Chapter 26: Friendliness
By the way, she didn't answer at the time, and her brother took her away. My brother also told her that this kind of unfriendly problem is very complicated, involving psychology, pedagogy, folklore, etc., but Ou Baobao thinks that this is because adults do not treat underage children as equal status conversation partners, and she is not respected. My brother agrees with this, anyway, they will definitely not grow up to be adults who tease children like this.
When there are many children, the mother is partial? The mother who has a lot of meat is only one child, and I haven't seen how much her mother loves meat. Although I think so, I'm sorry for the meat, but this is the first factual example that Ou Baobao thought of to refute the young lady. However, because there is a lot of meat, she won't say it. Even if Meata didn't know, she couldn't say such a thing to someone she didn't know that would hurt Meat.
Ou Baobao is not sure whether the young lady is friendly now, but she is very sure that she and this young lady have different ideas. She certainly wouldn't ask such unfriendly questions. No one around her would ask. So, the young lady won't be her little friend.......
After thinking about it, Ou Baobao said, "That's because your family is yours, and your parents only have one choice, and they don't have the opportunity to prefer others." If you had one more child, would you think you would still be the only one who would be liked? My house has a lot of delicious food, everyone can eat it, and there is no need to let it come and stay!"
On the mouth cannon, Ou Baobao is not afraid!! it won't be a friend anyway, so let's just say it!!
"........." Zhanhuan was stunned for a moment, and then a look of surprise and fear appeared on his face, and some were injured.
Ou Baobao noticed this, and she also regretted it a little, she said it directly, and it hurt the little sister...... She bowed her head slightly, wanting to apologize but couldn't open her mouth, because she didn't want to apologize for what she said, she only wanted to apologize because the young lady was uncomfortable.
But I feel like I'm apologizing for what I just said......
Ou Baobao was very entangled, hesitated, or stubbornly did not apologize, she was also a little hurt, "I think, you ask me, whether my mother likes me or my brother, this is very unfriendly, this is a very bad question, not a good child should ask." ”
Zhan Huan stood still and didn't move, but he actually wanted to run away. But it felt so embarrassing to run away, so I tried to nail my heel and didn't move.
Ou Baobao saw that Zhanhuan didn't leave, so he came over to wave away the mosquitoes for her, "Questions that will make others feel unfriendly, I don't think they should be asked." And, here's the example that you know, around you, I don't know and not around me. If you think it's true, I think it's fake. The point is, you shouldn't tell me that your classmates don't like it at home by their mothers......."
"Your classmates don't like your mother, this is something that should be sad for your classmates, I don't think you should say it and tell me...... Your mother likes you alone, and your classmate's mother doesn't like her, and I don't quite understand, anyway, I think it's despicable compared to this...... Your classmates will be sad to hear you say that, they should. After speaking, he looked up at Zhanhuan, "However, you are very happy, this is very good......."
A lot of meat is not liked by parents, Ou Baobao knows this state very well, and she also knows very well the taste of being liked by her mother, this kind of is really incomparable. Very bad. What is not good, Ou Baobao can't say it thoroughly, but she knows that it is very bad. I also want to tell Zhanhuan, don't compare like this, don't ask like this, especially since she also has classmates who are in a similar situation to meat. This classmate must have had her sadness, as well as her happiness and friends......
It's better for everyone to be just happy, not sad.......
"I think that if you want to be a good friend, even if you are not a good friend, you can't compare it when you meet...... The joys and pains of others, my mom said, no one will know but herself. If you don't know, you can't say it..... That is, the evaluation ....." Ou Baobao finally found the word to describe it, "I can't evaluate others, others are also working hard, and everyone is working hard to live...... My mom said that people who work hard in life are not easy, and they are great......"
Although Ou Baobao often cheats Ou Zhaozhao, making her often lose her dignity as a mother, in Ou Baobao's heart, the person she respects and admires the most is her mother Ou Zhaozhao.
All the words that Ou Zhaozhao muttered, Ou Baobao remembered.
The current Ou Baobao's comprehension and thinking ability still have certain limitations, so I basically think that what Ou Zhaozhao said is right. Even if her personality is completed and her personality is independent in the future, the foundation of the three views is also based on the influence of Ou Zhaozhao. That's for later.
Ou Baobao tried to make clear what he wanted to say and what he wanted to convey to Zhanhuan. I only hope that Zhanhuan can understand, and then, correct. Because she didn't want to hurt Zhanhuan at all, she just hoped that she could become more friendly. Better.
Zhan Huan couldn't understand Ou Baobao's painstaking efforts and words that sounded mean and ugly. Despicable? Zhan Huan only felt as if he had been slapped in the face by Ou Baobao, angry and cowardly. After blushing, Zhan Huan didn't say a word and ran away.
Ou Baobao didn't catch up, watched her run away on the spot, and reached out to touch Prince Ou, "I thought I could have a little friend....... "No matter how loyal to the five-year-old child is to make friends, he is also eager to play with a playmate, and it seems that a precocious child like Ou Baobao likes to get along with children older than himself. However, the reality is harsh. Friends are not so casual to have.
Ou Baobao, who didn't feel that he was still stubborn and serious in his words, rode on Prince Ou with a little loss and left. Let's go home and find my mother......
And after Ou Baobao walked far away, Zhan Huan ran back quickly, stared at the moon flower for a while, and then walked towards the moon flower that she thought was a dream rose.......
Ou Zhaozhao's daughter came in with her head bowed, she was very puzzled, she was very happy just now, the photos in the circle of friends were very good-looking, why is this like this?
"What's wrong with the baby? It's hot? Let's take a shower and change clothes, let's have lunch after a while, and when we wake up after lunch, let's go fishing, okay?" Ou Zhaozhao has made all the arrangements for the past few days, and the girl is going to go to the summer camp in a few days, so she has moved all the work of the past few days, and she is busy when the girl is playing, and when she is busy, the girl will come back.
Ou Baobao nodded and said it was good.