Don't live up to the trust of Zhang Baotong2016.11.9

There is a story called "Give the Letter to Garcia", which tells the story of the 19th century Spanish-American War, the United States had a strategically important letter that urgently needed to be delivered to the Cuban Allied general Garcia, but Garcia was fighting in the jungle and no one knew where he was. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 This is where a trusted, loyal and reliable person is needed to accomplish this task. A young lieutenant, Andrew Rowan, accepted the task without prevarication or conditions. After three weeks on foot, he walked through a country riddled with danger, and with absolute loyalty, a sense of duty, and a willingness to create miracles, he accomplished this seemingly impossible task, handing the letter to Garcia. This story shows that sometimes the most important factor in achieving success is not because of his outstanding military talents, but because of his good moral character. For this, Lieutenant Rowan will always be remembered.

If we meet someone like Rowan, we can entrust him with some important tasks and trusts without hesitation and without reservation, because he will not mislead you, let alone deceive you.

Now, however, there are so few people like Rowan. Especially when it comes to decorating a house, repairing electrical appliances, or buying items, there are always worries and worries in my heart, for fear that others will cut corners, cut corners, use shoddy products or commit price fraud. I have learned a profound lesson in this regard. A few years ago, my family was divided into two houses due to relocation and had a private renovation company in the south renovated it. Because we were busy with work, we didn't keep an eye on the renovation staff all the time, so in less than two years, the magnetic sheets on the balcony fell off in large pieces, and water seeped into the toilet and kitchen, damaging a large part of the floor. Two days ago, I asked the guy who repaired the computer to repair the computer for me, and he said that the motherboard of the computer was broken and asked to take it back to the company to repair it. At that time, his wife disagreed, fearing that the parts in the computer would be replaced. But I still asked the guy to take the computer back for repair. Because he fixed my computer twice, I had a good impression of him and didn't think he would do it. As a result, he gave me that I don't know how to fix it, the computer runs very slowly, and it crashes at every turn, and it can't start up for half a day. I suspect he's swapped out a part of his computer. So, I called him and lost my temper, saying that he had replaced me with very old things, and asked him to replace the motherboard for me, and if it was not good, he would give him a refund. As a result, he immediately replaced me with some good motherboards and components, and he didn't dare to ask for more money. But I don't trust him anymore. If there is a problem with the computer again, I will not ask him to fix it again.

Trustlessness may lead to cutting corners, cutting corners, cutting corners, or using shoddy products to easily cheat others out of their money. If you want to paste the magnetic sheet well, you have to put a lot of effort and time, and casually smear a little cement, and paste it on the wall is very labor-saving and fast. In this way, the migrant workers who attach the magnets can do more work and earn more money in a day. The same is true for repairing computers, he dismantles the computer parts he has acquired, and replaces them with old parts for you, not only earning your service fee, but also earning your equipment fee. In fact, people should make money, but you have to ensure the quality, and you can't let your family's original new car make you repair an old car. If you keep doing this, who will dare to let you work again in the future?

This happened to our community not so long ago. A guy had a problem with his mobile phone, so he took it to a small shop that repaired his mobile phone to repair it. After repairing it, the guy felt that the mobile phone was still not easy to use, so he went to another mobile phone store to find someone to repair it. The person who repaired the phone told him that the parts in the phone had been replaced. As soon as the guy heard this, he found the shop that used to repair the mobile phone to question. The person who repaired the mobile phone in the store did not admit it, but the guy immediately found a few people to surround the small store and demanded that the person who repaired the mobile phone return the money and compensate. When the people on both sides quarreled, the guy led someone to beat him, not only injured the person who repaired the mobile phone, but also lifted the stall that repaired the mobile phone. Since then, the man who repaired the phone has never dared to show up in the community.

On the contrary, when my family was pasting wallpaper on the new house, my relatives recommended the Henan couple who lived in the southern suburbs of Xi'an, saying that they were very good, so my wife specially invited the couple to paste the wallpaper. Sure enough, the two of them posted well, so not only did we give them food and drink, but my wife also recommended them to two other families who wanted to put wallpapers. When the couple was sticking wallpaper, I asked them how their business was, and they said that they couldn't finish the work they had done, and they couldn't go home before the New Year.

