Yiyi has been living in Jinzi's house for almost a week, there is a lot of laughter and laughter at home, every day at about eight o'clock will be hungry, because insomnia all night Jin will steal the energy of the ant forest at seven o'clock and get up to prepare a hearty breakfast for Yiyi, Jin Zi likes Yiyi very much, she is sensible and careful, no matter if Jin Zi has any slight emotional fluctuations, Yiyi can be immediately noticed, and then change his attitude at any time to welcome Jinzi, which is also the warmest place for Jinzi.

Jin Zi will spend his time on the children, not because they are whose children, but simply because Jin Zi likes them, and they will also understand that Jin Zi is good to themselves, like Jin Zi's cousin's daughter Xiaoyi, Jin Zi watched her grow up when she was 3 years old, at that time Jin Zi would buy her a lot of enlightenment books, and when Xiao Yi grew up a little more, Jin Zi would take her to watch a lot of good-looking animated movies, Jin Zi always felt that some small actions and efforts could affect the children, and she was actually making up for the regret that she did not have this kind of person around her in her childhood。 When Jin Zi and Xiaoyi were children, they would have a habit of hugging each other, and this habit continues to this day. Until Jin Zi got married, he didn't live with his cousin's family anymore, and he spent very little time with Xiaoyi, but they still hugged each other when they saw each other every once in a while, as if this could cure the hesitation and anxiety of a lot of vacant time.

Yiyi is the eldest daughter of Zhang Shi's sister's family, she has just entered the fifth grade this year, she is a kind and innocent child, she is still full of curiosity about the world, Jin Zi has put a lot of energy on her mother-in-law's side after marriage, so she has more time with Yiyi, she will be very patient to listen to all kinds of things encountered in school, sometimes it is a conflict between classmates, sometimes it is the teacher who failed to level a bowl of water, sometimes it is not satisfactory grades, Jin Zi will listen to her patiently, and then answer the doubts in her heart in detail. There are some things that should be made clear to your child, because sometimes they don't fully understand what the world is like, you don't have to tell her the most real way this world is, you just need to calm her mind, and then help her to meet their challenges in the best state, and that's enough.

Gold likes to take one by one to all kinds of novel and fun places, she thinks that children's eyes are the clearest, so to see more of the world when they are still free, now every child is too busy, after school there are N more tutoring classes waiting for them, whether they like it or not, willing or not, they have to be hard to complete, I really hope they can get better because of these specialties in the future, and become the kind of good in the eyes of parents for your good.

Gold will prepare a lot of rich ingredients every day, she is afraid of starving one by one, since the last illness of gold has rarely eaten, but after one by one, gold will occasionally eat with one by one, the body is better than before, one by one also likes to try fresh objects, this day and gold also learned how to make tomato scrambled eggs, she silently recited the various steps learned with gold the day before:" The first step is to wash the tomatoes first, then cut off the buttocks, then cut them into small pieces, two tomatoes and three eggs, knock the eggs in a bowl, stir them with chopsticks, and then turn on the fire, turn on the range hood, pour the oil, pour the eggs when the oil is hot, wait for a while and stir-fry, then pour the tomatoes, fry the tomatoes out of soup, stir-fry them with the eggs, put half a spoon of salt, half a spoon of chicken essence, and get out of the pot. Jin Zi instructed on the side, encouraging one by one to be bold, not to be afraid of splashing oil, and finally it was done, and the tomato scrambled eggs were successful! Jin Zi remembered the first time she cooked, the flames jumped up a foot high in front of her, she told Yi Yi about this terrifying process, and Yi Yi was frightened to widen her eyes, and also remembered that the fire of stir-frying should not be too big, save burning vegetables or fire, if it is on fire, do not pour it with water, and directly cover the pot with a lid to extinguish the fire. Jin Zi is very glad that he can have the opportunity to teach Yiyi or Xiaoyi something, because their life is still very long, and there is still a lot of rich content to write, Jin Zi just wants to have her existence and make the children's lives more interesting, and one day in the future, because Jin Zi teaches them something, so that they can help their lives, this is the most gratifying thing for Jinzi.

