end, there is no end, all day and night are those things, you will only do this, and you will not look at your virtue, just like a pig, I don't bother to pay attention to you!"
"Yes, I'm like a pig, postpartum obesity, I can't help it, even if I'm tired, a few years, I'm still fat, and I'm still meaty, hum, it's ridiculous, I spend hundreds, apply this and that, but you haven't looked at me, look at me, don't want to!" Zhuang Ya was very sad.
"Look at you, hum, alas, if it weren't for the child, you would be so ruthless, thinking that I would like to stay with you, really, I don't know what others say about you at home (hometown)!
"Hmph...... Watching TV, watching games, anyway, you're always busy, always busy, but in the past few years, how have you ever helped me and my children, washed clothes, washed dishes, cooked, have you had?" Zhuang Ya asked.
"Alas, I don't want to tell you, are you still addicted?" Ying Hanchu rolled his eyes and didn't want to pay attention to her.
At that moment, Zhuang Ya said hysterically, "I can't love it, but tomorrow, we will leave, we will leave!"
"If you want to leave, you can leave, what you said, don't regret it, it happened as a sister!" Ying Hanchu stood up and said.
"Leave and leave!What's the big deal!" Zhuang Ya swore and said, "I'll go tomorrow, I'll go tomorrow!"
"Tomorrow, Saturday, no one else will handle it, you will give yourself a way back, if it is really not just thunder and no rain, after two days, go early in the morning, Monday, (Civil Affairs Bureau) will go as soon as the door opens, go as soon as the door opens!"
"Go and go, whoever doesn't go is a puppy!" Zhuang Ya said very firmly.
......
On the same day, the child went home, got everything, and lay in bed alone, it was late at night.
Thinking about it, the rare rest, still did not relax for a moment.
is still in the unit, others say that she wants money and does not die, and does not rest, and works overtime.
She was embarrassed to say that she was resting, but in exchange, she couldn't sleep all night.
She listened to the child's breathing, and listened to Ying Hanchu in the next room chatting with the little girl unscrupulously, but she couldn't say the feeling in her heart.
"When, when did it start, he has become more and more unscrupulous, before, he was still sneaky, discovered, and would swear, apologize, write a guarantee, and later, slowly it didn't matter, even casually, not shy away, after a quarrel, he would deliberately amplify the voice of the chat, say!"
"How can I be mixed like this, mixed like this! Even now, it's the same little Hello, but it's the little Hello in the unit, but I'm still desperately tired to death, and I'm still dying hard, but I still don't be understood, what is the point of me doing this, what is the point of doing this, what is the point!"
Zhuang Ya understands that the joy at the moment when she receives the certificate, but she can't resist it, and after getting along for a year, she wants to get rid of divorce.
It turned out that when she had the opportunity to walk and keep walking, she always felt that Ying Hanchu was his way, and she had no other way.
And the joy at the moment when I received the certificate soon turned into a more chicken feather in life.
Whether, in order to prove, she wants to get a certificate.
I want to get by.
Want to be together.
I want to be together all the time.
I didn't think of anything else.
However, it has only been a year now, but there is no number of impulses to divorce.
At this time, she realized that Zhuang's mother's words, "Still, it's not that you don't have a choice, it's you, yourself, it's blocking the road, it's blocked, you know, you know? It's you who blocked all the roads, everything, in fact, you deserve it, it's not that your mother wants to say this about you, it's really disappointing!
Yes, after that trouble, Zhuang Ya still chose to live with Ying's mother's family, and after choosing to be with Ying Hanchu, Zhuang Ya's parents were completely disappointed, and after talking all night, they didn't want to come and go.
Although they still came to the banquet when the child was two years old, Zhuang Ya knew that she and her parents were already far away, far away.
But she was unwilling in her heart, and she didn't want to give up her child like this, she was afraid, afraid that she would be ridiculed as a single mother.
No matter what, there is still a man together, how much, better than one!
Zhuang Ya thought so.
She didn't want to, she went home at the age of fifteen, and she was ridiculed after she went home, and she was always there, like a shadow, and never left.
She always wanted to prove something.
Ask yourself,
Ask God.
I have already suffered more grievances and hardships, no more, God, how can it be possible, not to let myself be a little better in the future, a little better!
But she forgot, just like what flowers bloom and what fruits, what seeds are planted, and what beans are obtained.
Zhuang Ya is not suitable for people, and things have spent most of her youth, but she doesn't know it.
Just to understand, to know, to work hard, according to the will of God.
Providence can also be man-made.
That night, Zhuang Ya thought back to everything and asked herself, "This time, this time, really, really, is it really leaving?"
She still didn't have the courage to do it.
But thinking back on everything, Zhuang Ya thought, why don't you also free yourself......
But hesitated.
Silently, I don't know what I'm thinking, I'm thinking a lot, and I'm thinking chaotically.
What she thought about more was the day she received the certificate.
As if she had won, she called and told everyone she knew, Xu Yu, her parents, friends, etc.
Those who knew something, she called to announce it.
Naturally, there are those who want them to participate.
Except for her parents, she didn't really care too much about whether others came or not.
Her original intention, to tell everyone, was that she was married and married.
Not a random person, nor is it a person whose children don't have a father.
She can now say openly that this man is her husband, and she can call "Dad" openly and openly by ordering children by herself
She herself can openly introduce her husband without the slightest weakness.
Like a slip of the tongue, especially when I quarreled with my mother and, when chatting with others, I called my husband, and then I was slapped in the face.
She hated the way people looked at her.
There seems to be some kind of competition in her heart.
Because the kind of hope that is not recognized is decent.
This is something that no one can understand.
Because, too often, at the beginning of her memory, she failed the junior high school exam at the age of fifteen, went home to the back, and was more slanderous, she had enough of it, she always thought at that time, she must, must, marry this man, in his lifetime, get married, and have no regrets.
Therefore, after receiving the certificate, she went out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, holding a red notebook, and what she said was, "In the future, I will rely on you! You will never be able to escape, you will never be able to escape!"
Yes, those are her inner words, from the child to the child, etc., she really wants to tie this erratic person with all methods, even if she changes her heart, even if she no longer loves herself.
But when people are there, there is hope, and she believes that after a long time, she can trap him, tie him up, and not love others.
Only love herself, that's what she's waiting for.
So at that moment she seemed to be victorious, and she couldn't be happy.
And Ying Hanchu's subsequent eyes and words also showed that in fact, her thoughts were really wrong, very wrong.
Ying Hanchu said afterwards!