Actually, Xu Yuben thought so.

She had such opinions about cohabitation with others before, and she said her thoughts when she reprinted it.

Because she always felt that doing so was not suitable for Chinese people, and it was also very bad for women.

Too many people think that they feel happiness in advance, but more often than not, it is actually risky.

Xu Meng didn't speak, and even felt some anger.

Xu Yu thought about it and said, "I don't mean anything else, the people next to me, there is such a situation, but what I hear is sad and I don't want to live like that, I can't help it, I have expressed such a concept, and there are regrets and other thoughts, after all, if I live again, if it's not that person, how much do I mind, although I can't say the specifics, but this is definitely not very good, it feels like this!"

After chatting, Xu Yu asked Zhuang Ya about the situation, Zhuang Ya said that she was so tired that she would wash up and fall asleep later, but she always wanted to cry inexplicably and didn't want to move.

It's just that there are so many things going on today, no one can imagine her disappointment and that kind of hard work.

After a long journey, it was the result of that, and he was still treated as a junior, he was originally in the main palace, but at that moment, he seemed to have become a supporting role, so he was scolded and put in a position.

The grievances and expectations I have suffered cannot be expressed in words.

Maybe the tears seem too weak at this time, but there is no way to do it.

It's a poignant feeling.

All happiness is sadness, anger, and helplessness at this time......

After she said a little, she said that she should go back like this, but she felt that there was no way to escape, and there was no way back.

Because, no matter how head-on the conflict is, she doesn't know if she can win, but looking at the current situation, it is estimated that there is no hope, and if she does not fight, she is unwilling.

How to fight?

Xu Yu smiled bitterly.

Sending messages says a lot.

But the main meaning is simple.

It's already such a big deal, but you must tell your parents that first, they can come up with ideas, and second, in this case, there is more or less support from their parents, and the situation is better, and secondly, in this case, their children can at least be placed first.

"Do you want to be like this, take your daughter there to *tear *tear**, no matter what, what the result is, it's good for the child, the adults still have to be distracted, and it's appropriate to run around with the child like this?"

Xu Yu told the truth, but Zhuang Ya did not reply.

Obviously should be thinking.

After a while, she said that if she said this, wouldn't her current situation be *exposed!?

So she doesn't know how to face her parents!

Zhuang Ya still felt a little in her heart, just like a person who once threatened to show his family and those who looked down on him his ability, and impressed them with his ability, he could.

It is this unwillingness that has supported them to the present.

Otherwise, it wouldn't be like this.

Zhuang Ya wants to support herself, and she doesn't want to admit that she really can't do it, so that more people feel that they can't actually support the wall with mud!

She didn't want that, maybe it was more because she felt that she looked down on herself!

This kind of entanglement, and in the end, it still proves the opinion of her parents and others, Zhuang Ya feels that the stage is cumbersome and too tired......

Let's talk, Zhuang Yashuo, think for yourself......

Xu Yu said, her own opinion, and also expressed her hope that she would think about it more, no matter how it is her own parents, think about it before they came to see it, and wanted to take care of their granddaughter.

Zhuang Ya just said silently, "I think about giving birth to a son as I wish this time, I feel, I feel, I should, I should turn the tables, I should be happy, just a little bit!"

Maybe it's like a *gambler*, she didn't even get the bottom money, and she lost all the capital, but she just expected to keep adding weights, and then she could take everything she had, along with the previous ones.

Xu Yu could imagine that before that, every time he encountered something or a contradiction, Ying Hanchu would use one reason or another.

Before, I didn't have children, and then because my mother-in-law didn't like girls, etc., and then I expressed the idea of having a boy.

Then he said step by step, and unconsciously, Zhuang Ya always thought that he had come to this step, this step, like a person being guided by others, said a little, a little.

As long as she works hard, a little harder, and then she can row to the shore and reach her destination, that is, she can be happy.

But what she didn't expect was that she thought it was rowing together to make the other side, but in fact, it was just her carrying the weight all along.

She has been waiting for her, and then she has been boiling, and others have actually jumped ship, but they have been telling her that hope is ahead, ahead.