Jin Zi will also talk to Yiyi about many truths in life, and Yiyi is willing to listen, there is nothing better in the world than that someone is good at listening, someone likes to tell, and your words can enter each other's ears and hearts. Jin Zi will tell Yiyi and Xiaoyi a lot of truths about getting along with their relatives, for example, she will show them "Brave Legend", which is about the conflict between the daughter and her mother during the rebellious period, the daughter wants to change her mother's mind, but unknowingly let the witch turn her mother into a bear, and finally the two people understand each other from the heart after communicating and get back together. " Sometimes the contradiction is just because of a lack of communication, and the words you want to say but can't say in your heart are the key to the problem, but as long as you still care and love each other, in the end, everyone will still let go of the estrangement and understand all the practices of the other party. "Because Jin Zi can also see that sometimes there are conflicts between Yiyi and her mother, with the birth of her younger brother, she can get less and less love, which is a little unfair, Xiaoyi has also added a lot of invisible pressure in school and family, and people are becoming more and more silent, so Jin Zi hopes to make up for some of the kind of love they lack for Yiyi and Xiaoyi, the status quo cannot be changed, so you can only make up for it through other aspects, don't wait until your heart is cold and have nothing to say, that is the foregone conclusion.

In the evening, Jin Zi and Zhang Shi had a discussion about the plot of a TV series, which was about finding the other half If the parents do not agree to the end, Zhang Shi said: "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you." Jin Zi echoed and said, "Yes, I didn't listen to the old man at that time, and I won't suffer a loss." Zhang Shi said: "Then you regret it now, it's too late to regret haha." At this time, one by one said: "Don't listen to the old man, be happy for several years!" Jin Zi was instantly poked and laughed, and Yi Yi and Zhang Shi sat on the sofa and looked at Jin Zi.

Jin Zi likes to take Yiyi out to visit various supermarkets and shopping malls, this day she is going to recheck Yiyi's eyes, because the last time I tested Yiyi's eyes are a little myopia, the first time I wear glasses can not match the prescription is too high, I will not be used to wearing it, so I need to test my eyesight again after six months, and re-equip a pair of glasses. Yiyi was very nervous on the way there, because she had a vision measurement during the school physical examination, and the physical examination teacher would point to a variety of E very seriously to let her point in the direction, the more she couldn't see clearly, the smaller she would be, and there would be classmates with good eyesight around her, they would laugh at her for not even being able to see such a big letter, Jin Zi said that she understood this feeling very well, as if you had done something wrong, Jin Zi comforted Yiyi:" Don't be afraid, you just go to the doctor, we will check where there is a problem, we will wear glasses if we can't see myopia, what are you nervous about, if we can see clearly, we won't be able to come!" Jin Zi persuaded: "Now many children are short-sighted, and there are children younger than you, wear a pair of thick glasses, you are only more than 200 degrees, take good care of your eyes, and when you grow up in the future, it will be the same as not being myopia, don't be afraid." One by one breathed a sigh of relief and said, "Fortunately, you came with me, aunt, if my father accompanied me, he would say the same, why can't he even see this clearly." Jin Zi said: "That's not that you deliberately can't see clearly, and your father's eyesight is not comparable to ordinary people, and his eyes are big like copper bells." Both Yiyi and Kaneko laughed. When she arrived at the optical store, it was all smooth, and the big stone in her heart was finally put down, and she said to Kaneko, "I like to measure my eyesight here, if only it were measured like this in school." Kaneko also said: "The physical examination in school is sometimes a shadow of childhood, and it is very stressful. "I think of my physical examination when I was a child, rows of children seem to be PK innate skills, gold all the way down, myopia, deformity, lung capacity is also poor, as if the face fell on the starting line, I didn't expect that after 20 years, the school physical examination still makes children nervous and scared, it is really time to pay more attention to the psychology of children.

