"Is it still the way it was?

"The original way is the original way, and the original way is that two people are doing their own work, each busy. Don't disturb each other's lives. ”

"What are you looking like, you are like when the two of them were colleagues before they got married. ”

"It's just that we didn't look like colleagues before, but now we are not colleagues, we are colleagues. ”

Tao Jingjing felt that she was confused by Lin Ziyu, and she didn't tell you that she was confused.

"You should tell me clearly, what is the relationship between your colleagues, what is the relationship between colleagues in the past, and now it is still a relationship between colleagues, and the relationship between the two of you is colleagues. You're both married, okay, okay, can you still be the same when you're married?"

"What's the difference between this, don't you just get a certificate, it won't have any impact on your life. ”

Lin Ziyu looked at Tao Jingjing's surprised appearance, and she couldn't understand it. She and Xu Qingming have always been like this, what is this, and they didn't think about changing all this, so they said it very lightly.

"What's the difference, it's a big difference?"

"Then tell me what difference is there, what difference can he make to me?"

"You see, before, you were colleagues at best, and then boyfriend and girlfriend. What do you want to do alone? What do you want to do? Or what do you want to do? You don't have to be responsible for each other for whatever you want to do? But now that you are married, and after you get the certificate, you are related to each other in the legal sense, and you have to be responsible for what you want to do, and you must be responsible for each other not only in the legal sense, but also in the moral sense. ”

Lin Ziyu listened to Tao Jingjing very seriously and showed herself the changes in the relationship between herself and Xu Qingming before and after marriage. In fact, he can't accept Tao Jingjing's point of view, whether before or after marriage, she and Xu Qingming are independent individuals, responsible for themselves, no, she doesn't need him to be responsible for himself, he is only responsible for himself, and he is responsible for himself. So she didn't agree with Tao Jingjing's point of view, but he also knew that he had already received the certificate, and if he said it like this, he might be scolded by Tao Jingjing, so he just smiled at Tao Jingjing and said, "Huahua, I know what you mean, it makes sense, between husband and wife." However, people must first be responsible for themselves, in order to be responsible for others, between the two of us have not thought clearly about what we have done, we can't afford to bear the responsibility, how to go to others to be responsible. ”

Regarding Lin Ziyu's explanation, Tao Jingjing can't say that she can't accept it, or she can't understand it, but she actually knows that sometimes she and Lin Ziyu's views on the problem are different. This may have something to do with Lin Ziyu living abroad for so many years, but she still feels that since she is married, and the two of them have no intention of ending this relationship, then if you are responsible for each other, you still have to seriously have a plan for your future life, and you can't just live your own life, so what's the difference between getting married and not getting married? What's the point of getting a certificate? It's better not to do it, like a superfluous move.

"Yes, I actually know your point of view, but if you say so, or think so, then what's the point of you two getting this card? ”

"You're really right, I really think it's a superfluous move, you don't know what I thought in my head at that time, why did you impulsively get the certificate with Xu Qingming? Xu Qiming is the same person, I said to get the certificate, and he didn't get drunk, so he followed me. ”

Thinking of the scene at that time, Lin Ziyu was really annoyed, but now that it has reached this point, what can she do! In fact, Lin Ziyu also thought about it, otherwise she and Xu Qingming would divorce, so that the two of them could treat it as if the original incident did not have the consequences of drunkenness, and it was solved in this way, but he and she had not mentioned it to Xu Qingming, Xu Qingming directly refused as if he knew what he thought.

"You said that it was a mistake at the beginning, but it was just the irrational behavior of the two people after getting drunk, so I want to tell Xu Qingming that we will divorce and solve this problem, is there nothing to do?"

Lin Ziyu tentatively asked Tao Jingjing, wanting to see what Tao Jingjing's thoughts were, but he never thought that as soon as the words fell, his head was slapped by Tao Jingjing.

"What are you thinking, what are you thinking, what are you divorcing, you have only been married for a few days, and you are thinking about divorce. ”

"Why are you beating me? Am I not right? The two of us didn't plan to get married in the first place, it was really a wrong idea after drinking, and only divorce can really solve this problem!"

