(13) How to run in if the three views are incompatible
After taking the medicine, she lay down for a while, and Su Mu felt a little more comfortable in her stomach, but at this time, she was already sleepy, and she didn't have much energy to care about those things related to Ling Feng anymore, so she simply closed her eyes and prepared to sleep.
In a daze, Su Mu didn't know how long she had been asleep, and when she opened her eyes again, the room was pitch black. Leduo had already fallen asleep, perhaps because she was tired of chatting, and her breathing was a little heavy. Su Mu felt very real when she heard this voice, and the feeling of panic when she just woke up gradually calmed down, and then she looked at her phone and found that it was only two o'clock, so she clicked on the message that Ling Feng sent her.
In fact, before picking up the phone, she had already guessed that if she went to bed so early, Ling Feng would definitely send her a message, but she was not sure whether Ling Feng would send "What are you doing" or "Good night wife".
If he sent "What are you doing", it means that Ling Feng is the same as before, as if none of the previous things happened, just forget it, if it is "good night wife", it means that he is still angry, even if he is really sleepy and wants to sleep, he wants Su Mu to coax him a few more words.
This situation is so common that Su Mu can be completely sure that only these two situations will happen, and other than that, there is no other possibility. It's just that despite this, when she saw the sentence "What are you doing", Su Mu still felt a little lost.
She actually didn't like Ling Feng like this at all, every time she quarreled, all the things that caused the conflict were not resolved, and the two of them would start a cold war, and then when Su Mu was waiting for Ling Feng to coax her, Ling Feng would only be silent, and after a long time, he would start to act as if nothing had happened. It's not that Su Mu necessarily wants to get an answer, it's actually a normal thing that things are not resolved, because trying to reconcile two Rao's personalities and views on things is not something that can be successful overnight, Su Mu doesn't understand this truth. What she really cared about was just one of Ling Feng's attitudes.
Someone has talked to Su Mu, Ling Feng's approach is the same as many boys, in their opinion, this is already a way to show their own attitude, and at this time, if the girls don't give them the steps, then the girls are unreasonable, inconsiderate, and won't take care of their feelings. Su Mu did not deny this method, she also understood it, but understanding does not mean acceptance, when this happened to Su Mu, even if Su Mu knew that this was a manifestation of Ling Feng's weakness, she was unwilling to continue to accept it.
Not long ago, she also felt that two people had to adapt to each other when they were together, and if their personalities were incompatible, they would always improve if they ran in more, so when she had problems, in the end, even if she was sad, disappointed, and needed comfort, she would force herself to calm down her emotions, and then try to cooperate with Ling Feng, turn the page, and treat the matter as if it had been resolved. But this kind of thing happens from time to time, so often that Su Mu sometimes doesn't have enough time to comfort himself, so things pile up one by one, and all his patience is worn out, and as soon as the patience disappears, Su Mu begins to be unwilling to wronged himself and cater to Ling Feng. She began to try to maintain her needs and ideas, but perhaps because of the foundation of the conversation, Ling Feng always felt that as long as he was a little stronger and held on a little longer, Su Mu would definitely compromise, and the winner at that time would definitely be him.
In this case, there is really no point in discussing who is right and who is wrong. So Su Mu didn't want to fight for right or wrong at all, she just wanted to know why Ling Feng had become like this, and why she always wanted to win over her.
Competitiveness is a very ordinary personality, so ordinary that Su Mu often shows this. However, Su Mu would only leave this kind of character to strangers and the things she cared about, and never use it on Ling Feng's body, but Ling Feng seemed to leave all of this to Su Mu, and only when he was with her and playing games would he realize it like this.
If Su Mu told her other male friends about this, then maybe some of them would, and Ling Feng was able to compare her to a game, which proved that Su Mu was already very important to him. Su Mu didn't understand why these people had such a theory at all, and she didn't want to comment on whether this theory was right or wrong, she only knew that she couldn't accept this kind of "comparison". And at the same time she couldn't accept it, she didn't want to make any compromises for this, so just like that, Su Mu began to have a kind of idea, don't continue to talk about ideas if you don't agree with each other.
Su Mu felt that this was very normal, two people together, unless the three views were particularly compatible, or one party had a particularly good personality, or was willing to run in with each other for the sake of each other, the others were summed up in line with the principle of "strong melon is not sweet", and "I want to pick it if it is not sweet, and I will be happy if I pick it" to let it develop freely. Everyone is actually trying to satisfy their own ideas and have their own things to pursue, which is understandable, so when one party feels that there is no way to talk together, it is also a normal thing to break up.
Of course, in this case, it does not include that special situation, such as the methods used by scumbags and scumbags.
But don't look at Su Mude so lightly, how many times have she thought about breaking up, in just this month, she seems to have been thinking about it for thirty repeatedly, but it's a pity that every time she is soft-hearted, she endures and endures, and wants to give Ling Feng another chance. And to be honest, Su Mu felt a little sorry for Ling Feng when he wanted to break up, because Ling Feng never seemed to have the idea of breaking up, no matter what happened, he didn't seem to want to break up with Su Mu.
It's really not been shown once.
When Su Mu was thinking about these things a long time later, she felt that maybe she would insist at that time, just because Ling Feng had never considered giving up, no matter what his purpose or motive for doing this was, just not thinking about breaking up was enough for him to look like an uncle in front of Su Mu. It's just that he obviously has a good hand, but in the end he played very badly, and Su Mu has no way to help her solve it.
After all, no one would allow themselves to endure another person's constant harm to them when they know the real situation.