There is always a lot of such voices in gold, saying that today's children are too pampered, afraid of this and that, and there are more and more bear children, all of whom were born in this good society, and they should be left in the mountains to sharpen and sharpen. Kaneko used to like watching a certain metamorphosis show, but it seems that it only changed people for a while. In fact, it is not that the children are squeamish now, but now the conditions are good, parents feel sorry for their children, they themselves do not need to suffer in this society, there are more and more bear children, and they are also born in the womb, parents are getting busier and busier, neglecting to accompany and educate, children will naturally develop as they want, but in fact, children are really not as terrible as imagined, adults will always put some things through their mouths, exaggerated to demonize, don't believe you pay attention to the children around you, their little eyes are always observing your words and deeds, and they always love you more than you love them, they will obey your instructions unconditionally, echo your opinions, believe in all the doubts you answer, and when you lose your temper with them, they will be careful to please you, whether they are angels or devils, in fact, it is all in your thoughts.

Gold was still warm on the way to get the express one day, she wore a mask, threw away the garbage and walked to the rookie post station in the community, that day she walked a road that had not been walked before, there was a cute little girl on the road standing next to a bicycle looking around, her face was red, as if she had just finished running, she was about ten years old, she looked at Jinzi, opened her hands and wanted to hug her, Jin Zi was stunned for a moment, the little girl did not hug it, Jin Zi turned around and waved her hand, I didn't expect the little girl to run up and hug Jin from the other side, her little head was not yet the waist of Jinzi, Jin also hugged her, touched her head, the little girl ran away with a smile, Jin Zi did not dare to look back and move forward. After taking the courier back, Jin Zi wanted to give her a smiling dish cotton if she met her again, but she was afraid of meeting her, she was afraid that her heart that she had just made up her mind to leave would be warmed and lived, and she was even more afraid that she would feel that the world was beautiful again, so she still didn't dare to go that way, and went around and went home, Jin Zi comforted herself, maybe she was wearing a mask, and the little girl recognized the wrong person, and mistook her for her mother or relative, yes, Jin Zi persuaded herself.

Jin Zi didn't think that the children could be her salvation, so Jin Zi didn't think that if you don't study well, you are a bad child, and if you study well, you are a perfect good child, all children are good children, just look at how you treat him, how you guide him, you live longer than them, you have to leave something useful for them. If there is really nothing to teach, at least there is still time and companionship, their three views and personalities are not formed by themselves by eating and sleeping every day, your time and companionship will be transformed into love, warming their hearts that will be frozen after they go to society, just like when they warmed you.

Kaneko loves to plant trees in the Ant Forest, the only thing she doesn't give up every day is to collect energy, she likes to watch the saplings slowly grow into towering trees, and she also likes to turn them into real trees, so that they can have their own land and sky. Saplings are hope, just like children, small saplings need to be carefully cultivated, pesticide, watered, pruned branches and leaves, when they grow into big trees, pruning branches and leaves will hinder their growth, pest removal will make them lose good partners, watering can not meet their needs, so some things are not done wrong, but when they are done wrong. Time is a good thing, it will make people grow, it will make people regret, and it will also make people understand contentment. Kaneko wants to take good care of the little trees around her until they are covered with mushrooms under their feet, until they are dense with foliage and birds nesting, and until they don't feel lonely. I hope that in the future they will not be cut down and will be painfully made into furniture or crafts for people to use and enjoy. Okay, it's not too early, Jin Zi is going to tutor one by one, studies are as important as life principles, little trees, add water to grow.

Today's dream: Kaneko hasn't slept a full night for a long time, she wakes up every hour like an alarm clock, the dream is also intermittent, but she never remembers, and sometimes she wakes up in nightmares, hoping that a good sleep will come back in the future.