Trust is a matter of a person's credibility. Not only do business, but you need to do everything. In fact, there are many things in our lives and society that test our trust. A few years ago, I heard a story when I visited the house of a large family in Shanxi. The head of this house was once the child of a poor family, working for a large family. The master of the family saw that the child was diligent, simple, and loyal, so he wanted the child to be his son-in-law. So, he deliberately put the child to the test, dropped a silver dollar on the ground, and then hid to see what would happen to the child when he found it. However, the boy found the silver dollar and gave it to him as soon as he could. This touched him very much, so he decided to let the child start to learn to manage the accounts, and leave some important affairs of the family to the child in charge, so that he could be in charge of all the business of this family in the future.

We can imagine if this kid picks up the silver dollar, he doesn't give it to the master, but is greedy. In fact, there are many people or businesses and manufacturers who like to play a little trick and a little cleverness in the face of honesty and credibility, and even say that they play a little conspiracy. The purpose is to take advantage of a little bit of cheapness and a little benefit. As everyone knows, taking advantage of small advantages often suffers big losses and loses the overall situation. Nanjing's Guansheng Garden, borrowing the light of Shanghai's Guansheng Garden, is also a well-known enterprise, but in order to save costs, it actually uses the filling of moon cakes that were not sold in the previous year to make the new moon cakes of the current year; Jinhua ham is famous, but it tries to quickly use chemicals that are harmful to the human body to process it; Shanxi old vinegar has a long history, but in order to reduce costs, industrial vinegar essence is added; Beijing Liubi is famous at home and abroad, but it wants to buy from dirty small workshops in the countryside of Tianjin; Jingzhou in Hubei Province uses hair water to process soy sauce; Xihua County in Henan Province uses flavor to blend wine; Changyi in Shandong Province injects water into white chicken to increase fattening; Anyang in Henan Province uses carcinogenic ingredients to make yuba; and Zaozhuang in Shandong Province uses ink to dye black fungus。 As a result, they were not only punished by the law, but also bankrupt.

Everyone knows that trust is the foundation of business and life. However, why do so many people and businesses and manufacturers fail to be trustworthy? It is because they think that the masses of the people can be deceived and deceived, because the state's inspection and the implementation of the legal system are not good, because they feel that their methods will not be exposed and will not be discovered by others. But the most important thing is that they are morally corrupt, black-hearted, and have lost their conscience. More than 20 years ago, there was an incident in our hometown of Miluo County, Hunan Province, that shocked the whole country. After the pesticides produced by the Miluo Pesticide Factory destroyed the fertile land of many farmers, the black-hearted boss fled after hearing the news. Later, although he returned, whenever people saw him, they cursed him and cursed him bitterly. I imagine what it would be like not to come to a person who lives in a high-end western-style building, drives a high-end car, and can spend a lot of money, and as soon as he goes out, people poke his back and scold him for cutting off his children and grandchildren, and he can't die well!

The money we spend is earned by hard work, which will make us feel natural and comfortable. If a person spends money that is stolen or cheated, how does he feel when he spends it? Those who have earned money against his will or by his will will certainly have a sense of disobedience and loss when he spends it. Because it will make him think that the money is not obtained from normal channels, and it will make him think of the dirty deeds when he got the money. Because he betrayed his conscience and betrayed the trust of others.

Trust is considered a dependency relationship in our society. It is a stable belief that maintains a shared value and moral code for society, and is in line with the interests and relationships of both parties. Mutual trust allows us to disarm, bridge our estrangement, and become interdependent. On the contrary, mutual distrust will lead to mutual suspicion and vigilance, and even hatred and hostility on both sides. In the years of peace between China and the Soviet Union, it can be said that there was no defense on the border of several thousand kilometers of the Sino-Soviet border, and almost no border troops were stationed. However, when Sino-Soviet relations deteriorated, both sides had millions of troops on the frontier, launching attacks at any time, and even aimed nuclear weapons at each other. This has caused great threat and loss to both sides. If both sides can trust each other, many things will be much easier. I remember when I first joined the work, I worked as a platform bellman at Xi'an Railway Station, and handled the handover procedures for luggage and parcels with the porter of the baggage car. Some trains load and unload a lot of bags, and sometimes the train starts and the stevedores have not finished loading. At this time, it is necessary to stop loading and sign with the porter on the bus. However, sometimes because the goods are loaded very quickly and a lot of confusion, the train porter can't count them, and then you ask him to sign, he will refuse to sign for you, and if you sign you, you have no responsibility, if there is a problem with the bag, it is his responsibility. However, if he doesn't sign, it will be considered your accident, and you won't be able to hand over work after work, and you will have to hold a safety analysis meeting. Because both parties often deal with each other, they don't want to embarrass each other, so although the other party doesn't know whether the goods you loaded are right, he will also sign for you. This is called credit handover, and it is based on the ordinary reputation of both parties. Although this method is considered illegal, everyone does it. But if you really put the wrong thing on someone's page, they won't sign it for you next time.

