Some people are gone but have been living in people's hearts, and some people are alive but the same as gone!

In order to save some energy and time when the house is decorated, I deliberately took my carpentry cousin and painter cousin to Kunshan to help me decorate, I can do it myself, I don't have to worry about it at all, some I don't understand the place, my brothers will also help me design and implement it, the only regret is that they work hard in the unrenovated house will eat and live, because the house we usually rent is a little far away from this house, they feel that it is not very convenient to rush over to eat and simply cook some vegetables in the room to eat, you want to pull them to a nearby restaurant to get together, they are not willing to live or die, try their best to save money for youOnly on the weekend will they be invited to the rented house to gather and talk, so usually I usually buy some braised vegetables and two bottles of wine every day, and accompany my brothers to eat and drink in the renovation site at night, after all, for my youngest cousin, they are so reluctant to seek the near and far, Leaving my wife to come to Kunshan to help me, they don't have time to do their own work, I just want to make up for it as much as possible so that they don't eat too bad and too lonely, my cousin in order to complete my decoration as soon as possible, specially invited two carpentry masters from his hometown to come over to help, and accompany them to drink a little wine in the decorated room at night.

"My brother came to Kunshan alone step by step, and it is not easy to break through such a big career steadily; this is the only son of my fourth uncle, if it wasn't for my fourth uncle to help our brothers, we didn't even have the money to marry a wife, so my brother's decoration matter, I agreed to it!", the carpentry cousin first opened the conversation clip.

"Your uncle, our whole town knows very well, the person is very nice, very kind and easy-going, skilled and superb, seeing the suffering of the common people's families, he does not even charge medical fees, free treatment of sick piglets to the common people, is really a good man! It's just a pity ......," the carpenter who helped echoed on the side.

"Yes, my fourth uncle is the only respected elder in the family, and he will listen to the whole family, and he will only obey him, and after he leaves, there will be no soul cohesion, hey......", the carpentry cousin added on the side.

"I didn't expect my father to be talked about four years later, on behalf of my father, I thank all my brothers for their recognition and appreciation, and I would like to give you a cup!", I was very excited, I didn't expect my father's personality charm to be so high during his lifetime!

"When my fourth uncle left, our four nephews stayed up all night every day, and this was the unanimous decision of our four nephews without complaint!", the cousin turned to the helper's master and said.

"Yes, I really appreciate my brothers' help and help, and my father even gave me a dream, saying that my brothers' cigarettes at night are ......gone!", the past scenes came to my mind, under the influence of alcohol, my eyes were already full of tears of missing him, and I endured it to prevent it from flowing out, not to let it be discovered......

After the carpenter's cousin finished all the carpentry work, I arranged for a truck to help him load all the equipment onto the truck and deliver it to his home, and soon after, when my cousin, who was a painter, came over with his cousin, I also did as much logistics as possible like the carpenter's brother, and when it was time to get the rented house on the weekend to improve the food.

"It's not my fourth uncle and fourth aunt, I can't even marry a wife, the family is desperately poor, her family refuses to marry, the fourth uncle and fourth aunt try to lobby my father-in-law and mother-in-law, and promise that they will help us build a good house, forced your parents to borrow 20,000 yuan to renovate the house and rebuild it into a brick building, and the father-in-law and mother-in-law agreed to this marriage!", my cousin told me about the bitter past that no one knew about him.

"There are so many things, no wonder Cousin Carpenter talked about keeping a wake-up for Daddy all night last month!", I deliberately directed the topic to what Cousin Carpenter once said.

"This is the highest courtesy treatment that our four nephews give to your father, thank you for the efforts and dedication that the fourth uncle has done for the old and young in this family before his death, it is not that when every elder in the family leaves, we will keep the spirit all night in a row! He is really good......", he was a little excited, and after speaking, he took a sip of wine from his glass,

"The second uncle has always liked to bully the third uncle who is a little disabled, and always quarrels with the third uncle, and we juniors can't persuade or say anything, as long as we call your father, no matter how busy he is, he will immediately rush to the country house to mediate and reconcile the conflicts between the brothers, and the second uncle and the third uncle basically have to quarrel every few months! No one can persuade him, only your father can do it!", said the youngest son of the eldest uncle, who lives between the second and third uncles.

The heavenly brother talked about her fourth uncle like a treasure, and unconsciously got drunk, and he could see that he was very happy......

It turns out that my father had a lot of things to tell me before his death, and he didn't tell me all of them, no wonder he kept telling me before his death: you must always remember, don't take the help you give to others, but you must always remember to repay others for the help you give you......

What is the greatest gain in life? That is, you use the huge spiritual wealth inherited from your fathers, and use love, responsibility and responsibility to support a blue sky, a warm harbor, and a light boat that can sail far away for your loved ones......

"I now consider you my family!" , she suddenly burst out with a cold word;

"Uh......",

"What are you talking about, isn't that good?!", she seemed a little dissatisfied with my answer;

"Well, no, no, I'm impressed, but I'm just thinking about who I was in the last 16 years?", I teased myself.

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I hope you can always know: I have never forgotten my original intention, and I hope you can understand: to be able to satisfy you is the spiritual wealth inherited by my father is supporting and supporting, and I hope to be able to work with you to take care of our parents together, and pass on good family style and family education to our next generation!

There is no you in the story, but there is a person who is working hard like you, and I would like to use this document to give everyone who is working hard for the family, no matter how bumpy and difficult the road ahead, no matter how much sweat and tears are shed on the road ahead, the outstanding figure who never forgets the original intention!