Xu Yu also asked, and asked Zhuang Ya to contact Ying Hanchu, but it is estimated that there is no play, it is already like this, it is estimated that there is a gang.

At that time, she always felt that he had no choice, and thought, there was no way to do this, but after he dodged today, he still said that he acquiesced to his mother-in-law's approach, and his attitude was very clear.

But Zhuang Ya didn't give up, she still asked Ying Hanchu, called several times, and finally *passed*, but the other party said that he didn't want to say this, and also said not to call again, and destroy his family again.

No one knows how it feels to say that even the person you like says that.

The future she once hoped for, and the life with those beautiful memories, how did it become like this, this is what Zhuang Ya has never figured out, and she can't understand it.

Xu Yu thought, this kind of thought is estimated to be similar to the current Xu Meng, because they all feel impossible, they have paid so much, why, the other woman, whether it is Gong Hanxu or Tong Yao, it is still like a scar in their hearts.

It's even more unexpected, a sudden person, why did he say that he said that for her, there is no prefix, the previous story, I'm afraid that someone else will see her holding a child and standing at the door of someone else's house today, and those who don't know why will feel wondered, and even have a feeling that Zhuang Ya is actually really destroying other people's families?

Xu Meng too, I can't figure it out, and even, I feel jealous in my heart, that Tong Yao hasn't had anything to do with Ying Hanchu, but at the last moment, he is still a friend of Ying Hanchu's parents, and then, when he heard such words, he was kicked out.

The feeling that I was already tired, and I lost my child's loss, and I was helpless, and I thought that I could lose all my expectations.

Maybe it's even more desperate......

What kind of goddess is Tong Yao, that is also a person who has nothing to do with Ying Hanchu, how can she judge herself out before she appears.

Maybe there are some disappointments and pains, which can't be compared.

But it's already like this, I can only accept it!

But they all think, just in case, in case, they still want to try, try, maybe turn the situation around.

Xu Yu persuaded Zhuang Ya and wanted to fight at the same time.

Turned his head to look at Xu Meng.

She remembered the day she almost drowned, her happy smile, her rare happiness.

Xu Yu was a little skeptical that she had inadvertently connected with Min Xingchen, or that the supermarket or the neighborhood was their street code.

Otherwise, Xu Meng was suddenly so happy, he felt that there was no warning, and he was worried until then.

Xu Yu thought about it, and even thought that during this time, Xu Meng's changes from time to time, Xu Yu felt that it was inseparable from Min Xingchen.

So Xu Yu was meaningful, and said, "What about you, seeing her like this now, do you think, in fact, many things are really not good, think about it, in fact, I really don't understand, why, whether you are good or she, it doesn't make sense, ...... before"

Xu Meng didn't want to pay attention to it, turned over and pretended to sleep.

(1. Analysis)

Xu Yu also felt a little speechless, for such a thing, maybe a lot of education is really missing.

No one told them what to do when they encountered feelings, how to solve them, how to deal with them, how to deal with them?

What is right, how is it bad, and what attitude and opinion should be used to face it.

None of them.

Just like Xu Yu felt later, it really is, many transactions are like that xing* education, many parents are not conscious, let alone have no concept.

They think that their children will understand a lot one day, but it is true, one day they will understand, but who is the one who makes them understand?

Classmates, teachers, colleagues......

Wait a minute.

It's hard to imagine.

If you don't tell your child a lot of concepts, then it will be difficult for children to understand, and even when they encounter it, and wait for many years to know that it is wrong, and others can't do that, etc., but some injuries have invaded the bone marrow, even if you pursue and judge the case after the age of eighteen, it is difficult to carry out, and some people may have already run away if they are hurt......

A lot of difficulty, as well as inconvenience.

Girls should protect themselves, and boys should learn to respect girls, but not many parents in families tell them, which is a sad thing.

(2) Reality)

Straight to the point.

The most important thing is to stop the loss in time for such a situation.

Xu Yu said, "In two days, let's go to work, it's okay, (the injury on the face) shouldn't be too obvious, whatever, wearing long sleeves, it's about the same!"