In fact, we're doing this kind of credit handover a lot of the time. The most common is when one person hands you a dozen pieces of money, and you may not even count them, but just put them in your pocket, because you believe in the other person's character. In addition, I used to travel alone in the mountains of Shangluo, and every time it was dark, someone invited me to stay at their house. They didn't know who I was, but they believed me. This is their kindness and kindness to me, and it is also their sincere trust in me. So, when I go into the mountains in the future, I have to go to their house and give them some gifts.

A person with high credibility will not deceive others, and others will not betray him. There was a man named Jib. He offended Liu Bang, the ancestor of the Han Dynasty, and was arrested with a reward. As a result, his old friends were not only not deceived by the heavy money, but also risked the destruction of the Nine Clans to protect him, and finally saved him from disaster. If a person loses his trust with his friends for the sake of a temporary gain, he is ostensibly getting a "benefit". But it can ruin your reputation, which is much more important than the benefits.

We like to be with people we trust and stay away from those we don't. If anyone has deceived us, then we hate deceitful and deceitful. Otherwise, we will say that trust is the key to opening the heart, and sincerity is the bridge to the heart. In this way, we can be open to those who trust, we can be honest with each other, we can be heart-to-heart, because their hearts are closest to our hearts. We hope that others will be sincere and honest with us, and we also hope to be a bosom friend to others. This requires us to be faithful and sincere to one another.

However, mutual trust sometimes needs to be done in ways and means, otherwise it will turn against each other due to accidents. One such thing happened in our community, where Mr. A and Mr. B have been friends for many years. Once, Mr. B borrowed 50,000 yuan from Mr. A for renovating his house. At that time, because the relationship between the two parties was very iron, there was no IOU. However, many years later, Mr. A saw that Mr. B always didn't mention the matter of repaying the money, so he said that his son wanted to buy a car and asked him to return the money to him. However, Mr. B said that he had not borrowed Mr. A's money, and asked Mr. A to take out the IOU. For this reason, Mr. A sued Mr. B to the court. However, the court was unable to decide the case because there was no evidence.

Trust is a true feeling, a kindness, worthy of each of us to cherish and love. At the same time, trust is also a responsibility and trust, which needs to be taken seriously and prudently. A few days ago, I saw a family of three on TV, and a total of five people with the two children of the woman's sister's family, who traveled to Hainan during the summer vacation, but the weather was bad that day, and they still went to the sea to swim, and finally caused the husband, daughter and two children of the sister's family to be drowned by the waves. The husband and daughter were rescued, but the husband was not rescued, and the two children of the sister's family were not even found at that time. I really don't know how this woman should communicate to her relatives.

When we promise someone else's things, we take on someone else's responsibility. It's like when you ask your coach to play before an important game. As a result, after you come on the field, you are beaten by your opponent. At this point, the coach will be very annoyed. In the face of such responsibilities and risks, we are not too sure, and it is best not to take the initiative. Because if you are not up to the job or if you make a mistake, you will be blamed and blamed. If the coach sends you on the pitch, you can tell the coach that I'm not sure I'm going to win, but I'm going to do my best. That way even if you lose the game, the coach won't blame you. When the coach sends the players to play, he is based on the strength of the players and the knowledge of the players. Some players often lose games, but the coach will still send them on the field, but some players may lose the coach's trust once they lose. But if you want to keep the coach from breaking the word, you have to strengthen your strength, and you have to keep your word and not lie about it.

Trust comes from sincerity, is the call and implication of the heart, and it is also a true embodiment of our moral feelings. Therefore, we must adhere to trust, not to live up to it, and let trust become an emotional habit of happiness and respect in our lives. In this way, even if we travel to the ends of the earth, we will be respected and welcomed by others. (To be continued.) )