Chapter 83: They Are Executioners
"And it is impossible for a person to get the first place in every aspect every time," Cao Zhengxuan didn't notice Meng Guangming's emotional changes, "Siyan's frustration is inevitable." And once you are frustrated, and the changes in your emotions are captured by her, Siyan's sense of guilt and frustration will increase. Once the number of times increases, the person will break the jar and break, if there is no enlightenment. ”
"That's really it, Teacher Cao, it's really like this," Meng Guangming couldn't control his emotions anymore, "I hurt my daughter." I still remember that it was the final exam of the second semester of the seventh grade, Siyan didn't play well because she was too nervous, and she took the tenth place in the city and the second place in the school, and I scolded Siyan bitterly. ”
"10th place in the city is already a good result. ”
"But I didn't think so at the time. I was the county magistrate at the time, and I didn't even think that this achievement matched my position. Look how hateful I am, how hateful I am!"
"I guess that's when Siyan started to get tired of studying. ”
"It should be, but I didn't notice it at the time, and at this time, my wife also strongly requested that Siyan be transferred to Hengyi County because of her daughter's declining grades, and I refused to live or die, and I desperately needed Siyan to get good grades in the exam to prove that I had brought my daughter well, but ......"
"But Siyan is getting worse and worse. Cao Zhengxuan took over the topic and said.
"Yes, so I couldn't resist Siyan's mother, so Siyan went to Hengyi No. 3 Middle School for an academic year. ”
"Surely it backfired, right?"
"Hey, it's Siyan's mother who can't accept Siyan's rebellion too much, and often brings home the emotions at work, so the mother and daughter quarrel almost every day. As I said earlier, Siyan's mother is a stronger person than me, I didn't know about these at the time, so I didn't pay attention to Siyan's state, and a year later, Siyan's mother took the initiative to transfer Siyan back to Yangjiang, and Siyan has completely changed as a person. Meng Guangming's mood became heavier and heavier.
"No wonder Siyan said earlier that she came to my experimental class, and suddenly she was worried about your objections. I'm especially afraid that her mother will object!"
"That's right, in this year, being a mother has left a big shadow in Siyan's heart. Because every time the quarrel came to the end, Siyan's mother took a mandatory approach, and Siyan always suffered aggrievedly. ”
Because Siyan is filial piety in her bones, she succumbs. Cao Zhengxuan analyzed.
"Yes, including when she returned to Yangjiang Middle School later, Siyan's grades were already very poor, she had no interest in learning at all, and I also used my relationship to arrange such and such one-on-one tutoring for her, Siyan was very reluctant, but she accepted it. The end of the semester is always full, and there is not much rest during the winter and summer vacations. ”
"And you are looking forward to this kind of counseling, thinking that it is all one-on-one counseling, and no matter how bad the foundation is, you can make up for it, right, Secretary Meng?"
Meng Guangming nodded.
In fact, this kind of tutoring can only increase Siyan's mental burden, and has almost no effect on learning. I'm sure that's it. ”
"That's exactly what it is. Meng Guangming said.
"Therefore, Siyan can only barely be admitted to the first middle school, whether it is for the sake of face or for other reasons, you also put your daughter in the class to change the class, and you have completely created today's ending. ”
"Hey, the first year of high school is a very unquiet year. Speaking of which, the teachers, including the retired principal, were very kind to my daughter and took great care of her. ”
"So, you're grateful to these teachers and principals, aren't you?" Cao Zhengxuan asked.
"Shouldn't it, Teacher Cao? The class teacher and the classroom teacher are very concerned about my daughter's condition, and often volunteer to tutor my daughter, do my daughter's ideological work, and visit my home two or three times. In the past few days, because my daughter doesn't want to go to school, they have all run several times, but Siyan doesn't want to see them. ”
Cao Zhengxuan shook his head and said: "Secretary Meng, if you are directly responsible for Siyan's state today, then these teachers, class teachers, and principals will be indirectly responsible." They are also executioners! From a certain point of view, Siyan is the one they harmed. ”
"Teacher Cao, it's too extreme for you to say that!" Meng Siyan raised the decibel level.
"Secretary Meng, haven't you thought about it, is the reason why these people are doing this entirely because you are the county magistrate or the secretary of the county party committee?" Cao Zhengxuan also raised the decibels, "A student who has just entered an ordinary class, put into a class to change classes, is more terrible than a seedling to help the seedlings, which one of them is engaged in education? We might as well think about it," Cao Zhengxuan became very excited, "For Siyan, what kind of life is life every day? I don't understand, I don't understand, I don't understand, I don't understand, I still can't understand!" This is annoying enough, but people keep asking why, why, why? Secretary Meng, Siyan is already your luck that she is not crazy!"
Meng Guangming was stunned.
"Really, I'm not exaggerating at all. A person is in a state of blow every day, being praised is a blow, being asked a question is a blow, being called to talk is also a blow, can you not go crazy?"
"The problem is that my daughter has good thinking and reaction skills, and her primary school foundation is still so solid. ”
"These are all the excuses that those bastard teachers said to you, this is their excuse to confuse you!" Cao Zhengxuan became angry.
"But I do. ”
"That's wrong, Secretary Meng, let me ask you, can you still say that your thinking is good if you can't keep up with the beat? Can you still rap pleasantly if you can't get stuck in pitch? A really responsible teacher should do this: strongly ask you to transfer Siyan to a parallel class, at most a key class. But not a single one of them did! You say, these people are hateful?"
The interior of the car was instantly quiet, so that the sound of the car's air conditioning seemed noisy.
After a long while, Meng Guangming reached out and held Cao Zhengxuan's hand, "Teacher Cao, you taught me the most vivid lesson today. Because I met you, I believe that my daughter, who has already embarked on a fork in the road, will come back to the right path in life. Thank you!"
"I wasn't just abrupt, I was out of shape. I'm really sorry. However, I still have a question, I don't know if I can say it. Cao Zhengxuan said.
"But it doesn't hurt to say that. ”
"Earlier, you said that you and your wife have been quarrelling for more than 20 years, so you can't fall in love and get married, right? If I didn't guess wrong, you should both work in the procuratorate. Please forgive a counselor for being curious. ”
"Understandable. You counselors are doing this to go back to the roots. It is true that we both work in the prosecutor's office, but we must not be noisy when we are in love, otherwise we will not get married. ”
"So what is it that makes you live a noisy life?"
"Because of a car accident. ”
"A car accident?" Cao Zhengxuan was stunned.
Another car accident!