Xu Yu looked at the wound on Xu Meng's face and said.

"No, I'll have something to do in two days!

Xu Meng's mouth suddenly spoke, and suddenly Xu Yu was about to talk, "What's the matter with you, in two days?"

As soon as he said this, Xu Meng also felt as if he had leaked his mouth, "It's nothing, it's nothing, I'm not going anyway!"

Xu Yu felt that he stammered like this and hurriedly loosened his mouth, Xu Yu felt that something was wrong.

asked several times in a row, but Xu Meng never answered.

Xu Yu sighed, thinking of something.

silently sent a message to Han Ziyan.

On QQ, Xu Yu said his thoughts, and felt that Xu Meng had his own ideas, and probably wanted to meet that person, Xu Yu felt speechless, didn't know what to do, how to persuade him?

I feel like I don't know what to do!

Han Ziyan asked, "Why are you worried, shouldn't your parents worry about this problem?"

Xu Yu didn't know how to answer, so she wanted to answer, "Anyway, it's my sister, is there a problem to push to the family?"

"No, I feel that the order is wrong! I always feel that something is wrong?"

Then he continued to answer, "She is the child of your parents, and some words, sure your parents say, are more convincing, and you yourself are not good to participate too much, after all, what is it like to stand up for your sister, and ask these personal questions, if you are by your parents' side, it is better to solve it......"

Then Han Ziyan also expressed her understanding and said, "However, you and your sister should talk better, and it is more resonant to say this, right?"

But Xu Yu didn't know how to answer, and only typed three words: "Maybe......!"

But Xu Yu knew that everything seemed so disobedient.

Because no one can imagine that in fact, the father has already given up on his daughter, maybe when she made him completely faceless, and dragged the school family affairs to the school affairs, and was already angry there, all the family ties seemed to be broken at that moment.

Maybe Xu Meng is too disappointing......

And now Xu Meng is still obsessed, how do parents accept it, and what do they expect......

Xu Yu felt that if her parents knew, it was estimated that the relationship between her and her sister would be more estranged.

That time, because I was unintentional, I couldn't help it, in order to find Xu Meng, I was afraid that she would do something stupid, so I told Xu Tianming a little thing about her, and Xu Meng still holds a grudge!

If she betrayed Xu Meng again this time, she thought her relationship with Xu Meng would be even more precarious......

Alas......

It goes without saying.

For Xu Tianming, these things can't be said, even if they are persuaded again, it is impossible to say that she is not dead, doesn't that push her into the fire pit even more?

It's just a wound!

And she can't be completely sure about this, whether she still has plans in two days, it's hard to say......

If you make a mistake, it's even worse, if Xu Meng has this mind, it's not good.

The second is another one in the family, Zhao Xiaohui, even if she has a heart, she has always had it, but she can't do it, and it's difficult to say anything.

Xu Yu felt that he was a little powerless to persuade such a thing, and suddenly felt that he was so tired, and there were many things, which were very cumbersome.

I was even a little glad that I didn't completely fall into the emotional whirlpool.

Otherwise, Xu Yu didn't know how to face such a thing!

(3. Reality)

Just thinking about it.

Zhuang Ya sent a message.

She greeted the child well, before she began to wash herself, busy with her own business, before the washing began, the child woke up again and felt so tired.

She was typing and talking to Xu Yu, and with the other hand, she had to pat the little guy's body from time to time, shaking it like that, or holding it.

She felt so tired, so tired.

I can't get a good rest for a moment.

Xu Yu asked, "Child, you should have gone to bed early, I used to see that my relatives' children went to bed early......!

Zhuang Ya said, "That's right, but today she was running around, she fell asleep in the car, but there is nothing sleepy at the moment, and maybe because it is outside, she has no sense of security, always crying, she has tried several times, it is difficult to leave, I feel so tired, so tired, I have to hold the child to the toilet, my heart is so sore!"

Maybe what he experienced in front of him, plus the events of the day, Xu Yu could feel that Zhuang Ya was about to collapse......