Chapter 82: Meng Siyan's Growth Environment
Meng Guangming stared at Cao Zhengxuan for more than ten seconds before he spoke, "How did you see that?"
Siyan said that she was more worried about her mother's opposition to her going to my experimental class, so I surmised this. ”
"Your speculation is right," Meng Guangming sighed and said, "Since Siyan is willing to go to your class at this point, you are Siyan's homeroom teacher, and I won't hide anything from you, because I feel that only when you have a comprehensive understanding of my family can you guide my daughter thoroughly." ”
"Secretary Meng, you are right, for a psychological counselor, the most important thing is to have a comprehensive understanding of the child's growth environment, so as to find the real inducement. ”
Meng Guangming nodded and said, "Siyan's mother is straighter and stronger than me in terms of personality, and she is now the chief prosecutor of Hengyi County. ”
"Hengyi County?" Cao Zhengxuan blurted out.
"How?"
"Oh, it's nothing, because I grew up in the cross. The area where I live is near the Public Prosecutor's Office. Cao Zhengxuan explained.
"Yes, that's a coincidence, Siyan's mother and I are both from Hengyi County. We lived in the building at the exit of the prosecutor's office. My father-in-law is still the old prosecutor general. Where do you live?"
"The place where I live is not very fixed, because, I also told Secretary Meng directly," Cao Zhengxuan was very moved by the fact that a county party secretary could be so honest with himself, "My father wandered from Yangjiang to Hengyi." ”
"Oh?" Meng Guangming was stunned, "It's not easy for your son of a homeless man to grow into such an excellent talent. Wait, let me recall, does your dad often wander around Rehabilitation Road?"
"It must have been before I was born, after I was born, my dad didn't wander, he had to raise me. ”
"What about your mother?" Meng Guangming asked with concern.
"My mom abandoned us after I was born, or rather, I didn't have a mom. Cao Zhengxuan was a little sad.
"Sorry, but I got you a sore spot. ”
"It doesn't matter, it's been twenty-three years," Cao Zhengxuan said calmly, "It's Secretary Meng who is honest with me, and I'll mention my family's affairs." Because a person's upbringing is very closely related to the family environment. ”
"It stands to reason that your homeless environment is not conducive to your success. ”
"It's true, I did have a time when I was very rebellious, entangled in the fact that I didn't have a mother, that my father was a homeless man, and that I often got into fights with some people who insulted me in the alleys near the Hengyi Public Prosecutor's Office. ”
"I really have the impression that you say that, just ten years ago, there was a relatively large fight in a lane opposite the procuratorate, but it was an eleven or twelve-year-old kid who participated, wouldn't it be you? One of the little boys was stabbed several times. This case is still handled by our procuratorate. I was also in the Public Prosecutor's Office at the time. ”
"The little boy who was stabbed several times was me. I was twelve years old. The corners of Cao Zhengxuan's eyes were a little moist.
"Wow, that's a coincidence. What happened later?" Meng Guangming forgot what he wanted to narrate, and was more concerned about Cao Zhengxuan's experience.
"It was only after that incident that I became sensible. ”
"From what?"
"It was because of this incident that it touched my dad. After this incident, I feel that as long as Dad really loves you and you are everything to your father, then it doesn't matter if you have a mother or not, and it doesn't matter what your father used to be. ”
"Yes, it does. Meng Guangming exhaled a long breath, "Just like my daughter Siyan, her father is the secretary of the county party committee, and her mother is the chief prosecutor, what a dazzling aura and what a prominent identity on the surface, but Siyan is not happy at all, and she can't even grow up healthy like ordinary children." ”
"That's what I called you down to tell you, what kind of thing a person says when he arrives. In the case of disease, health is the most important thing, and with a healthy mind and physiology, we can pursue something higher. How much significance does it make it so meaningful for you and your wife to create such a good family environment for Siyan, but make her sick in her heart?"
"Teacher Cao, in fact, what you see is only materially good, we didn't give Siyan a good family environment, because Siyan's mother and I have almost always come over in the past 20 years, and Siyan's mild depression has a lot to do with our quarrels. ”
"Thank you Secretary Meng for your honesty, this is the crux of Siyan's state today. ”
"I know that, but we can't control ourselves. If it weren't for the position we are in, we would have been divorced long ago. In fact, we're pretty much divorced right now. Siyan's mother lives her life, and I live mine. It was also because of this kind of noise that I worked hard to be transferred out of Hengyi County and come to Yangjiang to work. When I came to Yangjiang, I brought Siyan over. ”
"What grade was Siyan in at that time?" Cao Zhengxuan asked.
"I'm in the fifth grade. I've been in Yangjiang for six whole years. At that time, Siyan's performance in all aspects was very good, and she was also very well-behaved. ”
"Actually, the root of the bane may have been planted at that time, but it didn't erupt. ”
"Quite possibly. Meng Guangming said, "At that time, Siyan gave me the feeling that she was very strong, and she had to take the first place in every aspect. I am also very pleased with my daughter's this. I feel that no matter how wronged I am, no matter how much I pay, it is worth it. Listening to you say this today, I realized that it was precisely because Siyan gave me the feeling of being so relieved that I threw myself into my work wholeheartedly and never thought of accompanying Siyan. Siyan is equivalent to saying that she grew up with rag dolls. ”
Cao Zhengxuan noticed that the corners of Meng Guangming's eyes were as moist as him. Meng Guangming was truly touched.
"Hearing you say so much, I want to interrupt," Cao Zhengxuan said, "Siyan has to report to you every time she gets good results, and you are very happy and proud, right?"
"It's not that I'm happy and proud, it's that I'm really happy, very proud, and the troubles at work are thrown out of the clouds. ”
"That's what I understand. ”
"What do you understand?" Meng Guangming asked.
"The reason why your daughter is so motivated and so strong is for this moment. ”
"To make me happy, proud?" Meng Guangming seemed to realize.
"Because you're constantly reinforcing that. Maybe it wasn't like that the first time, but when Si-yeon felt it, she made it her goal to do it. Children who grow up in such families are sensitive and sensible. ”
Meng Guangming turned his head away, but Cao Zhengxuan had already noticed the tears falling from Meng Guangming.