"We need to learn to tolerate this mentality. But this tolerance does not include comparing to ourselves. Because, our happiness is the most important, and we can't care about other people's happiness, right? ”

"Mom thinks so. So, if the mother met the child today, the mother would not have spoken out and asked her to correct it, and she would not have walked away......"

Under the inquisitive gaze of his daughter, Ou Zhaozhao said, "Mom will smile silently, listen to her, and then bypass the topic and say something else." In this way, she won't be upset, you don't have to talk about her, and then you can play with her for a while...... Even if you can't become a buddy, wouldn't it be nice to let her relieve your boredom for a while? You won't be as unhappy as you are now, but happy to play with her......

"In this world, there are always all kinds of things, many, and many things that we can't accept, people, personalities, and psychology, if you educate them, then you can't be busy. And if you walk away, it may seem like saving a lot of tongue, but in fact, it's an act of obvious concern and avoidance. The meaning of this evasion is that you are bowing to this idea, that you are afraid. You can bypass it if you are afraid of trouble, but you must not bow your head. ”

Ou Zhaozhao looked at his daughter, "To bow your head is to admit defeat, this kind of narrow and vulgar thing is not worth admitting defeat." You understand, don't care about what the other person says, just go around and achieve your goal. You don't have to care about what kind of person the other party is or what will happen to the other party, let alone remind you to think about it...... That's all the other party's own business, let's live ourselves well and be the best version of ourselves, it's okay, isn't it?"

"If you want to play with the young lady, there are many ways..... You can take out delicious food, fun, and warmly entertain her to play at home. It's right that you stick to your ideas, but the persistence we have to learn is the kind of persistence that allows us to achieve our goals smoothly and happily, rather than the persistence that makes us unhappy with nothing. Do you have to gain something from what you do, do you understand?" Ou Zhaozhao really felt that there was no need to waste a trace of emotion on people with different Dao. Emotions are also very tiring and sad, right?

Ou Baobao only felt that his mother could think more than herself....... But Mom must have been right. But, she thinks that the young lady should just not understand it, it's not so unfriendly, and it's definitely not malicious, and she doesn't have that classmate or her. That's what makes her regret talking and stabbing her. But this kind of harm caused by no malice, Ou Baobao thinks that it is the most important. She talked so much to the young lady, and she also hoped that the young lady could stop this kind of harm without malicious intent.

But, she just thinks she's going to be troubled now. If only she hadn't been angry at the time and bypassed the topic as her mother said....... I can't be a friend, so I can play for a while.......

By the way, Ou Baobao remembered the question that she had never heard before, "She asked me if my mother liked me or my brother, and she would ask this because there were mothers around her who liked her brother, and then she didn't believe what I said, she didn't like all of them...... Only those who have only given birth to one like her will like them all...... If you have more children, you will have eccentricity, but the mother with a lot of meat is only one child, and she doesn't like meat much......"

Then added, "Mom, I said this is very wrong, it's a harm to Rouduo, don't say it......" Because Rouduo has always been very liked by his parents, "Keep it secret." ”

"......... "Who can't see this." Not the point. Ou Zhaozhao's heart tightened because Qinbao still cared about this problem...... No one has ever said this kind of thing to Qinbao, Zheng Rou and Yin Nini will not say it. She thought that Qin Bao didn't care about this topic......

"She asked you that question to show you that she's an only child, right? Otherwise, for no reason, she doesn't know you, how could she ask you such a question? Perhaps, the people around her are the ones who ask this kind of question, this kind of unfriendly question. You see, there's no one around you like that, you've never asked this question before, have you? You're not going to ask anybody else, are you?"

Ou Zhaozhao tried to fool, "Mom thinks that she is the one who will ask such unfriendly questions, and she will also judge and affirm whether what she thinks is the truth or not according to the situation around her." Is it wrong to not seek verification at all, and not to think about this kind of thing or this kind of question....... Therefore, there is no need for us to reason with this kind of child who only has self and no ability to think. ”

"To put it mildly, she's like a frog at the bottom of a well, and if you tell her that the sky is vast, she won't believe it. She will only satisfy her own sense of superiority, and believe in what she has seen, and maybe when she grows up, she will know how big the sky outside the well is...... It's the growth she needs, and if you remind her, that's enough...... There's no need to dwell on the boring questions she asks...... The point of her question is not to care about your answer, but to herself. ”

Ou Baobao blinked, she actually didn't care about this young lady anymore, after all, she couldn't be a little friend and ran away. It's the question that she cares about, not the person who asks it...... Why didn't Mom understand?

Seeing that his daughter was obviously still asking questions, Ou Zhaozhao quickly ended the topic, "Okay, that's it, let's talk about it for so long, is it enough?" Go take a bath, get ready to eat, your brother took Ono to swim, and mom went to call them to ....." Ou Zhaozhao really didn't want to respond to this question head-on. It's not that I'm afraid to say it clearly, but I'm afraid to say it clearly.....

However, this also shows from the side that the life level of the girl is still too narrow. It was only when I was five years old that I realized the problem of parental partiality.

Originally, in the circle of home and school, there would be no child who would talk like this. Those children are all villains, and their upbringing and politeness are always armed and engraved into their bones..... It won't be so direct.......

But at the same time, it also shows how successful her education is!! give herself 10,000 likes!!

Ou Baobao is also so curious because he is facing this kind of direct question for the first time. But it's enough. Because my mother doesn't seem to want to talk about it......

However, during the time of returning home on this way, Ou Baobao also thought a lot......