Chapter 1006: Happiness Doesn't Have to Wait (Page 1/1)

Happiness does not need to wait for Zhang Baotong 2018.11.14

We often think that when I get married, I'll be happy, when my children grow up, or when I retire, I'll be happy. As everyone knows, after getting married, the relationship between husband and wife will slowly change, and you will have a lot of troubles to deal with, such as your wife's pregnancy, increased family burden, etc., maybe you will not feel happy. When the child grows up, it may not make you worry, sometimes you feel that the child is getting older and more worrying, such as his work problems, marriage problems and children's problems, there is a heart that you can't finish, in the face of these, can you feel happy? When you retire, you may not have the pressure of work, you can easily come down and take a breath, but at this time, your body is not so good, your energy is much worse, you need to see a doctor often, and your relatives and friends in the past are slowly estranged, you will feel very lost and lonely.

There is a strange phenomenon in life: when we are young, we always imagine the future as very beautiful, but when we are old, we always like to miss the good old days. In fact, every time period of our life has a side that makes us yearn for and a side that makes us troubled.

When we were young, we had to let our parents take care of everything, there was a lot of unfreedom, and there were many wishes that were not fulfilled and fulfilled. I remember when I was a child, I wanted to set off firecrackers during the Chinese New Year, but my parents wouldn't give me money, and I was very greedy when I saw other children eating candy, but I didn't have a penny in my hand. I thought to myself, when I grow up and can earn money, I can buy a lot of firecrackers and candy. However, when I really grew up and could make a lot of money, I was no longer interested in firecrackers and sweets. When we were young, we had no money, but when we were old, we lost our childlike interest. At every stage of life, there will be some troubles and worries, although these troubles and worries will gradually disappear with age. However, the anguishes and worries of the new age will follow. Every age will have its troubles and worries, but it will also have its happiness and joy.

Life is a process, not an end. So, it's not what some people think, that a person only needs to suffer and accumulate virtue and do good deeds for a lifetime, and then he will eventually go to heaven and enjoy happiness. Life is more like a journey, you have to walk all the way to enjoy the scenery along the way, and enjoy the joy and happiness of the world. Because the happiness of life is strung together by specific happiness like beads, the more particles of this string of beads, the longer the chain of your happiness, and the higher the happiness index of life. Therefore, we cannot regard happiness as the ultimate goal of life. If we are always waiting for happiness, then we may never be happy.

Happiness is not something that waits to come, it needs to be created and created. Just like when we sow seeds in the spring, we will reap the fruits in the fall. A hard work, a harvest, a harvest is a happiness. Our happiness and joy are obtained through hard work and harvest. So, don't think of hard work as a kind of suffering, and don't take the harvest as a matter of course. If so, we won't feel happy and happy.

Modern ideas require people to live in the moment and be happy in time. This is an effective way to keep yourself in a happy state of mind, beautify your life and live a happy life. As it is true, life is full of uncertainties, we can never predict what tomorrow will bring, and there is no more precious moment than now. Therefore, waiting for happiness and hoping for happiness often make us wait for worry and sorrow.

There will be many troubles and sorrows in life, and we always want to start a new life after they have been eliminated. In fact, getting rid of these troubles and sorrows is a part of our lives in itself. There is no way to happiness in the world, and living happily is our way of life. The path of life is full of worries and joys, pain and happiness, and worries will make happiness more enjoyable, and pain will make happiness sweeter.

Life is short, and time is running out. Don't think about waiting until middle school to start a school, starting a business when you have the money, getting married or getting divorced, buying a house or a car, retiring or doing something next year. When you reach the end of your life, you will truly understand that this is the time when you should be happiest and happy.

No matter what kind of setbacks and troubles you encounter, you must treat it as a kind of life tempering and experience, and deal with it calmly. Happiness does not need to wait, the process of finding happiness itself is happiness, and there is no end on this road. As long as we can work without worrying about salary, love with an open heart, and sing and dance as if no one else is around. Maintain an optimistic attitude towards life. We will be able to live happily.

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