Chapter 149: Understanding
wants her to look at anything that has happened with a rational eye, but he knows that he may just persuade Tao Jingjing not to care too much about the past, but who can really do it?
Thinking about such thoughts, Tao Zhongming's thoughts diverged, and all his memories gradually returned to 40 years ago, when his son was still a young man and had just entered college. I met the neighbors of the place where I used to live, and the girl I liked most in my life. Even now, Tao Zhongming can still recall the brilliance on his face when his son told him about it, which was the light of youth.
"Dad, I'm telling you something unexpected. ”
"What's the matter?", he Zhongming remembered that he was very puzzled when he looked at his son's radiant face, he had never seen his son who had always been calm, and there was such a time.
"Our former neighbor, Uncle Wen, and Uncle Xiao's two children, you know, we used to be classmates in primary and secondary school. ”
Tao Zhongming remembered that his son told him like this, here he didn't mention the two old neighbors who said the names of these two children, Tao Zhongming felt that he would not forget, after all, these two children grew up with their sons from childhood to adulthood, kindergarten, primary school, junior high school, and then they went here to work, and when they transferred their sons, the three of them were reluctant.
"You know, what's wrong with them?"
"They are now my college classmates, and we turned out to be a major. ”
He said that his son couldn't hide his joy when he said this again, and he was sincerely happy for his son at that time.
"What a coincidence!"
"Yes, it's just a coincidence, I thought I was wrong when I saw them, but I didn't expect it to be them, and the three of us were ...... at that time."
But he knew that his son's mood had risen a lot since then, maybe this was the friendship of a teenager, and in college, he would meet more new friends and make new friends, but when he was a teenager, the friendship that he had been with since he was a teenager would never change!
"You can bring them to the house for dinner sometime!"
Every time my son came back on Sunday, I told him this, after all, these two children were far away, and I was still in this city, so I always wanted to take care of them if I could. They too, and they don't treat themselves as outsiders, and often come back with their sons.
shouted "Uncle Tao, Uncle Tao", Tao Zhongming felt more intimate than his own son. Later, they met Mu Qin and Lin Guan, two good girls, and almost every five people came back together, because there were two more girls, and sometimes they couldn't live in the house. Tao Zhongming thought that that time might be the best time for the relationship among the five of them, with nothing to do with personal feelings, only deep friendship with classmates.
Tao Zhongming didn't seem to feel that the five people had changed, but suddenly found that the five of them didn't come back together, sometimes the two boys came back with their son, sometimes it was Wen Zhen, and then Lin Wan came back together, and sometimes sometimes the son came back alone.
But when his son came back alone, or came back with Wen Zhen and them, Paule Ming found that his son's mood was always not high, and it could even be said that he was very low. As an adult's acumen, Tao Zhongming knew that his son had a girl he liked, and it was the girl named Mu Qin.
"Son, do you have a girl you like?"
Although his son usually looks cold and indifferent, the relationship between father and son is still much better than ordinary people, and sometimes he can talk about some topics between men, so after Tao Zhongming found this sign, he asked his son this question directly and easily, after all, his son has already gone to college, and he is considered an adult, with his own ideas, and his own thinking, parents only give a certain reference on the road of their son's growth, and cannot decide how he wants to go, but he still needs to grasp the trend and direction at all times。
Tao Zhongming remembered that when he asked his son this question, his son actually stammered. At this time, Tao Zhongming knew that his guess was right.
Thinking of the gentle and gentle appearance of the girl named Mu Qin, he explained that he was still very pleased, and felt that it was still very good for his son to find such a girlfriend, so Tao Zhongming encouraged his son to take the initiative at that time, and he wanted to tell people if he liked them. But one thing I didn't know was that there were other people who liked the girl named Mu Qin, and the person they liked was their son's good buddy.
In this matter of feelings, who can say that if I like you, you must like me? Or that if I like you, you must respond to me! No, there has never been such a reason, so when his son came back with a depressed face, he knew that this girl named Mu Qin did not like his son.
What did he do at that time? Tao Zhongming thought about it very seriously, as if he was just patting his son on the shoulder and telling him, where there is no grass at the end of the world, why should you love a flower unrequitedly? It seems to be such a cliché, but he didn't realize how stubborn his son is, he likes a person and then he always likes this person.
Even though there are so many herbs in the world and so many girls who take the initiative to like him, the girl named Mu Qin that his son likes from beginning to end. I originally thought that after that incident, I would be quiet and colorful, and college life definitely filled up all the emotional things of my son, but when Xiao Qingshan took Mu Qin to eat at home and officially introduced himself that Mu Qin was his girlfriend, he saw the pain in his son's eyes, as well as the dodging gaze, and the state of being silent and drinking, at this moment, he knew that he was wrong, his son had never let go of Mu Qin.
Parents never need to interfere too much in the matter of feelings, and sometimes they interfere too much, which may be counterproductive.