The Interpretation of Love, translated by Zhang Baotong 2018.1.30

There are 4 people in your life, and how many can you find?

The first is yourself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person who will accompany you through the years to come.

First, you will meet someone you love the most and learn to feel what it feels like to be loved. Only when you understand the feeling of love will you find the person who loves you the most. When you experience the feeling of loving and being loved, you will know who you need most.

So you can find the person who loves you the most. Then you will find the best person for you to spend your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these 3 people are usually not the same person. The person you love the most doesn't love you. The person who loves you the most will never be the one you love the most. The person you spend your life with will never be the person you love the most, nor the person who loves you the most. And the person you meet is the one who happens to meet you at some point. And what kind of person are you in someone else's life?

No one will change their minds lightly. He truly loves you when he loves you. But when he doesn't love you anymore, he really doesn't love you anymore. When he loves you, he doesn't pretend not to love you. In the same way, when he no longer loves you, he will not pretend to love you.

When a person no longer loves you and wants to leave you. You have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't keep him in order to maintain your self-esteem.

If you still love him, you should wish him happiness and hope that he can be with the person you love and not stop him. If you prevent him from getting real happiness from the person he loves, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him anymore, what right do you have to blame him for his change of heart?

Love is not for possession, and if you like the moon, you can't pluck it from heaven and put it in your basin. But the moonlight still shines on you in the sky. In other words, when you fall in love with someone, you can take another approach to possessing him and making him a permanent memory in your life. If you really love someone, you should love him no matter what. Love his strengths and love his weaknesses. You can't make him love you as much as you love him. And when he can't love you as much as you love him, you don't love him anymore.

When you truly love someone, you can't find a reason to love them for that. You can only understand that whenever and wherever you are, when you are in a good mood or when you are in a bad mood, you will want this person to be with you.

True love is when two people can solve any of the toughest problems without asking for commitments or hard targets. In this relationship, you have to put in the effort, sometimes make compromises, and not always wait to be accepted.

Being separated from each other is also a test. If the relationship between the two is not harmonious, then you can only break up. True love never turns into hatred. When two people love each other, they like to swear to each other and make promises. Why do they swear and promise to each other? Because they don't trust each other, they don't trust their lovers.

These vows and promises are useless. But we all know that the sky will never fall, the earth will never fall, the sea will never dry, and the stones will never rot. If the sky really collapses and the sea withers and the rocks rot, will we still be able to live?

Be sincere in your promises, don't promise promises you can't keep. Swear by those things that will never happen, and it will not cause any bad consequences. And swearing to the other person with this kind of thing that can never happen is often the most moving. But since it is a relationship, perhaps what you say is one thing, and what you do is another, so you don't believe it yourself when you say it, and neither does the one who listens to it.