Tao Jingjing listened to Tao Zhongming talk about the things at that time, and now she is listening, the rest is just calm, but what is hidden in the calm is her endless regret, regret her decision at that time, regret not being by her father's side well, regret not listening to her father, regret all the things, and even regret knowing Xiao Xiche......

"I see, Grandpa. I knew that my father was not just able to talk at that time, he really wanted to break off father and daughter with me, but what could this be? At that time, I was really like a child who was spoiled by you, I didn't understand anything, I didn't understand anything, I couldn't understand anything, I couldn't understand your suffering, and more people were involved later. ”

"Alright, alright, let's not talk about this topic anymore, it's all over, it's over. Tao Zhongming saw Tao Jingjing's look of affection, sighed, patted Tao Jingjing's shoulder comfortingly, and said, as if he was also saying to himself, everything has passed, don't think about it anymore.

"I know, Grandpa, it's all gone, it's all gone, and we don't look back anymore. ”

"That's right, we all look forward, look forward, all things, no matter what the reason was at the beginning, or what kind of ups and downs, we don't want to look back, and then we can't change the results that have been achieved, and we can't change the life that has been passed, so grandpa doesn't want to affect your current decisions because of previous things, and I don't want to affect your life choices because of previous things, as well as your future life path. ”

"I know, Grandpa, it's all gone, and I know that there's no point in going after anything, but I need a truth, and I want to know what the truth is, whether my dad did anything wrong or if those people who are sorry for my dad are the same as I think, really sorry for my dad, or is it just me who thinks so, my dad actually did something wrong. That's all I want to know, really that's all I want to know. ”

Looking at Tao Jingjing looking at himself seriously, Tao Zhongming was actually very unbearable, many things can't just be used to evaluate a person by right or wrong, and it is to judge the things at that time with the current values, we are not in the situation of the parties, and we don't know what kind of plot it was that affected him to make his decision, so Tao Zhongming actually hesitated, I don't know if the topic of his own appearance is a truth for Tao Jingjing, or a disillusionment of his father's impression, after all, no one is perfect。

Although it is his own son, Tao Zhongming does not deny that he was in the situation he once had, in fact, some decisions were made wrong, and they also had a certain impact on other people's lives, but at that time the situation forced him to make such a decision, he had no choice, but if he talked about it now, Dandan talked about this matter, he didn't know if he could explain the situation at that time to Tao Jingjing, or the cause and effect of the matter at that time, although he proposed it himself, but now Tao Zhongming still hesitated, hesitating whether he should say itOr hesitate about those things, how to say it, it is the fairest for Tao Jingjing, the least impact and the fairest for her son.

After thinking about it for a long time, Tao Zhongming still didn't know how to talk about the topic he took the initiative to propose. And Tao Jingjing kept staring at Tao Zhongming with big eyes, waiting for Tao Zhongming to talk about the topic he raised.

"Huahua, grandpa doesn't know how to talk about the things that your father and those two uncles did at the beginning, they may be in a different environment, and the decisions they made are different, so some of the things I want to talk about may not be acceptable to you now, and there is a conflict with your values, but at the beginning, the decisions made by your father, or your two uncles, some of the decisions they made were all decisions that had to be made in a certain environment at that time, there was no right or wrong, I just want to tell you the process they went through, not to tell you who was right and who was wrong, and your mother and your father, Uncle Xiao The emotional twists and turns between them, there is no right or wrong in the relationship, but who met whom first?

Who went through whose relationship process first. So we don't evaluate right or wrong, just like in this relationship between you and you and Xiao Xiche, grandpa never evaluates that Xiao Xiche is right, or you are right, or because you are my granddaughter, I see Xiao Xiche's mistakes, and I can't see what he is good to you, which is not right after all, and it is also unfair to Xiao Xiche, so in your mother's relationship, although grandpa has always treated them as his own children, but your father is my son after all, my own son, I will always be partial emotionally, but in this relationship, grandpa never evaluates which of them is right and who is wrong, just like your mother, The things we did later seem to us to be against morality, but in the emotional world, if you don't love it, you don't love it, and if you don't like it, you don't like it, and no one can control your heart, and we can't evaluate his moral right or wrong or psychological right or wrong. ”

After Tao Zhongming finished speaking, he looked at Tao Jingjing quietly, hoping that Tao Jingjing could understand what he meant and understood what he wanted to express.

"Huahua, you know what grandpa means, right?"

In fact, Tao Zhongming said so much, Tao Jingjing didn't understand what he meant, that is, he didn't want to accept his meaning, it has nothing to do with right or wrong, whether it is in the relationship, or what happened in any situation at that time, those past, in fact, we stand in the perspective of modern people, we can't understand the scene at that time, and we can't evaluate anyone's right or wrong, but emotionally, Tao Jingjing feels that she really can't defeat herself, she can't look at everything that has happened rationally, and she can't look at everything that happened calmly like her grandfather, and even violate morality, even if you look at it now, it is also a violation of morality。

"Grandpa, I know what you mean, but there are some things that I can't accept, things that violate my bottom line, I can't accept them, no matter who it's about?

When Tao Jingjing said this, Tao Zhongming actually understood what she meant, although he wanted to change Tao Jingjing's opinion.