If only as first seen (forty-six) predecessor 5
"Grandpa, I made it clear to Cheng Yan. Si Han looked at the old man sitting in a precarious position and couldn't help but feel funny.
"Hmm, is Cheng Yan back, when did he come back?" The old man looked like he had just learned about it, and he was full of seriousness, but the look of understanding in his eyes indicated that the old man had already known.
"Well, I'm back, go to the school gate to block me, we have a meal together, and then we go back to our respective homes. Si Han let it go, and didn't want to negotiate anything more with the old man in front of him, the old man pretended not to pretend, but he didn't care, because from all indications, in addition to his own old man having the ability to know his daily schedule and whereabouts, his whereabouts have always been confidential, because of his work, his whereabouts have always been monitored and kept secret by a special team.
"Well, Cheng Yan's little girl I look pretty good, filial piety, good-looking, good character, beautiful person, good figure, if you can be together in the future, then I will wait to hug my grandson" The tentative meaning of the words was full of meaning.
Hearing this, Si Han smiled and asked, "How do you know that Cheng Yan has filial piety?"
The old man blurted out: "The little girl's cooking is delicious." After saying that, I felt quite satisfied.
"Grandpa, Cheng Yan has been to the house. Si Han's face was clear, and his expression was not shocked.
"You kid, I haven't seen you for a few years, and you've become more and more cunning, and now you dare to take my words. After the old man finished speaking, he looked indignant, as if he was blaming Sihan for deliberately demolishing him.
"Grandpa, emotional matters have to be natural in the end. Si Han did not directly answer the old man's question, but directly said the key point.
Because Si Han knew that if he couldn't make the old man accept what he thought, he might do such a thing in the future, so now there is no point in distinguishing right from wrong, the important thing is to explain the situation to the old man, or to dispel the old man's unrealistic ideas, lest things get worse and worse.
Because of your own affairs, the more others interfere, the worse it may become.
"What is going with the flow, is it not good for me and the people of your grandmother's generation, the orders of my parents, and the words of the matchmaker, and I will not be in harmony with Hemeimei? What kind of bullshit are you talking about, in the end, you still don't look down on Cheng Yan, besides, what is wrong with Cheng Yan, and what is not worthy of you? The old man's words were straightforward and sonorous.
Si Han sighed, this is the most terrible place, the wrong person doesn't feel that he is wrong at all, this is the biggest problem, Si Han understands, it is to talk to the old man for ten days and ten nights, the old man will only feel that he is disobedient, and he will never feel that he is wrong.
It is very easy to want a person to change his practice, but it is basically impossible to want a person to change his own ideology, or to say, it is useless to just rely on simple reasoning and preaching, especially for people like grandpa, who believe that ten cows can't pull back.
"Grandpa, I'm not saying that what you said is wrong, and I don't deny that you are not good with grandma, I just think that your way is not the way I want, people are different, since I have a choice now, so I hope you respect my choice. I'm an adult, and I have my own ideas and needs. ”
Si Han looked at the old man unmoved, and changed his words:
"If I'm with Cheng Yan, I'll only feel tired, I just don't know how to face it every day, I may do something I can't understand in order to escape the night, after a long time, do you think I and Cheng Yan can still get along, do you think our family can still be harmonious and happy, after all, getting along is a matter of two people, the twisted melon is not sweet, grandpa, you know why my parents don't go home often. ”
Si Han said a little plainly, but the last sentence was a little hesitant, because he knew that his parents' affairs would always be a sad thing in the old man's heart, and it was precisely because of his grandfather's stubbornness that his parents once had to cut off relations with the family, but the relationship has eased in recent years.
But he knew that if he didn't say that, there was basically no possibility of convincing the old man, so although he knew that saying this might make the old man sad, he still did it.
When the old man heard the last sentence, the expression on his face trembled slightly, and he suddenly lost the righteousness and arrogance of the words just now, and the spirit of the whole person seemed to be more than a little shorter.
Finally, he sighed and said, "Okay, young people's affairs, I don't interfere." After that, he drank the tea in front of him in one gulp, and said, "When you are old, you should have the consciousness of an old man." ”
After finishing speaking, he didn't look at Si Han, turned around and went back to the study.
Si Han looked at the back of the old man's increasingly vicissitudes, but he felt some inexplicable sourness in his heart, he knew that this would make his grandfather feel uncomfortable, but this way could undoubtedly solve the problem fundamentally.
Sometimes it's like this, it's always hard to have both worlds, and the harm is not intentional, but you know that it is not intentional, but you still choose to hurt.
Maybe it's to avoid more damage, maybe it's for the sake of momentary pleasure, but no one can say what the outcome will be, so let's see.
Si Han sat on the sofa by himself, with no expression on his face, but he was indeed a little uncomfortable in his heart.
He knows that human nature is like this, people are like this, such a life is indeed like this, there is no way to care about it clearly, there is no way to go to the clear and clear, and there are many invisible danger zones and gray areas.
I was stunned when my phone suddenly rang.
"Si Han, how is the situation on your side lately, are you still used to staying in China?" After Si Han picked up the phone, a gentle female voice came.
"Don't worry, Aunt Liu, everything is fine, all aspects of life are also very good, since the last time I felt the energy fluctuations, I haven't felt this energy anymore, the other party seems to have disappeared out of thin air, it seems that this time is not so simple, a little tricky. ”
Si Hanfu said in his usual tone, and told the woman on the phone the news these days straight to the point.
"Well, this is not in a hurry, is your old man okay lately, is his body still very tough~" The woman who was called Aunt Liu by Si Han asked.
"Well, grandpa is fine, his energy is still quite strong, and it seems that life is quite good. Si Han said faintly.
"It's weird how you say this, as if there's something going on~" A woman's sixth sense is indeed a very magical thing, often a dozen and a strike.
"It's nothing, grandpa, it's fine. Si Han paused slightly, and said such words very firmly.
"Well, just call me if there's anything. After Aunt Liu learned the news she wanted, she didn't drag her feet, and hung up the phone after explaining the matter very simply and decisively.
After Si Han answered the phone, he suddenly thought of whether he wanted to explain to Xiao Xiao, but after thinking about it, would this be too abrupt, what reason should I find~
At this time, Xiao Xiao, who had already returned home, had already collapsed on the bed, feeling exhausted and didn't want to speak.
However, Luo Qingqing at this time was not so good.