Su Mu looked at this message for a long time, and it was not until the feeling of loss in her heart gradually subsided that she quickly typed a few words and briefly explained to Ling Feng why she didn't reply to him. After that, because she felt that Ling Feng should have already slept and chatted at this time, she muted her phone without thinking about it, and then put it aside, ready to sleep again. But maybe it's because she has just slept with the handover, after she closed her eyes, she only felt that her heart was very messy, and there were always a lot of messy and bad thoughts floating in her head, so about five minutes later, she picked up her phone again, ready to scroll through Weibo for a while, and then continue to sleep.
Unexpectedly, as soon as she picked up her phone, she found that Ling Feng had actually sent her a message back, she hurriedly opened the message, and then asked Ling Feng at a very fast speed, why he didn't sleep so late. After that, almost before she could blink, Ling Feng came back:
"You didn't have a good night with me, I've been waiting for you. ”
There was a hint of soft grievance in Ling Feng's voice, which was an emotion that had always made Su Mu completely lose his resistance. So although there was a lot of unhappiness before, when she heard such a sentence, she had no negative feelings. So she immediately cooperated very well and tried to bridge with Ling Feng:
"I've been sick to my stomach today, and then I took the medicine that Weiyang bought for me, and I fell asleep in a daze without anyone, and when I just sent you a message, I just woke up, ah, I'm sorry, I made you wait so long in vain. ”
"Upset stomach? What's wrong? Why didn't you talk to me before?"
As soon as he heard that Su Mu had an upset stomach, Ling Feng immediately became nervous. When Su Mu heard his tone, he couldn't help but want to laugh a little, and his hand couldn't help but feel that he was still feeling a little bloated, and then shook his head and said to Ling Feng:
"It's already good after taking the medicine, you don't have to worry too much. ”
"How can I not be worried, from now on, I am not allowed to eat spicy and cold. ”
Although Ling Feng had often said this kind of thing before, in this case, Su Mu still felt warm in her heart when she heard it, so she didn't deliberately talk back to him like before, but replied to him very gently:
"Got it, I know my own body, so you don't have to worry about it. It's late, and you still have to go to class, so hurry up and go to bed first. ”
In this way, Su Mu patiently coaxed Ling Feng until there was no reply to the message she had sent. And at this time, it was almost four o'clock, in order to have the energy to visit the Shaanxi History Museum today, so Su Mu also put down his mobile phone and slept for a while.
Before, when Su Mu came to a place, he would definitely go back to the more famous local museums. And part of the reason why Xi'an was chosen as the destination for this trip was also related to this museum, so on this morning, Su Mu seemed more active than anyone else.
Le Duo is actually not very interested in these places, but because her friends have been recommending this place to her, and Su Mu still likes it, so she decided to come, if it weren't for these two reasons, then she would definitely not choose to come here.
Although this place is famous.
In Su Mu's eyes, it is normal for the Shaanxi History Museum to become famous, because it has brought together ancient civilizations and the most noble wisdom and beliefs of mankind, and it will definitely be commemorated by future generations. When she arrived here, she was like a child, she was excited, she wanted to participate in any event, took all kinds of pictures, and even changed her normal behavior, and even took the initiative to ask Leduo to take a standard tourist photo for her.
This is really a big deal for Su Mulai, because Su Mu almost never wants to be alone and appear in other people's photos. This time she was able to hand over this important task to Leduo, which was also a great joy for Leduo, but she was really not very good at taking pictures, so she didn't grasp this almost, and Su Mu rolled her eyes and deleted all her works.
And Ling Feng seemed to have returned to his previous state in addition to attending classes, sticking to her and asking her what she had done, whether she was happy or not, and then occasionally inquiring into Su Mu's life, luring Su Mu to tell her all about his experience.
Maybe it was because she was too happy, Su Mu didn't notice Ling Feng's thoughts, and even if she noticed it, it was nothing, because she would have told her about it, and Ling Feng showed interest in her experience, which should be a good thing for her.
After coming for a while, Su Mu felt that the relationship between the two of them should be eased, and in this way, maybe it would not be a bad thing to hold on a little longer.
After coming out of the museum, the two went to Daming Palace.
Maybe it's because I'm too tired to go around and chat, and when I arrived at Daming Palace, Leduo's physical strength was already a little overdrawn. She wanted to suggest that Su Mu take that kind of tour bus, but Su Mu felt that although they were all restored models, there was no way to feel it up close when she was far away from the sightseeing bus, so there was no point in visiting, so she insisted that she wanted to take a walk, talk tirelessly, and stop and rest at any time.
Le Duo didn't want to ruin Su Mu's interest, so she didn't show it too obviously, and only made a proposal. But in fact, Su Mu also saw that Leduo's physical strength was not enough, so she tried to delay it as long as possible every time she rested, and as long as Leduo wanted to get in the car halfway, she would definitely not stop her.
The two of them thought about it like this, and the road was halfway over, and then even Su Mu couldn't walk anymore, so Le Duo didn't say a word, so he took Su Mu to the nearest station, waiting for a sightseeing bus to pick them up.
And on the way back, Su Mu kept thinking about how to persuade Le Duo to join her to participate in Weiyang's birthday party for a while.
In fact, this matter had already been discussed by several people when they came, but at that time, neither of them had decided whether to participate or not. Originally, Su Mu didn't really want to participate, although Weiyang's birthday was very important, but there would be many Weiyang's colleagues at the birthday party, she didn't know her, and she would definitely feel embarrassed if she went, so she kept hesitating and didn't give Weiyang's definite answer.