Do you still dare to believe your son's wordsZhang Baotong 2018.8.27

The old Wei Tou of the railway community has been a train driver for a lifetime, lived to be 74 years old, and before he died, he handed over the real estate certificate and bank card to his wife, saying, "You have been frugal with me in this life, and you have given birth to two sons and two daughters, it is not easy, I am leaving, leaving you two houses and 300,000 yuan." You can live in this house and rent out the house. You have to keep the money, as long as you have some money in your hand, the children will stick to you. ”

Although Lao Wei Tou doesn't have much culture, he also knows a little about the living conditions in the community and among his colleagues, so he knows that some of his children can be relied on, and some of them can't. Relying on children to provide for the elderly, it is better to rely on money for the elderly. That's why he wants to leave the money he has saved all his life to his wife.

Lao Wei Po has no education and no job, so she came out of the countryside and followed Lao Wei. I usually don't care much about money, and I feel a little helpless when I suddenly take over this amount of money and these houses. The eldest daughter, Baofeng, said to her, "Mom, if you keep your money in the bank, you can't spend it slowly." You live in one house, and I will rent out the other one for you, and you can get a thousand yuan in rent a month. Old Wei Po listened to the eldest daughter's words and felt that what the eldest daughter said was the same as what the old man said, so she agreed.

Soon, the eldest son Baoliang came with his daughter-in-law, and greeted his mother very affectionately, and the daughter-in-law also bought her some clothes and nutritional products. This made the old Wei Po very moved, because the eldest daughter-in-law didn't come to see her during the New Year in the past, but now she is very close to her mother, how can the old man not be happy. In order to make his mother happy, Baoliang drove his mother to the suburbs today to see the scenery, and tomorrow he took his mother to a restaurant to try it. Let the mother feel that the eldest son and daughter-in-law are really sensible and filial.

After the death of his wife, Lao Wei Po lived at home alone, her two sons Baoliang and Bao'an, and her two daughters Baofeng and Baorong all lived not far away and often came to visit the elderly. However, the eldest son, Baoliang, thought that his mother was too lonely to live alone, so he persuaded his mother to move to their house, so that his mother could have a companion and a care. The eldest daughter, Baofeng, resolutely refused to let her mother move in with her brother, because she knew that her brother was doing this out of hypocrisy, intending to plot the money and house in her mother's hands. However, the eldest son persuaded her over and over again, and the daughter-in-law also held her arm all day long, behaving very affectionately and considerately. This moved the hearts of some lonely old people. So, the old man obeyed Baoliang's arrangement and moved to their house.

The son and daughter-in-law are very considerate and caring for the elderly, which makes the elderly feel very warm and happy. Originally, Baofeng resolutely disagreed with her mother moving to her brother's house, but now that her mother has moved in, she has no choice, so she is angry and doesn't visit her mother much.

Soon, Baoliang said to his mother, "Mom, you will live in our house in the future, eat in our house, and we will provide for you in old age." When my mother heard this, she was naturally very happy. Then, Baoliang said to his mother, "You live with us, you can eat whatever you want, you want whatever you want, it's useless if you want money and a house, just let us keep the money and the house for you." When a mother doesn't believe in her son, who else can she believe? So, the mother felt that what her son said was reasonable, she was an old woman, she had food, clothing, and housing, so why did she ask for money and a house? So, she called her second son Bao'an, and as soon as she discussed with her two sons, she gave the two houses to the eldest son and the younger son one set each. He also handed over the more than 300,000 yuan in his hand to his eldest son for safekeeping.

Originally, Lao Wei Po had two houses and more than 300,000 yuan in her hands, and her sons still valued her very much, but without money and a house, Lao Wei Po really had nothing. And an old woman who has nothing can easily be seen as a burden and a burden when she stays in someone's house. Within two days, the daughter-in-law thought she was dirty and annoying, so she rented a small house for her to live in somewhere else. Not only is the house very small, but there is no kitchen or toilet. Because he had no money in his hand and had to live, the old man had to pick up garbage and pick up rags.

One day, someone said to Baofeng that your mother was picking up rubbish in the garbage dump in an urban village. Baofeng didn't believe it, but when she came to the garbage dump, she saw her mother with a gray face, tattered clothes, and a snakeskin bag picking up rags on the garbage dump. Baofeng was distressed and angry. She cried and said to her mother, "Why are you like this?" and her mother said bitterly and regretfully, "I gave the house to your brother and your brother, and the money to your brother and sister-in-law, or I will not come back." What do you think I should do if I don't do this?"

Baofeng took her mother back to her house, bathed her mother, let her mother eat, and then called her sister Baorong and ran to her sister-in-law's house to question her brother and sister-in-law, and asked her brother to hand over her mother's money and house. My brother said that the house was rented out and the money was gone.

Seeing that their brother was cheating, the sisters discussed it and decided that the two of them would take care of their mother's pension. However, the mother had no money to support the elderly, so they decided that they would not want the mother's house, but they had to ask the elder brother to return the mother's more than 300,000 yuan. However, the elder brother refused to hand over the money, saying that all the money was spent and none of them were gone.

In the end, the sisters had no choice but to take their brother to court. After understanding, the court seriously reprimanded Baoliang and ordered him to return all the more than 300,000 yuan of his mother's pension to his mother. Baoliang had no choice but to return his mother's money to his mother. However, because of this, he hated his two sisters to death, and never associated with them again, nor did he take care of his mother.

This incident made Lao Wei Po regret it very much, if she could follow her wife's deathbed words and take the money and house in her own hands, how could she cause this kind of thing, not only did she suffer hardships and grievances, but also made her children become enemies. But how could she know that her son would treat her like this?

As a mother, she always uses traditional ideas to imagine her son very well. However, I don't know that my son may no longer be a filial son in the traditional sense. The mother of a colleague also has two houses, one for herself and one for unused. Because her son got married and didn't have a house, her colleague told her mother to lend her house to her son for marriage. Then his mother said to him, "If you give me 100,000 yuan, I will give you this house." Because my mother has no job, she has to rely on the 100,000 yuan to support her retirement. This house is more than 80 square meters, and it is worth more than 500,000 yuan. My colleague immediately agreed. However, when his mother gave him the house, she asked him for money, but his colleague changed his face and told his mother that I didn't have a penny. Later, my colleague explained to us that because my father had left a lot of money after his death, my mother had given some money to his brother, but she had never given him a penny. What he meant was that since the elder brother had received his mother's money, he should have received his mother's house.

The aging process of Chinese society is intensifying, and many elderly people are facing the problem of providing for the elderly after a lifetime of hard work. If there is no money and no house, then the pension can only rely on children. Relying on children for the elderly will have many misfortunes and inconveniences, because if you eat other people's food and live in other people's houses, you have to look at other people's faces and be angry with others. Therefore, when the elderly are old-aged, they should take good care of their own money and do not give money to their children at will. This will not only cause difficulties for their own retirement life, but also exacerbate the contradictions between their children.

There are so many examples of this, and hopefully people can learn from them.