Ou Zhaozhao touched his daughter's little curly hair, "What's the matter, little Qinbao, are you scared by your beauty?"

"......." Ou Baobao snorted perfunctorily, and then said a little weakly, "I seem to have scared away a young lady, not because I am too beautiful, but because I didn't speak well......"

Ou Zhaozhao was curious about where the young lady came from here, so he asked what she said. Ou Baobao recounted the whole conversation.

"........." Ou Zhaozhao listened to it, and couldn't wait to clap his hands, what my daughter said was awesome!! when she met such a child, she should go back directly like this!! what she should say is even more ugly.

Is an only child great? An only child can look down on multiple children? How did this chain of contempt come about?

Ou Zhaozhao understood as soon as he heard it, and that's what the kid thought. There are a lot of children who think like this, which is quite a normal mentality, but Ou Zhaozhao still thinks that this is abnormal. Children should not have this mentality, and the comparative mentality is all instilled in their children by their parents. This is still my parents' lack of education, look at my family's treasure, what a great three views!! are all my credit!!

Originally, you were liked by your parents as an only child, and you should be more restrained in the face of classmates who were treated favoritly by your parents. If you are happy, don't disturb the unhappiness of others, this is a very basic literacy. Others don't want to use their own misfortunes to set off your happiness. Isn't comparing yourself with unhappy people a knife in someone else's heart? Besides, you only see the unfortunate side of others, which is too negative, isn't it? You can't be too embarrassed to be a human being!

Ou Zhaozhao was also a person who had an elder brother before wearing books, but fortunately, her parents did not favor sons over daughters, but because she was worried that she would be affected by the gossip of outsiders, and worried that she felt that her parents were partial, they loved her a lot, and her brother couldn't stand up at all in front of her, so she was at home, which was equivalent to being favored by her parents and brother.

Who said that if there are too many children, the parents will be partial, and the child will be unhappy? Her brother and she are very happy! Whether the child is happy or not has little to do with whether he is an only child or not, right? The point is the parents!

This kind of love from the brother of the same child, the only child must not feel it. It's really not clear what it's like, but if Ou Zhaozhao is allowed to choose, she will still be a child with an older brother. It's like if you don't want to have it if you have it, and most of the people who haven't had it won't want to have it......

Ou Zhaozhao felt more that as her daughter, Qinbao was really kind and honest.

Although Ou Zhaozhao has always tried to be a good mother, she knows that she is really not a good person in the public sense, she is indifferent and self-interested in her bones, and doing bad things will make others think that she is doing good deeds....... For example, the Zheng family moved overnight...... Ou Zhaozhao understands very well that her three views have been in two lifetimes and cannot be changed. So she just tries to weaken her nature in front of the children......

At first, I was worried that the children would find out, I was afraid of alienating her, and I was worried about bringing bad children, but later I didn't want to hinder the children's personality formation and growth. As for hiding the disguise or something, Ou Zhaozhao didn't think about it at all. Otherwise, she wouldn't be in love with someone else.......

The premise of being a mother is that she is Ou Zhaozhao and an independent person.

And this premise does not conflict with being a mother loving her children. Even many times, because he loves children too much, Ou Zhaozhao will infinitely magnify some of his nature.......

At this moment, Ou Zhaozhao was struggling with whether to guide his daughter to change her personality. But after hesitating, Ou Zhaozhao still gave up. One is reluctant, and second, the girl is still young, the most important thing is that the girl is happy and happy~~~~~ third comes, my daughter is so smart, she can ~~~~~look good

Ou Baobao listened to her mother, she was right, between only children and multiple children, there are many incomprehensible things, which is inevitable and there is no way to empathize. No one should have a sense of superiority over anyone, let alone feel proud or inferior.

"But I think I shouldn't have been angry because of her smugness, oh, superiority, she still pitied me, and thought I was her fun, so I stabbed her with words, I was like this, and it was rude, I didn't speak at the time, I didn't respond, just walk away......." Ou Baobao is a little regretful now, "I'll just go away, and then, she won't be hurt because of what I said, and I won't be a child who hurts others, I'm a good boy......"

"........" is really getting more and more honest. What's wrong with stabbing her? It was the kid who didn't speak right first, right? Qinbao is sensitive and intelligent, and she can hear this kind of unfriendly question as soon as she hears it. It's clear that the child hasn't been educated well......

Ou Zhaozhao thought for a while, "Qinbao, you see, after you finished talking at the time, you wanted to apologize, and you were already regretting it, and you didn't apologize because you really felt that what she said was wrong." This shouldn't apologize, I'm sorry three words are also very expensive, okay!!Then, you also explained to her out of good intentions, and persuaded her not to compare, this is very good, amazing!!Compared to you walking away, this kind of direct telling her is wrong, my mother thinks it is the best......

Ou Baobao was not fooled by his mother, "But I feel like I have a lot of things to do now, ......" is this feeling. This sense of remorse is the most fatal.

Ou Zhaozhao picked up his daughter and put it on his lap, thinking to himself, the troubles of children are really endless......

"First of all, let's take a look at the essence of making you angry, that is, the essence of this matter, in fact, it is not only children and multiple children, but any educated person should not face others with an arrogant and proud attitude, which is very impolite. You shouldn't pity and evaluate the misfortune of others just because you are happy. That's the big picture. ”

Ou Zhaozhao kissed his daughter, "If you are young, that child may be older than you because she is still young, but she is not so mature with empathy, this attitude of sympathy and pity while watching others be sad..... Very bad. Maybe when she grows big enough in the future, she will know that this is very bad, but because you told her, she knew in advance, and she is likely to make changes in advance, did the baby do a great thing?"

Ou Zhaozhao sighed, "In fact, in the adult world, it is even more common. Because in the nature of many people, they are accustomed to comparison, and through comparison, they get the happiness they want. In fact, there is nothing wrong with this. Let's be tolerant of this. Because, life is not easy, and people always have to find some sweetness for themselves, right?"