(17) Trying to solve a problem
As soon as he mentioned this, Su Mu felt angry. And Ling Feng was really tired of Su Mu always mentioning these things, and his attitude gradually became unfriendly.
"You're not finished, why is this just a lie?"
"No, you don't admit it now, do you? You don't remember any of the things that lied to me before?"
As soon as Su Mu saw Ling Feng's attitude, his anger became even greater, and he directly transferred the contradiction to this matter. Ling Feng was not convinced, and also began to argue with Su Mu, if it wasn't for his mother calling him later, the phone rang too loudly and lasted too long, making Su Mu panic, and the two of them might not know how long they would quarrel.
"Either you pick it up quickly, or you hang it up and let it ring all the time, isn't it annoying?"
Su Mu took Ling Feng's mobile phone and threw it in front of Ling Feng, and as soon as Ling Feng saw the caller ID, he threw the phone back again.
"Can I answer my mother's phone? I didn't even think about what to say or what to answer. ”
"What didn't you think about, you took a graduation photo and didn't look at your phone. If she asks if you and I'm not together, you say it's okay if you're not together, and besides, you're already here at your school, what are you worried about?"
"Why should I say I'm not with you? I'm with you, why can't I say that?"
"I ask you not to be as willful as a child, saying these words at this time, are you afraid that your mother's impression of me will change for the better and let her change back?"
"These are all the words you said when you taught me before, why can't you implement them when you come to this?"
When Ling Feng said this, he could almost be regarded as angry, and the way he yelled at Su Mu completely subverted Su Mu's cognition. She looked at Ling Feng in disbelief, she couldn't believe it at all, this was the gentle man she knew, and for a moment, she suddenly had a feeling of wanting to run away from him immediately.
In the process of falling in love, Su Mu always maintained a very strange calmness, no matter how hysterical she was, in Ling Feng's eyes, no matter how irrational she was, but in her own brain, there was always a strange instruction running. She would analyze Ling Feng's every word, every action, and even every expression, and even if she couldn't figure out what she was thinking, she would guess Ling Feng's next move.
Whenever he thought of these things, Su Mu would feel very terrifying. This feeling is not only like a sign that she is not fully committed to this relationship, but also like a sign that she has some problems in some aspects. Maybe the more sensitive people are, the more so, Su Mu is especially afraid of finding out that she has something different from others, if she finds out, she will immediately go crazy to cover up this matter.
Not only the shortcomings, even the advantages, Su Mu will feel very afraid of being discovered, she has no way to accept the praise of others calmly, because in her heart, she has a lot of bad things, she is afraid that after her little bit is discovered, everyone will focus on her, and then they will find those shortcomings in her, as well as those secrets that she doesn't want others to know.
These symptoms had already been revealed a long time ago, but at that time, Su Mu didn't understand anything, so she didn't care, if it wasn't for discovering so many things with Ling Feng, she wouldn't have paid attention to this matter anymore, and similarly, if it wasn't for this matter as a foreshadowing, she wouldn't have thought of going to do a psychological evaluation.
In fact, blaming the reasons for these things on Ling Feng was not fair to Ling Feng. Because long ago, Su Mu had these hidden dangers, but it was just because of Ling Feng's existence that these problems broke out.
Even without Ling Feng's existence, these problems would never erupt.
After Ling Feng finished yelling, the two of them didn't say a word for a long time, let alone how to deal with this matter, and the parents of the two families gave up the phone call very tacitly, and they never made a phone call until dinner in the evening.
Things seemed to calm down all of a sudden.
However, this calm is like a sign of an impending storm, which makes people panic. Su Mu really couldn't stand this feeling, so he took the lead and said:
"Why don't you want to tell this lie?"
"Then why did you lie to your family after asking me?"
I don't know what kind of attitude Ling Feng has now, but after Su Mu heard this, she knew that Ling Feng's attitude had softened at this time, as long as she said a few more good words, the two of them would be able to reconcile. And after the reconciliation, they have a long time to explain the problem.
But Su Mu was in a hurry, and if something went wrong, he wanted to solve it immediately, without thinking about what the situation was like at that time.
It was precisely because of this that the problems between Su Mu and Ling Feng would accumulate more and more, even if the theme that caused the quarrel was understood this time, then what was caused in this process would be repeated in the next quarrel, and sometimes it might be repeated many times later. Therefore, there were always new issues to quarrel between the two of them, which directly led to the change in the relationship between Ling Feng and Su Mu, which became more and more difficult for both of them to accept.
Of course, Su Mu was not the only one who discovered this problem, Ling Feng also knew that the two of them were not in the right state, and even he knew that every time he was dealing with a problem, he was very excited, and there was no way to calm down and discuss the problem with Su Mu seriously. He also thought about changing, but he really couldn't control himself, and even sometimes he felt that this matter was obviously something Su Mu did wrong, but when Su Mu insisted on finding problems from him, he would feel particularly disgusted.
Even if Su Mu can completely prove it in the end, the mistake exists in him.
If Su Mu knew that Ling Feng thought like this, then the two of them would have to quarrel now.
When it was getting dark outside, Su Mu's stomach suddenly screamed, after all, she should have not eaten for a whole day, at this moment, even if the noise was terrible, she wanted to stop and order a dinner immediately, and this side was more familiar to Ling Feng, so she had to return her attention to Ling Feng.