"It's still light to beat you, let you sober up, I should let you, stand outside and think clearly, is this marriage said to be divorced, and it is said to be married. If you don't get it, you're married for the second time, although it doesn't have any impact, but now that you're married for the second time, how can you explain it to your parents. Don't your parents still know about you and Xu Qingming!"

At the mention of his parents, Lin Ziyu instantly became depressed, thinking of his father's serious expression, and his mother's disappointed eyes looking at him, Lin Ziyu didn't know what to do.

"Looking at your expression, you know that your parents don't know how long you plan to hide it from them, and you won't go back for the Chinese New Year, what is the situation of staying at our house? Wait a minute, you can eat lunch and go back quickly. ”

You nodded silently at your daily words, and then lay down on the table in frustration. Speaking of his parents, Lin Ziyu really doesn't know how to face them.

"Okay, don't be depressed, hurry up, wait a minute, let grandpa cook in advance, you eat then hurry back, the New Year, you and Xu Jinming don't even tell your parents, Xu Qingmin didn't take the initiative to see your parents, you just wait for the New Year, I think you two should sit down, don't quarrel as soon as you meet, just quarrel and sit down, sit down calmly and talk about the solution to the current situation between the two of you." ”

"Actually, I think Xu Qingming likes you, and you like Xu Qingming too, since the two of them like each other, and they have already received the certificate, then you are good......"

Tao Jingjing actually doesn't know what they have to do well, this is like each other, so what, after marriage, the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt is trivial, as well as the views between the two parties on some things, after marriage, it is not just like it to be able to maintain it for a long time.

"Well, I don't know what you're going to do? ”

Lin Ziyu looked at Tao Jingjing with a tangled look, she didn't know how to tell herself how to solve the problem between herself and Xu Xinming, and she understood her thoughts, but she didn't want to mention this topic at this time, so she directly interrupted Tao Jingjing and said: "Okay, I know what you mean, let's talk about it after the New Year, it's all this time, what's the point of talking about it again? ”

After Lin Ziyu finished speaking, she looked at Tao Jingjing's cyan color that she couldn't hide under her eyes, and knew that a lot of things had happened in this paragraph, Tao Jingjing was actually in a relatively anxious stage, and sometimes wanted to call him to ask him about the situation recently, and she cared about it, but she also knew that she had nothing to do, and she couldn't help anything, so she didn't dare to ask if she didn't tell herself.

"Don't keep talking about me, what about you? What is your situation now, I haven't asked you about your aunt for so long, and I don't know how to ask you, but now that it's been so long, how do you solve it? And you and Xiao Xiche have been doing it for so long, what do you want to do?"

Tao Jingjing lowered her head and didn't speak, she was busy with the things in hand.

"Hey, what is the situation for you, okay, bad, there must be a sentence!"

Lin Ziyu looked at Tao Jingjing with a look of denying death, very helpless, she really hated Tao Jingjing's appearance, asked her what to say, she didn't want to say it, just this virtue.

"What can I say, you also watch my aunt's affairs, it's on our side every night, what else can I do, there is no news at all. ”

Looking at the little girl who was sitting on the sofa next to her, playing with toys by herself, Lin Ziyu took a deep breath, what is the matter, a good person can't be found like this.

"Didn't you already call the police? What did the police say?"

"There was no news after asking, and the police officer in charge said that there was any news that would be notified directly, and it was all the New Year, and no one notified about it. ”

"What do these policemen do, take taxpayers' money, don't work, how can these good people ......?"

"Okay, I can't blame them, I also looked at the monitoring, there is no news, they also posted a message, and now no one has replied, this is also a helpless thing!"

Lin Ziyu looked at Tao Jingjing's appearance, with a look of disgust, and he was still making excuses for others at this time.

"Okay, what you said is right, but your aunt's matter, you can only wait for the result of the police, and your aunt did not take the initiative to contact you, so you can only wait for the final result of the police, but what about you and Xiao Zonghua? What is the situation between you two and what are you going to do? and Yu Xiang. ”