"Hey, what do you want to eat at night? Have you figured it out? I'm a little hungry. ”
"I don't want to eat, if you want to eat, you can order your own takeout. ”
Su Mu started this in the spirit of reconciliation, not just because she was hungry, but as a result, Ling Feng didn't seem to hear the meaning of her words at all, and his attitude towards her was still very bad, so Su Mu naturally couldn't get used to him, so he opened Meituan very cooperatively, found a store that he had booked before, and ordered it again.
The waiting time was always difficult, and during this waiting, Ling Feng finally felt that he was also a little hungry, but he had already looked like this to Su Mu before, and he was embarrassed to say anything, so he had to silently turn over the Meituan again.
Su Mu had long known that he might do this, so when she found out that he was looking through Meituan, she said to him with great disdain:
"I've already ordered rice noodles, I'll bring your share, so you don't have to look at it anymore. ”
Although he really wanted to have the backbone to tell Su Mu that even if she ordered it, he would order another one and resolutely not eat hers, but the thrifty character in his bones played a great role here, so he honestly put down the phone.
After seeing Ling Feng's action, Su Mu couldn't help but want to laugh a little, then she raised her eyes and looked at Ling Feng, and the two of them looked at each other and laughed, and then Su Mu didn't say anything more to Ling Feng, so she went straight into his arms.
"Eh, you see, if the two of us can always be like this, even if we quarrel, we won't separate, and if we have a conflict, we can quickly reconcile, do you say that this is better than not quarreling for the rest of your life. ”
"Besides, look at you, if it weren't for you, the two of us wouldn't have gotten to this point. Why did you say you were lying?"
Ling Feng tried to use Su Mu's tone to talk to Su Mu, let her experience his usual feelings, and at the same time vent his dissatisfaction with this matter. However, Su Mu ignored him at all, and directly began to teach Ling Feng like a grade director.
"It's really not me who says, every time you have a problem, you are very excited, you don't listen to explanations, and you want to quarrel as soon as you come up. And I've told you many times, I don't like it, but you always have to do it. If you can't solve the problem at the source, then you say it's always like this, can we get along with each other?"
Maybe it was because hunger made it easier for people to concentrate on thinking about problems, so when Su Mu said these questions, Ling Feng didn't refute her for the first time, but seriously considered these things in her words.
In this way, the two of them began to be silent again, each thinking about the problems in their hearts, and when the takeaway arrived, the two of them returned to normal, eating and joking at the same time, as if it had never happened.
After finishing the meal, the two finally began to seriously discuss the issues that had not been discussed just now, how should they deal with the parents of the two families?
Ling Feng's attitude on this side can be regarded as very clear, because Ling Feng's mother has never been able to accept Su Mu, so no matter what Su Mu does, it is wrong in her eyes and should not be forgiven. Ling Feng was reluctant to accept this fact at first, feeling that it was unfair to his mother that Su Mu asked for leave like this, but after Su Mu gave him a few examples, he felt that what Su Mu said was indeed right, but if he looked at it with her identity, he would feel that it was understandable for her to think like this.
After all, no matter what she did, she was thinking from Ling Feng's point of view, and it was all towards Ling Feng. Although Su Mu was a little older than Ling Feng, she was not very comprehensive when she considered the problem, so if Su Mu was compared to Ling Feng's mother, it would still be a little worse. , especially in the handling of this matter.
Su Mu actually regretted that he had lied, but regretting it was completely useless at this time. And she really didn't want the two parents to know that she was here to find Ling Feng. So when Ling Feng put down his chopsticks, Su Mu couldn't wait to tell Ling Feng what he had just thought:
"Or you can say that my event has just ended, and then I know that you are fine, so I will come to you. ”
"This is too fake, isn't it, can you tell that we made it up at a glance?"
For Su Mu's explanation, even Ling Feng felt that it was very fake, let alone the parents. And this is exactly what they are worried about, after Su Mu finished speaking, it may only lead to a bigger war.
But apart from this, Su Mu couldn't think of anything else, and Ling Feng didn't speak, which made her feel very embarrassed. Later, Ling Feng thought about it carefully and thought about it, and decided to tell the truth to his mother from the beginning, and Su Mu didn't choose to stop him in the end.
The call was made in front of Su Mu, and when Ling Feng's mother knew about it, she didn't show much surprise, of course, there was really nothing to be surprised about, so she said to Ling Feng in a very ordinary tone to ask him to give Su Mu the phone.
Although he was still very apprehensive in his heart, Su Mu still chose to take the phone.
"Little girl, you listen to your aunt tell you, you may not know very well, but I know my son, you don't know that my son has really changed too much after being with you, he never lied before, and never talked back to me. Therefore, in my eyes, I can really know that he is lying when I hear the lies he made up. Sometimes I want to save some face for him, so I don't care, but he is not sensible, and you should be sensible when you are so old. ”
"You two, you really shouldn't develop like this, you see that there is so much age gap, I have met and talked to you before, so I still hope that you can think about it carefully, and break up while the relationship is not deep now, it is better than getting along for a longer time later, and the relationship is getting deeper and deeper and then breaking up, so that you can be less sad, are you right? Auntie didn't say anything, you must have had a boyfriend before, and you had the experience of breaking up, so you must also know that long pain is better than short pain. ”
To be honest, Ling Feng's mother actually didn't make any mistakes in this point of view, and the path she provided was the right choice for the two of them, so that the damage could be minimized, and the two of them would not be embarrassed to meet in the future.
But unfortunately, in this regard, Su Mu is the most unacceptable.